I believe you have been fool my dear. forget him.Originally posted by rubic:i liked this guy for almost 6 years. told him b4 but he thought it was a joke. then we just kept in contact on and off for these pass few years. but then i was kinda not straight and was seeing other gals.
recently i met up with him and we were kinda catching up on past events and i mentioned that i did like him b4. then we kinda kissed and i started blushing like mad. cos its the 1st time i kissed a guy. i was really nervous and i think i did scare him a little.
the next time we met we went a little further with the groping and stuff. and i have to say i really enjoyed it and that he knows how to please.
the problem is that he never calls or sms and i am flying away for half a year tonight. i did ask him whether it was purely physical attraction or somethinbg more and he said that it was. but he doesnt call. so is he even really interested in me?
whats your take on this?
So wat if you are always away. I am always away too still can be committed wat. It is wat the other party is thinking. Like i say before forget it he is only playing around.Originally posted by rubic:the problem is that i cant exactly keep "tabs" on him as i am not around often in singapore. i not sure what he is like. other than the short time we were in school together. maybe i really should ask my frens about him. but i cant do anything now its kinda too late i am leaving tonight again.... sigh
he says that he doesnt wanna commit as i am always away. plus the other thing is that its too early to say anything.
not even sure if we are going to continue this after i come back
have a nice tripOriginally posted by rubic:i also feel the same way that he isnt that interested. cos if he is he would at least sms or call me. tried to make excuses that he wasnt free, too busy or watever. somehow there is this nagging feeling that he just wants the physical attention. anyway i will be away so no point in thinking too much abt it.
my other frens think very positively about it, but somehow when i dont receive a call or sms, i think its bad. at least i didnt get cheated or what. was quite glad that it stopped at gropping. thanks again for ur thoughts about it. guess i already knew the answer but was just seeking a confirmation.
me go pack my luggage now!!!
how would u know guys r jerks when u r a asexual?Originally posted by HENG@:rubic, stay with the gals. guys r jerks.