Originally posted by hard boy:
let me tell u its sad to be ugly. i can't get the cute and pretty girls. girls don wan look at me. when i look at cute girls they feel disgust becos i ugly and not handsome boy look at them. for fat ugly girls i noe is worst becos ugly girls nobody wan to even rape. so sad.
hey man, from your post. i can understand you feel damn blardy lousy right now. and probably it's been going on for quite some time. you tell me that it's sad to be ugly. fair enough, if that is how you feel. but lemme also say that you feel lousy coz you think you are lousy.
if you're always so pessimistic like that, then it shows in the way you behave, you know? you are less sociable than you would like to be, right? do you shy away from meeting new people coz you're afraid they might not like you? somehow this mentality will manifest in your actions, and the expressions you wear on your face. and hence you might appear to be less friendly than you really are. maybe you are a kind person, but people think you are not because you wear a severe expression all the time.
I would say people are more than their looks. You read sgforums... so many threads about yandao kias hooking up with normal looking gals and vice versa. There must be other qualities in a person besides the looks. Also, there are other things in life besides girls, right or not.
This way of thinking is adversely affecting your life. Pls do not persist in thinking this way anymore. You can help yourself! There are other good things about you besides your looks.
Why must you torture yourself by focusing on the fact that you are being unfairly treated because of your looks?
Don't!
Think positively. You are more than your looks.
So wat if girls don't ogle at you? No prob. You think they feel disgusted when you look at them, aiyah, girls mostly are like that when they can feel guys are mentally undressing them. Try not to sweat over this kinda matters, ok, dude?
When you think more positively, you will appear to be a "nicer" person, more like the person probably are. And you will be able to make friends more easily. So you should take that step.
Think positive, dude. No matter what sheeeet comes your way, shrug it off. coz life is full of sheeeet. everyone is the same. dun let it get you down.
Dun worry, be happy.