wat if....
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another advice,if u wan to haf sex...ask her to check if she got stds first
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everyone has a past.. surely even u do.. how would u feel if u were throw out just coz ur past.. even one that u did not have control over?
my take on this is.. if u think shes serious.. even at 16.. it should be good enuff for u.. think of it this way.. at least u noe shes truthful about it.. -
she must be very chio or cfm..
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thn fcuk her anal lor... some consolation would be you are the first one there..
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if u truly love her as u said, why let her virginity upsets u?
they were the past.. dun compare or dwell over them.
these memories were bad enuff to haunt her for the rest of her life; if she really kana raped b4.
so y make life difficult for urself and for her?
prove to her tat u r the best guy for her and she will loves u even more. -
i believe.. this should be in the aunt agony section?
Anyway, hellflame.. Life is about experiencing new things.
Whatever you do, do not regret.
Whatever you do, try not to hurt others.
can you live with this "Fact" about her?
Why would she trust you with this secret about her?
You have nothing to lose, but she has her pride as stake.
Virgin doesn't equal to angel.
she only has memories of boys hurting her, try building her trust in males again?
Make sure shes matured enough to accept the fact that one day you both may part.
What do you like about her? If its for sex, then i understand why you post this topic here. If its for her moral values and principles in life, don't worry. Females are pragmatic. They tend to do logically upright things. But males tend to bend that will of theirs. She may be strong, but weak towards affection. This type of girl you would have to pay extra attention to her, make her feel secured.
Do you love her? Love is not about physical stuffs, its about the willingness of supporting her mentally in your life.
How long have you both known each other?
Do you think you have known her enough?
Think.. Figure.. Analyse.. Its your future, not ours, we only can help you think deeper, but the ultimate decision is still with you. Good luck..
...................................... I don't think this is relevant to bar anyway?
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U believed that all her 6 ex-bfs raped her?
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hey look she said she was rape to make u pity her so u won't mind her past since she was "raped" . if she really was being rape she won't have 6 ex cause the first experience will have aleady have a shadow over her. or u never listen finish " i was rape by my 6 exs..........................together"
don't be silly if she tells u she loved every single of her ex then therefor do it with them is mostly likely she don't know wad TRUE LOVE is . kids nowdays often misuse the word love for sex.... u won't want to use a tooth brush that has being use by 6 unknow users to brush their teeth right ? this might sound offensive (sorry to all) but that is cold hard facts. -
u believe her ex rape her? she is willing... we have needs, we are also curious and there are guys out there who really knows how to make us feel good in bed. please, wake up. 6 is nothing. u will feel even worse if she does not let u have her.Originally posted by hellflame88:bt u noe, i can c tt shee serious abt tis relationship, n in fact, her 6-exs was actually raping her, nt she wanted to, therefore she breaks with them, n i can c tt shes really happy with me n even her parent c tt she really luvs me... so i guess i shldnt care abt her past n carry on with life huh? if shes nt serious den i guess she wld nt tell me abt her past rite? cos she believe i wun abandon her bcos she was raped b4 huh? guess i shld give her my luv n hope my luv 4 her can help her 4get her sad past time huh? need sum gals advice on this issue... thx... -
are u sure 6 only?.....the truth is, maybe more than that....
if u can't beat them, join them......
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FROM a Ger's Pt of view, I can tell u.....Originally posted by hellflame88:bt u noe, i can c tt shee serious abt tis relationship, n in fact, her 6-exs was actually raping her, nt she wanted to, therefore she breaks with them, n i can c tt shes really happy with me n even her parent c tt she really luvs me... so i guess i shldnt care abt her past n carry on with life huh? if shes nt serious den i guess she wld nt tell me abt her past rite? cos she believe i wun abandon her bcos she was raped b4 huh? guess i shld give her my luv n hope my luv 4 her can help her 4get her sad past time huh? need sum gals advice on this issue... thx...
SHE'S LYING....i could tell u tt either she made up the stories of having sex with 6 guys, or else it is impossible to be raped by all 6 boyfrenz...
she is just seeking for sympathy, and perhaps as she is ashamed of her past, tt y she tried to cover it up by saying she is raped rather than saying she is the willing party...
Think hard: There's a great diff when a gal told u that she had sex with 6 guys out of willingness, and she was being raped by 6 guys...
haiz.. but dun ask so much la.. think how would the gal feel if she happened to come across or find out this topic abt her...
now the thing is, if u like her enough, then stay on and change her to be a better person.. make her love herself more...
if u feel ashamed of having her as a gf, then move on.. dun end up hurting the gal even more.. or ended up being the seventh bf who "raped" her... as she might claimed later to her next bf.. -
Not that I wanna judge the girl or your relationship...
1. its began on a shaky start.... I doubt it will last, and you are just another one for her to lean on. There's already not much trust about her.
2. She's kinda easy isn't it... at 16, 6 guys, sex with all of them. Perhaps she is trying out as much as she can. Does she know what she want??? Really really!?!?!
3. After knowing and trying out so many guys, as the other people said, she must be chio... Then what make you think she'll settle with you. Most Chio girls know they are chio and they have high standards regarding guys - 5 C and 5 B.
4. I suppose the both of you are quite young, so unless you are talking about long term marriage, nothing is serious.
Maybe she'll repeat the story with the next guy....
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Originally posted by A-c-i-D:
why advise him to kiss her goodbye, I would suggest after he F her "song song", ask her when she want to do it again.
if u r looking 4 a sex mate u can F her up until u song den [b]kiss her gd bye..
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then if u do it and break with her she is going to the next guy and tell him " i was being rape by all my 7ex "
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tip from mahai: shag her brains out, then dump her for a virgin...
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check for STDs 1st..den F her..F till u grow sick of her..den find a virgin if she is raped by 1st and 2nd guy..u tink she still dare 2 find a new guy for a new relationship? she will be mentally hurt and hate love..tinkin tt all men wan love for sex..6guys leh wtf lol..must be she willing one..can post her pic? we analyse for u =D
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both of u r still young. Perhaps she used the word 'Rape' to make things look good. To make u symphatise her past or watever.
if u r so particular abt this issue, find another gf bah..no point dwelling on this. It only makes both of u suffer in the end.
U love a person for who he/she is, u know... not because of what he/she has..
You dun go around asking pple whether they r virgins b4 u start a r/s, right?