can anyone advise on wining back him ?
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hi, i am interested to find out from u guys..
how can i win back a man whom i hurt b4..
now he is with me, and luv me very much but at times seems too afraid to go near me.
at times he really luv me very much cos i can feel..
he is in his 30s..
anyone can tell me how to win back his trust, and etc...
seems like i only have half heart from him...
now he trying hard to control his feeling for me, he will meet me once a week.. cos he told me he is afraid of meeting too much will fall again for me.. so how huh ???
i really want him back u see... -
u ask this in bar? u gotta be joking..
(sure got peeps ask u open leg then matter settled one)
gd luck anyhow...
my take on ur case is... trust is earned.. how u earn it... u gotta do as u see fit.. -
action speaks louder than words....think of how u actually hurt him b4...den think of a remedy urself is the best...
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The way to a man's heart is through his stomach??
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Get your spelling correct first.
It's 'winning', not 'wining'.
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hmm.. care to shed some light wat n why u broke his heart ? or else how we advise u huh ?Originally posted by subarugal:hi, i am interested to find out from u guys..
how can i win back a man whom i hurt b4..
now he is with me, and luv me very much but at times seems too afraid to go near me.
at times he really luv me very much cos i can feel..
he is in his 30s..
anyone can tell me how to win back his trust, and etc...
seems like i only have half heart from him...
now he trying hard to control his feeling for me, he will meet me once a week.. cos he told me he is afraid of meeting too much will fall again for me.. so how huh ???
i really want him back u see... -
Not exactly....Originally posted by shade343:The way to a man's heart is through his stomach?? -
Erm... Abit Out Of Point here huh. U said he's wif u n he loves u v much... Den u mentioned again he's scared of fallin 4 u again.Originally posted by subarugal:hi, i am interested to find out from u guys..
how can i win back a man whom i hurt b4..
now he is with me, and luv me very much but at times seems too afraid to go near me.
at times he really luv me very much cos i can feel..
he is in his 30s..
anyone can tell me how to win back his trust, and etc...
seems like i only have half heart from him...
now he trying hard to control his feeling for me, he will meet me once a week.. cos he told me he is afraid of meeting too much will fall again for me.. so how huh ???
i really want him back u see...
So... Does he love u anot? *Confused* -
most important thing, not to use yr "assets" to win him back, yr "assets" will be deterioted against time, then u lose him again.. not worth it, find someone better.
When u have both hands grabbing on something, u see something better, would you lossen it to grab the other better one.
He is not the only guy out there, maybe juz look around, there maybe someone there waiting for you. He maybe the better choice. -
Stil tat one word lah.
"Sincerity" -
tot u mentioned in another topic that he's a married guy or taken?? so are u a third party in this or wat??
no offence...
but if u are a third party, u are asking for it... dun expect love in return... u know he's not urs in the first place, so y should u expect it??
if u both is juz a normal dating couple, i apologise for my misunderstanding on this....Sometimes we must get hurt in order to grow, we must fail in order to know...sometimes our vision clears only after our eyes are washed away with tears....
juz an advice, there are some things in life that don't go the way you want them to or the way you think they should, but you can't dwell on these because you'll miss out on other opportunites.... Don't give up one something just because you don't think things will work, you won't know unless you give it a try.... But don't hold onto something that left a long time ago, because sooner or later you'll realize some things just aren't meant to be....
Change is not bad as long as both people are willing to change together to make things better; it's when one person demands all the changes and refuses to make any of the other person's requests that change is destructive....Some things are not meant to last, they just take a place in your heart and make you smarter the next time ....
In your darkest hour, never worry that there is no hope for the future. The most extraordinary thing about this life is that YOU are the author of your own destiny, and you get to decide what's in the next chapter.... -
let him screw you.Originally posted by subarugal:hi, i am interested to find out from u guys..
how can i win back a man whom i hurt b4..
now he is with me, and luv me very much but at times seems too afraid to go near me.
at times he really luv me very much cos i can feel..
he is in his 30s..
anyone can tell me how to win back his trust, and etc...
seems like i only have half heart from him...
now he trying hard to control his feeling for me, he will meet me once a week.. cos he told me he is afraid of meeting too much will fall again for me.. so how huh ???
i really want him back u see... -
not only show to him that u wan to win his trust back frm words..but most importantly ACTION!
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i am very trouble, in a tricky situation..
i been thru up and down of relationship with this man..
together but human r selfish..
think of possess him, cnt possess think of giving up..
given up meet someone new.. but life isnt a bed of roses..
end up retribution came.. new man left..
so what u guys thinking ?? me deserved it rite..
haiz...
now thinking of moving on..
but 1st man contact me, keep telling me to move on but on other hand say love me.. so i am caught in between...
one hand angel one hand devil him..
this man say love me very much,
one moment say wish to see me married, one moment say if possible dnt...
yoh dnt noe what the hell he want ?
i am lost.. i need advise and help.. -
i think, not thinking is the best
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no one can really teach u wat to do..Originally posted by subarugal:i am very trouble, in a tricky situation..
i been thru up and down of relationship with this man..
together but human r selfish..
think of possess him, cnt possess think of giving up..
given up meet someone new.. but life isnt a bed of roses..
end up retribution came.. new man left..
so what u guys thinking ?? me deserved it rite..
haiz...
now thinking of moving on..
but 1st man contact me, keep telling me to move on but on other hand say love me.. so i am caught in between...
one hand angel one hand devil him..
this man say love me very much,
one moment say wish to see me married, one moment say if possible dnt...
yoh dnt noe what the hell he want ?
i am lost.. i need advise and help..
No one judge things by flowery words alone.. anyone can say tat..
look at the facts... look at what they have done for u.. look at how much u feel for them.. And of cos based on all those, whether this relationship can last or not.. after looking at everything, trust ur instincts and make ur decision..
In the end u might not get wat u want... but there wont be regrets.. as u are sure that u have considered all factors and choose the correct guy u think tat suits u at the point of time.. -
Wah.. this guy beri bad, trying to play mind games with you, dun take it for granted pls.Originally posted by subarugal:i am very trouble, in a tricky situation..
i been thru up and down of relationship with this man..
together but human r selfish..
think of possess him, cnt possess think of giving up..
given up meet someone new.. but life isnt a bed of roses..
end up retribution came.. new man left..
so what u guys thinking ?? me deserved it rite..
haiz...
now thinking of moving on..
but 1st man contact me, keep telling me to move on but on other hand say love me.. so i am caught in between...
one hand angel one hand devil him..
this man say love me very much,
one moment say wish to see me married, one moment say if possible dnt...
yoh dnt noe what the hell he want ?
i am lost.. i need advise and help.. -
can anyone advise what you're whining on about?
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No one suggested leh...Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:u ask this in bar? u gotta be joking..
(sure got peeps ask u open leg then matter settled one)
gd luck anyhow...
my take on ur case is... trust is earned.. how u earn it... u gotta do as u see fit..
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think u post in aunt agony better...
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open yur leg and ...u know...Originally posted by Nelstar:No one suggested leh...
then do it everyday to get close to him together...
sometimes s3x is also a way to win back his heart...
he will think that *this girl is willing to give it to me,i will appreiate it*...
but remember...not all guy think like that...
some will think *wtf,this girl is cheap*...
is risky if u do this... -
yah.. open.. very funny, haa..Originally posted by SailorMercury:open yur leg and ...u know...
then do it everyday to get close to him together...
sometimes s3x is also a way to win back his heart...
he will think that *this girl is willing to give it to me,i will appreiate it*...
but remember...not all guy think like that...
some will think *wtf,this girl is cheap*...
is risky if u do this...
no lah.. he is nt like dat.. this i noe..
he nv talk advantage on me for that..
together n noe for 5yrs i noe leh.. -
there u go.Originally posted by SailorMercury:open yur leg and ...u know...
then do it everyday to get close to him together...
sometimes s3x is also a way to win back his heart...
he will think that *this girl is willing to give it to me,i will appreiate it*...
but remember...not all guy think like that...
some will think *wtf,this girl is cheap*...
is risky if u do this...
open leg 1... -
Don't take advise here blindly..Originally posted by subarugal:yah.. open.. very funny, haa..
no lah.. he is nt like dat.. this i noe..
he nv talk advantage on me for that..
together n noe for 5yrs i noe leh..
thank you very much!
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tks.. i noe.. haaa...Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:Don't take advise here blindly..
thank you very much!
there ppl here giving crapz answer haa...