Gals, How much can u trust ur boyfriend's best friend?
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that is more to goodbyeOriginally posted by hiddengal:Good idea... Maybe he dun mind too... haha... That'll be chaotic...
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If he dun mind...something is seriously wrong..hahaOriginally posted by hiddengal:Good idea... Maybe he dun mind too... haha... That'll be chaotic... -
so i recogn tat tis gal is his best fren long b4 u n him is an item???Originally posted by hiddengal:And his best friend is a gal....
They are each other's best friend. They shop together, confide in each other, outing together, etc. They stayed overnite at each other's house occasionally... Just like buddies.. The only thing is they aren't together.... Coz u u r the guy's galfren....
Can u trust the both of them??
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Actually i haf no idea... Coz it's not mi...Originally posted by Inzaghi:so i recogn tat tis gal is his best fren long b4 u n him is an item???
Does it make a diff???
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so... is she prettier or uglier than you?
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of cos it does!!..if ur bf knew her n being her best fren long b4 u appear, tat mean both of them are really just frens nia, if not he wont be ur bf already right??..den it should be pretty safeOriginally posted by hiddengal:Actually i haf no idea... Coz it's not mi...
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people can change...
Originally posted by Inzaghi:of cos it does!!..if ur bf knew her n being her best fren long b4 u appear, tat mean both of them are really just frens nia, if not he wont be ur bf already right??..den it should be pretty safe -
ya..but pretty unlikely if its for a long long time liaoOriginally posted by MeoW_MeoW:people can change... -
hmm my ex crush overnighted at my place quite often one lor...but I dun think he feels anything towards me. We can either spend the whole night talking also, and he admits that he can talk a lot with me but yet we are just frens...Originally posted by hiddengal:And his best friend is a gal....
They are each other's best friend. They shop together, confide in each other, outing together, etc. They stayed overnite at each other's house occasionally... Just like buddies.. The only thing is they aren't together.... Coz u u r the guy's galfren....
Can u trust the both of them??
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i used to play golf. and my best fren's bf also like. so we (me and him) sometimes go JB and play, with my fren's knowledge. first few times, nothing happened, just some naughty flirts. he said he enjoy watching me swing. i did not know what he meant. later he said he like looking at my panty lines when i swing.Originally posted by icyprincess:hmm my ex crush overnighted at my place quite often one lor...but I dun think he feels anything towards me. We can either spend the whole night talking also, and he admits that he can talk a lot with me but yet we are just frens...
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when he start buying me flowers, i also go soft in my heart. golf in JB became no golf at all. it was a getaway to make love in various places. he will hold my hands, and all. public display of affection, which he cannot do in Singapore.
those where very good times. all in all, over time, love and lust will develop, no matter how close u are to ur fren or best fren. its natural. all of us want to love and be loved. the need to hold and be held. and one thing leads to another... -
uh i can trust them. there's nothing wrong with them being buddies. if he's inclined to cheat, he will do so with or without the bud.
however, if i were the girl..i'd see less of my buddy because i don't want the gf to think too much.
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cant tahan...juz mutual frenship between 2 ppl goin this close is almost impossible ba....might hab....but surely either one feels for the other....
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If i had a GF who dun mind I go shopping with my girl buddies or over night at her place, I wuill do it more often. Dun have to play hide and seek and the GF maybe still dreaming nothing happen. buddy mah....
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maybe i'm generalising.. but y r girls always so suspicious of their bf's female frens.. my present gf also lidat.. she gets particularly touchy when i mention abt them..haiz.. are girls very territorial n possessive? For me i give my gf alot of freedom.. she can go out with anyone or be friends with anyone.. as long as she knows her limits.. wat's wrong with having buddies with the opp sex?Originally posted by hiddengal:And his best friend is a gal....
They are each other's best friend. They shop together, confide in each other, outing together, etc. They stayed overnite at each other's house occasionally... Just like buddies.. The only thing is they aren't together.... Coz u u r the guy's galfren....
Can u trust the both of them?? -
hey.. i really take my hat off to u.. n pple who can be frens with their ex(s).. some how i dun seem to be able.. though i would like to.. i'm juz zhui3 ying4.. refuse to interact.. haiz..Originally posted by icyprincess:hmm my ex crush overnighted at my place quite often one lor...but I dun think he feels anything towards me. We can either spend the whole night talking also, and he admits that he can talk a lot with me but yet we are just frens...
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If u r not going to trust him, den will u ever? If u dun trust him, why r u with him? If u dun trust him, i havent u leave him?
A relationship is built on mutual trust.. if u dun trust him.. one half of the bond is gone.. n the relationship is doomed..
firstly, u should learn to trust him.. accept the fact tt he will have buddies n tt some will be females..
secondly, tell him tt trust is crucial in a relationship n tt u trust him.. n u hope he doesnt misplace ur trust..
thirdly, if he does misplace ur trust.. dump him.. he's not worth it..
If everything's well.. tt good for u..
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hmm...i oso dunno how we manage...i used to think it was impossible oso. but he seems to be pretty comfortable with me even after the rejection, so i just let things continue the way it is now...Originally posted by Gackt247:hey.. i really take my hat off to u.. n pple who can be frens with their ex(s).. some how i dun seem to be able.. though i would like to.. i'm juz zhui3 ying4.. refuse to interact.. haiz..
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i do not believe can trust a guy with a gal, no matter what. after what i go thru, i believe a guy will always be a guy. starting they very gentleman, but there will be days when he is upset, or depressed or angry. when he needed someone to console him or something like that. and when i feel i am in those situations, or when i feel his vibes and want to do with me, as a 3rd party, naturally, cos he has his needs. seen so many men behave like that...Originally posted by Gackt247:If u r not going to trust him, den will u ever? If u dun trust him, why r u with him? If u dun trust him, i havent u leave him?
A relationship is built on mutual trust.. if u dun trust him.. one half of the bond is gone.. n the relationship is doomed..
firstly, u should learn to trust him.. accept the fact tt he will have buddies n tt some will be females..
secondly, tell him tt trust is crucial in a relationship n tt u trust him.. n u hope he doesnt misplace ur trust..
thirdly, if he does misplace ur trust.. dump him.. he's not worth it..
If everything's well.. tt good for u..
when the time comes, for me or for him, we will always end up rolling in bed....always.... -
well, I was always there to console him when he is sad, I think that's why he always come to look for me when he feels depressed cos I never turned him away, no matter how painful his stories might seem to me (cos he always talked about other girls that he likes). But he never tried anything funny on me so I dun really care. I think he doesn't really want sex or anything, he just wants companionship, so I am not afraid to give dat to him...Originally posted by jaimeyeo:i do not believe can trust a guy with a gal, no matter what. after what i go thru, i believe a guy will always be a guy. starting they very gentleman, but there will be days when he is upset, or depressed or angry. when he needed someone to console him or something like that. and when i feel i am in those situations, or when i feel his vibes and want to do with me, as a 3rd party, naturally, cos he has his needs. seen so many men behave like that...
when the time comes, for me or for him, we will always end up rolling in bed....always....
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Good guy...Originally posted by icyprincess:well, I was always there to console him when he is sad, I think that's why he always come to look for me when he feels depressed cos I never turned him away, no matter how painful his stories might seem to me (cos he always talked about other girls that he likes). But he never tried anything funny on me so I dun really care. I think he doesn't really want sex or anything, he just wants companionship, so I am not afraid to give dat to him...
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I asked my bf, even he agreed that guys are easily tempted. From guy's point of view, a little zaoggeng from the best buddy will make guy's heart beat faster.. Can't imagine if they r going to be alone throughout the whole nite..
From a gal point of view, it is not abt the trust thing.. If it were to be my bf, i trust my bf but i dun trust the gal. unless it's MY best fren..
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have a talk and draw the lines. tell ur bf that you don't like her staying overnight, but going out and shopping is alright.
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very agree with u. the guys are in constant need. do today, also want to do tomorrow. sometimes, i feel they just need to quench their thirst and i feel like, i am the water.Originally posted by hiddengal:I asked my bf, even he agreed that guys are easily tempted. From guy's point of view, a little zaoggeng from the best buddy will make guy's heart beat faster.. Can't imagine if they r going to be alone throughout the whole nite..
From a gal point of view, it is not abt the trust thing.. If it were to be my bf, i trust my bf but i dun trust the gal. unless it's MY best fren..
MMmm.. Dunno wat my fren's bf is thinking..
guys easily tempted by our zaogeng? but i also easily tempted by his physique and sweet talk leh. manly also impress me. maybe i am too easily impressed. impressed = pressed... hmm rhymes.. -
impressed = pressed???Originally posted by jaimeyeo:very agree with u. the guys are in constant need. do today, also want to do tomorrow. sometimes, i feel they just need to quench their thirst and i feel like, i am the water.
guys easily tempted by our zaogeng? but i also easily tempted by his physique and sweet talk leh. manly also impress me. maybe i am too easily impressed. impressed = pressed... hmm rhymes.. -
more like cos he cant imagine having sex wif me...he can't imagine loving me, wich is really sad in a way bcos i used to love him.Originally posted by hiddengal:Good guy...
ppl tend to never see the thing in front of them. and then they spent all their time looking for something so far from them, which they know wud never be within their reach...they spent their time asking why I can't find it, but in fact it was right in front of their eyes...
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