IS there love ever after.......
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.......SEX? i mean not married/engaged
my friend told me she's been dumped after SEX and there's no love ever after...... -
no.
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Get smart.
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There is love if there's courtship
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Don't know.
thank you very much!
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this depends very much on whether there was LOVE in the first place... cos if you really love the person, it does not change at all even after SEX. In fact, the couple should love each other more....
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Nope, my dad alway said "love only exist in the movie"
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Has anyone heard of "men give love to get sex; women give sex to get love"?
It implies men may not give any more love after getting sex.
It also implies women may not be getting love before giving sex.
Hence women should never give sex easily, not even to get love because if they didn't get love before sex, the chances of them getting any love after sex are even less. -
so no SEX no LOVE?Originally posted by Tuatau:Has anyone heard of "men give love to get sex; women give sex to get love"?
It implies men may not give any more love after getting sex.
It also implies women may not be getting love before giving sex.
Hence women should never give sex easily, not even to get love because if they didn't get love before sex, the chances of them getting any love after sex are even less. -
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Originally posted by The Hobbit:
There can be love.
so no SEX no LOVE?
If the women didn't get any love before sex, giving sex probably won't get them any love after it either.
If the women did get love before sex, what is the point of giving sex when they already have the love?
The men may beg "If you love me, you'll give it to me." The men may threaten "If you don't give it to me, I won't love you anymore." Men who say such things probably don't really love the women anyway, so all the more the women shouldn't give it to them.
So the big question is: When could the women give the sex?
Since there is no litmus test for real love, the only logical answer one could think of is: Only when the women want the sex as well. If they don't want it, they shouldn't give it away uncaringly just for the sake of giving. And once they have given the sex especially before marriage, they should be prepared to accept the possibility that the men would leave once sex has been obtained.
If a woman respects her body enough not to offer it away carelessly, thus would a man accord her with that same amount of respect. -
Originally posted by Tuatau:There can be love.
If the women didn't get any love before sex, giving sex probably won't get them any love after it either.
If the women did get love before sex, what is the point of giving sex when they already have the love?
The men may beg "If you love me, you'll give it to me." The men may threaten "If you don't give it to me, I won't love you anymore." Men who say such things probably don't really love the women anyway, so all the more the women shouldn't give it to them.
So the big question is: When could the women give the sex?
Since there is no litmus test for real love, the only logical answer one could think of is: Only when the women want the sex as well. If they don't want it, they shouldn't give it away uncaringly just for the sake of giving. And once they have given the sex especially before marriage, they should be prepared to accept the possibility that the men would leave once sex has been obtained.
If a woman respects her body enough not to offer it away carelessly, thus would a man accord her with that same amount of respect.
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Having sex before the marriage will just add complications to a relationship. I have no time to deal with all that. If a man really loves me, he will respect the decision I have regarding this.
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wtbOriginally posted by icyprincess:Having sex before the marriage will just add complications to a relationship. I have no time to deal with all that. If a man really loves me, he will respect the decision I have regarding this.
i.c.y