wad should she do?
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my galfren is troubled.. she's attached to this guy for a few months already... recently, she met up with a fren she got to know not long ago. since it was late and they couldnt think of anythign else to do, they went to her fren's house, btw, her fren's a guy. so she didnt expect anything to happen. tot it was just a hanging out session together.. but the guy started touching her.. she resisted. but obviously, she's not strong enuff compared to a guy. then, overwhelmed by the sexual arousment, she finally gave in. now, she's regreting and she doesnt know wad to do. i told her to put it behind her and pretend tt nth happened if she wants to continue being with her present bf. y would the guy do tt? wad did he see her as? he's not respecting her, am i right? should my fren stop all contacts with him?
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i c.
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[quote]Originally posted by Omega-broly:
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no she went to his house.. according to her, they were both bored.
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either a rape occured or she is a willing party. period
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i dunno whether u call it rape lei. she say at first he sorta of forced it on her. but then again, he didnt realli use all his force? my fren say she wad... mentally say dun wan.. but physically reacting positively... meaning she moaned but didnt take intiative to do anything for the guy la.. quite contradicting right? i also dun understand wad she mean
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obviously your friend is a willing party. i can surely say the guy will come looking for more.
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o no! den how? should i advise her to stop all contacts with him?
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If the guy come back, give him a kick at his balls.....
stop all contacts. Hope she will be wiser after this incident. -
Ask her to just move on, unless they going to get married, no point to tell him. Before they get married, she'd better tell him thou, else she'll be untruthful. Reasoning, guys tend to overreact, so if they not going to next lap, no need to "excite" the boyfriend. It was just between 2 mutually willing adults (or going to be adults), who cares.
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As long as the girl does not want mentally, no matter how she react physically due to the sexual arousal, she can still bring charge againist the guy.
BUT, it's still her fault, going over to a guy place at night, even a 16 yo would know what's going to happen next, unless you are going to tell me your galfren is only 14.
putting it behind her and pretend living like there's nothing AND keeping her bf in the dark about this? nothing well will ends up for them.
she should take the blame, else she should just charge that guy.