understanding men
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i liked this guy for almost 6 years. told him b4 but he thought it was a joke. then we just kept in contact on and off for these pass few years. but then i was kinda not straight and was seeing other gals.
recently i met up with him and we were kinda catching up on past events and i mentioned that i did like him b4. then we kinda kissed and i started blushing like mad. cos its the 1st time i kissed a guy. i was really nervous and i think i did scare him a little.
the next time we met we went a little further with the groping and stuff. and i have to say i really enjoyed it and that he knows how to please.
the problem is that he never calls or sms and i am flying away for half a year tonight. i did ask him whether it was purely physical attraction or somethinbg more and he said that it was. but he doesnt call. so is he even really interested in me?
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he is not interested in you. jus want to have some fun. forget it. i can straighten you up if you want
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yeah, i think hes only out for some fun....
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Be careful, he maybe just wanting to have "fun" with you, that's all. Girls who are not street smart are always at the losing end. Try talking to your other friends who still in contact with him to find out more about his character, people do change, for the better or worse. At least, you understand him more whether he is sincere with the relationship or he just wanted to enjoy your company. Take care.
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the problem is that i cant exactly keep "tabs" on him as i am not around often in singapore. i not sure what he is like. other than the short time we were in school together. maybe i really should ask my frens about him. but i cant do anything now its kinda too late i am leaving tonight again.... sigh
he says that he doesnt wanna commit as i am always away. plus the other thing is that its too early to say anything.
not even sure if we are going to continue this after i come back -
I believe you have been fool my dear. forget him.Originally posted by rubic:i liked this guy for almost 6 years. told him b4 but he thought it was a joke. then we just kept in contact on and off for these pass few years. but then i was kinda not straight and was seeing other gals.
recently i met up with him and we were kinda catching up on past events and i mentioned that i did like him b4. then we kinda kissed and i started blushing like mad. cos its the 1st time i kissed a guy. i was really nervous and i think i did scare him a little.
the next time we met we went a little further with the groping and stuff. and i have to say i really enjoyed it and that he knows how to please.
the problem is that he never calls or sms and i am flying away for half a year tonight. i did ask him whether it was purely physical attraction or somethinbg more and he said that it was. but he doesnt call. so is he even really interested in me?
whats your take on this? -
So wat if you are always away. I am always away too still can be committed wat. It is wat the other party is thinking. Like i say before forget it he is only playing around.Originally posted by rubic:the problem is that i cant exactly keep "tabs" on him as i am not around often in singapore. i not sure what he is like. other than the short time we were in school together. maybe i really should ask my frens about him. but i cant do anything now its kinda too late i am leaving tonight again.... sigh
he says that he doesnt wanna commit as i am always away. plus the other thing is that its too early to say anything.
not even sure if we are going to continue this after i come back -
rubic,
I will play along too if i am tt guy friend of yours.
A cat will never refuse any fishes..
Perhaps u arnt tt straight, tts y u dont understand.
But its true...
we will fark the ass out of any farkable woman if they present themselves to us.
Sorry for the harsh lang
No flamm pls. -
Wonder why this is in BAR
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i also feel the same way that he isnt that interested. cos if he is he would at least sms or call me. tried to make excuses that he wasnt free, too busy or watever. somehow there is this nagging feeling that he just wants the physical attention. anyway i will be away so no point in thinking too much abt it.
my other frens think very positively about it, but somehow when i dont receive a call or sms, i think its bad. at least i didnt get cheated or what. was quite glad that it stopped at gropping. thanks again for ur thoughts about it. guess i already knew the answer but was just seeking a confirmation.
me go pack my luggage now!!! -
Try to hit on his good friends. Somehow, the true face of men are revealed to their close buddies. If you can get his buddies to talk, ta-dah!
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have a nice tripOriginally posted by rubic:i also feel the same way that he isnt that interested. cos if he is he would at least sms or call me. tried to make excuses that he wasnt free, too busy or watever. somehow there is this nagging feeling that he just wants the physical attention. anyway i will be away so no point in thinking too much abt it.
my other frens think very positively about it, but somehow when i dont receive a call or sms, i think its bad. at least i didnt get cheated or what. was quite glad that it stopped at gropping. thanks again for ur thoughts about it. guess i already knew the answer but was just seeking a confirmation.
me go pack my luggage now!!!
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rubic, stay with the gals. guys r jerks.
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how would u know guys r jerks when u r a asexual?Originally posted by HENG@:rubic, stay with the gals. guys r jerks. -
If you want to have some fun, then do it with him. Else leave.
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If he really like you, he'll call you. Chances are he only want sex, so don't do it with him. Be steady first.
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am i a jerk?