when sex is no longer enjoyable anymore

• bul!sh!t

  4 Feb 05, 00:31

  when u feel that sex is no longer enjoyable , because u feel that
  enjoyable moment is too short. Your crave for sex has gone and u feel that sex with any gal feel the same what will u do
  
  1) work very hard to earn more money
  2) take some part time courses
  3) become a volunteer for charity organization
  4) become a monk
  5) look for new sex parther
  6) get a long term relationalship and give yourself some burden as welll as to occupy your time
  
  
  mature guys pls give some advise
  gals what will u do
  
• kAdEn

  4 Feb 05, 01:00

  why would sex become unenjoyable in the first place?
  I could understand it if you're talking about putting off sex because of stress and stuff. the fact that you get an erection means you would want to have sex, and when you climax it should be enjoyable or at the very least, relieved.
  
  But usually it is the process and not the achievement that is more satisfying.
  Trying to get into some gals pants, coaxing your wife to have sex or trying to make your partner aroused...
  No?
• bul!sh!t

  4 Feb 05, 01:10

  before sex a lot of excitement after sex feel tired
  
  when same thing keep repeating will u feel sian
  
  
• kAdEn

  4 Feb 05, 01:24

  Originally posted by bul!sh!t:

  before sex a lot of excitement after sex feel tired
  
  when same thing keep repeating will u feel sian
  
  

  the same thing as in sex itself? or having sex with the same person?
  Sex can be reinvented in anyway you would want it to be. You could have finish all the position in the kamasutra but it's different with every person.
  Some person's missionary and another person's might be different.
  
  But if you are talking abt marriage and having sex with your wife. That's slightly different...i wouldn't call that sex. It's called making love. There's emotions involved. And there's a function too, to make babies.
  
  Would you get sick of your wife if you wake up every morning and see her?
  (ok..i can picture someone replying yes to this quetion. ) Theoratically no, because you love her. Practically,i have no idea.
• bul!sh!t

  4 Feb 05, 01:38

  what is love i really can't figure out anymore....sad
  
  perhap only youngster can feel wat is love in singapore.
  
  singaporeans(gals) are getting more and more intelligent i think some mature gals call love as bul!sh!t
• kAdEn

  4 Feb 05, 01:42

  Hmm..you sound like a man in distress....
  Cheer up, i'm sure there's a right woman for every man out there.
  You just have to keep your eyes open
  
  Not all gals are looking for material needs, but ALL girls need emotional support. Even guys need them. So keep your chin up. You'll bump into one soon enough
• bul!sh!t

  4 Feb 05, 01:49

  Originally posted by kAdEn:

  Hmm..you sound like a man in distress....
  Cheer up, i'm sure there's a right woman for every man out there.
  You just have to keep your eyes open
  
  Not all gals are looking for material needs, but ALL girls need emotional support. Even guys need them. So keep your chin up. You'll bump into one soon enough

  any nice gals out there, who thinks that u have good character like kAdEn, PM me, me too is a nice guy
• kAdEn

  4 Feb 05, 01:56

  Originally posted by bul!sh!t:

  any nice gals out there, who thinks that u have good character like kAdEn, PM me, me too is a nice guy

  
  
  I'll keep that compliment on hold, cause you have yet to meet me let alone know me But i think i'm decent enough
• shandower

  4 Feb 05, 09:22

  Then stop having sex.
• choco B

  4 Feb 05, 09:25

  Sian of sex?
  
  ....
  
  That's a new one
  
  

  Originally posted by bul!sh!t:

  when same thing keep repeating will u feel sian