i also feel that if you are selfish in some way but selfless in other way, that you are living life wrongly.
you should either be selfish all the way.
or selfless or the way if you believe otherwise.
99% of people fall into selfish a little bit selfless a bit . becuase the we have been learning right and wrong ideas form the society since young.
for example, when is the last time you help an elderly carry things. you can claim that you donated $100 to cahritiy. but when you see that old lady, on your way back home from school, you will probably close an eye becuase you are more concern anbout going home to rest or do your own stuff.
you should not have contradicting actions in life. i believe that the fundamental of human beings is to be selfish.
FireIce
ren bu wei ji, tian zhu di mie
TakumiFujiwara
99.99% is selfish the 0.001 % i dunno
Patrik
Thats why we need more love in this world
ditzy
Lets see, so if I didn't have contradicting actions in life, I wouldn't be selfish, which would make me almost perfect. Am I right to say that?
IntegraType-R
hmmm....well putting the "helping old ppl carry stuffs" aside.....
i really dun like those who r so FCUKING hypocrite....n FCUKING EGOISTIC....i better stop if not i will ki xiao n slaughter somebody liao!!!
Ogbunwezeh
human being r born selfish
sgboy2004
croco dun sell fish, croco eat fish
hyuga23
Originally posted by FireIce:
ren bu wei ji, tian zhu di mie
hmmm... tis is human nature i guess...
those who are selfless are not on earth liao...sometimes its realli tough to be a human.. haha..
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OldAhPek
Dont like the word 'selfish'
I rather use the word 'priority'
You buy a ring for your gf, bcoz u treasure her more You are not gonna give every female friends a ring isnt it?
You didnt help an old lady carry her stuff coz she's really moving too slowly, even if do offer your help she's not like gonna die, if no one gonna help her she is carrying what she is carrying because she knows she can carries and is able to carry them all. Oh manz... let here exercise If she can't carry that much, then its her fault for buying so much things
Not that i'm insensitive, or selfish. if she request help, i will gladly offer my assistance
most things in life is abt priorities in decision making, many claimed it 'selfish'