rejection
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well, on valentine's day's eve, i was rejected by a girl that i fancy forthe second time. the first was last year. i guess i really like her after all. please dun ask me why, i am the silly type i think.
anyway, it waas of course painful, but good thing she is still my very good friend as she has always been since 3 years ago.
she said, she really did try to consider me, but i am just not her type.
the first time i was rejected becoos of silly reason. i was too slow, somone lese proposed to her earlier than me.....
i am really a loser. really feel like crying like a baby.
i know i should stp wasting my time and get ahead with others, but i dunno if i can do it. -
u can call SOS to get some counselling...
no point getting sad over a girl lah dey...
there are so many girls in singapore...
now kalimantan girls oso not bad... haha -
Dec 1990, I fall in love with a gal at the age of 15, 3 months later on valentine, I told her my feeling and got rejected but remain as a friend.
8 months later on her Bday, I tried again, rejected but remain as a friend.
next Vday, I tried once more, rejected but remain as a friend.
another 8 months later on her Bday, I tried again, still rejected and still remain as friend.
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Every year, I tried 2 or 3 times, all got rejected.
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Many years past, many things happend, many tried, many failures
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On 14 Feb, 2000. I married that gal. -
forget about her la.... can be done...Originally posted by panzersinc:well, on valentine's day's eve, i was rejected by a girl that i fancy forthe second time. the first was last year. i guess i really like her after all. please dun ask me why, i am the silly type i think.
anyway, it waas of course painful, but good thing she is still my very good friend as she has always been since 3 years ago.
she said, she really did try to consider me, but i am just not her type.
the first time i was rejected becoos of silly reason. i was too slow, somone lese proposed to her earlier than me.....
i am really a loser. really feel like crying like a baby.
i know i should stp wasting my time and get ahead with others, but i dunno if i can do it. -
awwww...Originally posted by ch33my:Dec 1990, I fall in love with a gal at the age of 15, 3 months later on valentine, I told her my feeling and got rejected but remain as a friend.
8 months later on her Bday, I tried again, rejected but remain as a friend.
next Vday, I tried once more, rejected but remain as a friend.
another 8 months later on her Bday, I tried again, still rejected and still remain as friend.
.
.
Every year, I tried 2 or 3 times, all got rejected.
.
.
Many years past, many things happend, many tried, many failures
.
.
On 14 Feb, 2000. I married that gal.
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What are you doing between last year valentine n this year valentine?
You know what is persistent effort? -
u dun know what is wooing?Originally posted by panzersinc:she said, she really did try to consider me, but i am just not her type. -
snowflag, i did spent the whole year wooing, as i said, been with her, just that the first time i was rejected was due to another guy. i was so pissed off that i did not even wan to talk about it when i was with her. i din know they broke up last March.
yeah, i admit i am a shite.
persistent effort? done it.. -
ch33my, u r good.
this sort of things depends on a lot of things. very unpredictable.
i am not givin up, although my other male friends advised me since last year. -
Good? Naaahhhh, I am the bestOriginally posted by panzersinc:ch33my, u r good.
this sort of things depends on a lot of things. very unpredictable.
i am not givin up, although my other male friends advised me since last year.
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Be with her, but dont stick.
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Dont forget who you are and what's your life for...
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u actually gave me some hope .. to think i sniffed n almost cried .. i m so touched ..Originally posted by ch33my:Dec 1990, I fall in love with a gal at the age of 15, 3 months later on valentine, I told her my feeling and got rejected but remain as a friend.
8 months later on her Bday, I tried again, rejected but remain as a friend.
next Vday, I tried once more, rejected but remain as a friend.
another 8 months later on her Bday, I tried again, still rejected and still remain as friend.
.
.
Every year, I tried 2 or 3 times, all got rejected.
.
.
Many years past, many things happend, many tried, many failures
.
.
On 14 Feb, 2000. I married that gal. -
f.cuk man...all i can say is u got superhuman endurance...Originally posted by ch33my:Dec 1990, I fall in love with a gal at the age of 15, 3 months later on valentine, I told her my feeling and got rejected but remain as a friend.
8 months later on her Bday, I tried again, rejected but remain as a friend.
next Vday, I tried once more, rejected but remain as a friend.
another 8 months later on her Bday, I tried again, still rejected and still remain as friend.
.
.
Every year, I tried 2 or 3 times, all got rejected.
.
.
Many years past, many things happend, many tried, many failures
.
.
On 14 Feb, 2000. I married that gal. -
precisely .. i hope mayb i can turn the current situation into something like tat too ..Originally posted by mahai102:f.cuk man...all i can say is u got superhuman endurance... -
Not everyone can be like ch33my..it was fate that brought ch33my n her present wife togather despite many times of failures...Originally posted by panzersinc:well, on valentine's day's eve, i was rejected by a girl that i fancy forthe second time. the first was last year. i guess i really like her after all. please dun ask me why, i am the silly type i think.
anyway, it waas of course painful, but good thing she is still my very good friend as she has always been since 3 years ago.
she said, she really did try to consider me, but i am just not her type.
the first time i was rejected becoos of silly reason. i was too slow, somone lese proposed to her earlier than me.....
i am really a loser. really feel like crying like a baby.
i know i should stp wasting my time and get ahead with others, but i dunno if i can do it.
For your case, she has already stated that you're not her type...now which means that the problem lies with you..you can't make her fall in love with you...i mean, she's quite truthful in telling you the truth, hinting you not to wait/court her...it'll be wasting your time...however, i'm not asking you to give up on her as time does change a person...to what extend? I duno..depends on individuals..but you can keep in contact with her, as a good fren, share her troubles, etc...(Provided that she find you)...this's not "Waiting for her"...you shld, in fact, try to know more girls n who knows, she's juz out there...you never know..
So..what i would suggest to you is that you shld start to move a step forward...do not stay still in your current position...you need to move a step ahead to know what's the answer lies ahead of you...step by step....i know you've the patience...
Good luck n all the best... -
yaya... at least she's honest and stuff... image wat if she's those type that tells you that it's fine then never talk to you again... things will be much worse isn't it... jia you ba...
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dcx,
thanx for the kind words. i have made up my mind. You and another person gave me the same advice, which is wat i am goonna do. I posted anotehr thread in chit chat.
many thanx. You guys are great.