swinger
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Anyone know anything aboutt swinger????
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a person whom swings on the See-saw
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wtf
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does tarzan counts?
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let the expert do the job...
Swinging, sometimes referred to in North America as the swinging lifestyle or simply the lifestyle (although this simplified term is also used by people into Leather and BDSM), includes a wide range of sexual activities conducted between three or more people. Swinging activities can include watching others have sex; having sex with your partner while being watched; kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person (called soft swinging); or having penetrative sex with someone other than your partner (Full Swap), which is the commonly understood definition of swinging. Typically swinging activities occur when a married, or otherwise committed, couple engages with a similar couple or a single individual. These acts may or may not occur in the same room. Sex on these occasions is often referred to as play. The phenomenon (or at least its wider discussion and practice) may be seen as part of the sexual revolution of recent decades. -
Singapore is getting into it.. Some private club offer this service... U have mine and i have urs{exchange partner}
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Psychologically normal but medically unsafe, warn experts
Explaining the psychology of swingers, Dr Bryan Yeo, consultant psychiatrist at the Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre, said: "Swingers are neither abnormal nor mentally ill. Clinically, they are considered more impulsive than the average individual."
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People with tendencies to swing might also have perfectly normal sex lives but probably lack opportunities to express themselves.
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"Mentally, a swinger is not looking to settle down with a partner he finds. It can be tied to a lack of personal security. In some cases, intra-personal relationships of the subject may be affected, but not seriously," said Dr Yeo.
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Since swingers' parties are by invitation only, the feeling of exclusivity adds to the allure. "Those who attended swinger's parties purely for sexual gratification tend to take pride in the fact that they were part of an exclusive gathering. They might prepare themselves for future events and even look forward to it. They treat it as their exclusive activity that distinguishes them from everyone else," he said.
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But after the short-term thrill, swingers may feel emotionally empty, said experts.
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"Some patients who need constant sexual gratification could loose their self-esteem in the long run if they stop engaging in promiscuous sex after getting hooked onto the habit. Patients are treated entirely on a case-to-case basis," said Dr Yeo.
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While counselling can address these psychological issues, there are other potential hazards of engaging in such activities that are more serious and warrant immediate attention.
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Said Dr Moti Vaswani, a consultant family physician who has been practising in Singapore for 35 years: "The chief medical hazards are transfer of sexually transmitted diseases and Hepatitis B. Apart from Aids, people can also be infected with gonorrhoea (a condition characterised by discharge of pus from the penis after sex with an affected partner, followed by a burning sensation during urination) or syphilis, in which sores appear on the penis."
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The use of a condom makes such practises "safer", but it does not eliminate the risk completely.
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"I would say that the idea and habit of promiscuous sex is unhealthy," he said.
Explaining the psychology of swingers, Dr Bryan Yeo, consultant psychiatrist at the Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre, said: "Swingers are neither abnormal nor mentally ill. Clinically, they are considered more impulsive than the average individual."
.
People with tendencies to swing might also have perfectly normal sex lives but probably lack opportunities to express themselves.
.
"Mentally, a swinger is not looking to settle down with a partner he finds. It can be tied to a lack of personal security. In some cases, intra-personal relationships of the subject may be affected, but not seriously," said Dr Yeo.
.
Since swingers' parties are by invitation only, the feeling of exclusivity adds to the allure. "Those who attended swinger's parties purely for sexual gratification tend to take pride in the fact that they were part of an exclusive gathering. They might prepare themselves for future events and even look forward to it. They treat it as their exclusive activity that distinguishes them from everyone else," he said.
.
But after the short-term thrill, swingers may feel emotionally empty, said experts.
.
"Some patients who need constant sexual gratification could loose their self-esteem in the long run if they stop engaging in promiscuous sex after getting hooked onto the habit. Patients are treated entirely on a case-to-case basis," said Dr Yeo.
.
While counselling can address these psychological issues, there are other potential hazards of engaging in such activities that are more serious and warrant immediate attention.
.
Said Dr Moti Vaswani, a consultant family physician who has been practising in Singapore for 35 years: "The chief medical hazards are transfer of sexually transmitted diseases and Hepatitis B. Apart from Aids, people can also be infected with gonorrhoea (a condition characterised by discharge of pus from the penis after sex with an affected partner, followed by a burning sensation during urination) or syphilis, in which sores appear on the penis."
.
The use of a condom makes such practises "safer", but it does not eliminate the risk completely.
.
"I would say that the idea and habit of promiscuous sex is unhealthy," he said. Explaining the psychology of swingers, Dr Bryan Yeo, consultant psychiatrist at the Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre, said: "Swingers are neither abnormal nor mentally ill. Clinically, they are considered more impulsive than the average individual."
.
People with tendencies to swing might also have perfectly normal sex lives but probably lack opportunities to express themselves.
.
"Mentally, a swinger is not looking to settle down with a partner he finds. It can be tied to a lack of personal security. In some cases, intra-personal relationships of the subject may be affected, but not seriously," said Dr Yeo.
.
Since swingers' parties are by invitation only, the feeling of exclusivity adds to the allure. "Those who attended swinger's parties purely for sexual gratification tend to take pride in the fact that they were part of an exclusive gathering. They might prepare themselves for future events and even look forward to it. They treat it as their exclusive activity that distinguishes them from everyone else," he said.
.
But after the short-term thrill, swingers may feel emotionally empty, said experts.
.
"Some patients who need constant sexual gratification could loose their self-esteem in the long run if they stop engaging in promiscuous sex after getting hooked onto the habit. Patients are treated entirely on a case-to-case basis," said Dr Yeo.
.
While counselling can address these psychological issues, there are other potential hazards of engaging in such activities that are more serious and warrant immediate attention.
.
Said Dr Moti Vaswani, a consultant family physician who has been practising in Singapore for 35 years: "The chief medical hazards are transfer of sexually transmitted diseases and Hepatitis B. Apart from Aids, people can also be infected with gonorrhoea (a condition characterised by discharge of pus from the penis after sex with an affected partner, followed by a burning sensation during urination) or syphilis, in which sores appear on the penis."
.
The use of a condom makes such practises "safer", but it does not eliminate the risk completely.
.
"I would say that the idea and habit of promiscuous sex is unhealthy," he said. Explaining the psychology of swingers, Dr Bryan Yeo, consultant psychiatrist at the Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre, said: "Swingers are neither abnormal nor mentally ill. Clinically, they are considered more impulsive than the average individual."
.
People with tendencies to swing might also have perfectly normal sex lives but probably lack opportunities to express themselves.
.
"Mentally, a swinger is not looking to settle down with a partner he finds. It can be tied to a lack of personal security. In some cases, intra-personal relationships of the subject may be affected, but not seriously," said Dr Yeo.
.
Since swingers' parties are by invitation only, the feeling of exclusivity adds to the allure. "Those who attended swinger's parties purely for sexual gratification tend to take pride in the fact that they were part of an exclusive gathering. They might prepare themselves for future events and even look forward to it. They treat it as their exclusive activity that distinguishes them from everyone else," he said.
.
But after the short-term thrill, swingers may feel emotionally empty, said experts.
.
"Some patients who need constant sexual gratification could loose their self-esteem in the long run if they stop engaging in promiscuous sex after getting hooked onto the habit. Patients are treated entirely on a case-to-case basis," said Dr Yeo.
.
While counselling can address these psychological issues, there are other potential hazards of engaging in such activities that are more serious and warrant immediate attention.
.
Said Dr Moti Vaswani, a consultant family physician who has been practising in Singapore for 35 years: "The chief medical hazards are transfer of sexually transmitted diseases and Hepatitis B. Apart from Aids, people can also be infected with gonorrhoea (a condition characterised by discharge of pus from the penis after sex with an affected partner, followed by a burning sensation during urination) or syphilis, in which sores appear on the penis."
.
The use of a condom makes such practises "safer", but it does not eliminate the risk completely.
.
"I would say that the idea and habit of promiscuous sex is unhealthy," he said. -
tq for the infoOriginally posted by uncle_abc:Psychologically normal but medically unsafe, warn experts
Explaining the psychology of swingers, Dr Bryan Yeo, consultant psychiatrist at the Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre, said: "Swingers are neither abnormal nor mentally ill. Clinically, they are considered more impulsive than the average individual."
.
People with tendencies to swing might also have perfectly normal sex lives but probably lack opportunities to express themselves.
.
"Mentally, a swinger is not looking to settle down with a partner he finds. It can be tied to a lack of personal security. In some cases, intra-personal relationships of the subject may be affected, but not seriously," said Dr Yeo.
.
Since swingers' parties are by invitation only, the feeling of exclusivity adds to the allure. "Those who attended swinger's parties purely for sexual gratification tend to take pride in the fact that they were part of an exclusive gathering. They might prepare themselves for future events and even look forward to it. They treat it as their exclusive activity that distinguishes them from everyone else," he said.
.
But after the short-term thrill, swingers may feel emotionally empty, said experts.
.
"Some patients who need constant sexual gratification could loose their self-esteem in the long run if they stop engaging in promiscuous sex after getting hooked onto the habit. Patients are treated entirely on a case-to-case basis," said Dr Yeo.
.
While counselling can address these psychological issues, there are other potential hazards of engaging in such activities that are more serious and warrant immediate attention.
.
Said Dr Moti Vaswani, a consultant family physician who has been practising in Singapore for 35 years: "The chief medical hazards are transfer of sexually transmitted diseases and Hepatitis B. Apart from Aids, people can also be infected with gonorrhoea (a condition characterised by discharge of pus from the penis after sex with an affected partner, followed by a burning sensation during urination) or syphilis, in which sores appear on the penis."
.
The use of a condom makes such practises "safer", but it does not eliminate the risk completely.
.
"I would say that the idea and habit of promiscuous sex is unhealthy," he said.
Explaining the psychology of swingers, Dr Bryan Yeo, consultant psychiatrist at the Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre, said: "Swingers are neither abnormal nor mentally ill. Clinically, they are considered more impulsive than the average individual."
.
People with tendencies to swing might also have perfectly normal sex lives but probably lack opportunities to express themselves.
.
"Mentally, a swinger is not looking to settle down with a partner he finds. It can be tied to a lack of personal security. In some cases, intra-personal relationships of the subject may be affected, but not seriously," said Dr Yeo.
.
Since swingers' parties are by invitation only, the feeling of exclusivity adds to the allure. "Those who attended swinger's parties purely for sexual gratification tend to take pride in the fact that they were part of an exclusive gathering. They might prepare themselves for future events and even look forward to it. They treat it as their exclusive activity that distinguishes them from everyone else," he said.
.
But after the short-term thrill, swingers may feel emotionally empty, said experts.
.
"Some patients who need constant sexual gratification could loose their self-esteem in the long run if they stop engaging in promiscuous sex after getting hooked onto the habit. Patients are treated entirely on a case-to-case basis," said Dr Yeo.
.
While counselling can address these psychological issues, there are other potential hazards of engaging in such activities that are more serious and warrant immediate attention.
.
Said Dr Moti Vaswani, a consultant family physician who has been practising in Singapore for 35 years: "The chief medical hazards are transfer of sexually transmitted diseases and Hepatitis B. Apart from Aids, people can also be infected with gonorrhoea (a condition characterised by discharge of pus from the penis after sex with an affected partner, followed by a burning sensation during urination) or syphilis, in which sores appear on the penis."
.
The use of a condom makes such practises "safer", but it does not eliminate the risk completely.
.
"I would say that the idea and habit of promiscuous sex is unhealthy," he said. Explaining the psychology of swingers, Dr Bryan Yeo, consultant psychiatrist at the Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre, said: "Swingers are neither abnormal nor mentally ill. Clinically, they are considered more impulsive than the average individual."
.
People with tendencies to swing might also have perfectly normal sex lives but probably lack opportunities to express themselves.
.
"Mentally, a swinger is not looking to settle down with a partner he finds. It can be tied to a lack of personal security. In some cases, intra-personal relationships of the subject may be affected, but not seriously," said Dr Yeo.
.
Since swingers' parties are by invitation only, the feeling of exclusivity adds to the allure. "Those who attended swinger's parties purely for sexual gratification tend to take pride in the fact that they were part of an exclusive gathering. They might prepare themselves for future events and even look forward to it. They treat it as their exclusive activity that distinguishes them from everyone else," he said.
.
But after the short-term thrill, swingers may feel emotionally empty, said experts.
.
"Some patients who need constant sexual gratification could loose their self-esteem in the long run if they stop engaging in promiscuous sex after getting hooked onto the habit. Patients are treated entirely on a case-to-case basis," said Dr Yeo.
.
While counselling can address these psychological issues, there are other potential hazards of engaging in such activities that are more serious and warrant immediate attention.
.
Said Dr Moti Vaswani, a consultant family physician who has been practising in Singapore for 35 years: "The chief medical hazards are transfer of sexually transmitted diseases and Hepatitis B. Apart from Aids, people can also be infected with gonorrhoea (a condition characterised by discharge of pus from the penis after sex with an affected partner, followed by a burning sensation during urination) or syphilis, in which sores appear on the penis."
.
The use of a condom makes such practises "safer", but it does not eliminate the risk completely.
.
"I would say that the idea and habit of promiscuous sex is unhealthy," he said. Explaining the psychology of swingers, Dr Bryan Yeo, consultant psychiatrist at the Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre, said: "Swingers are neither abnormal nor mentally ill. Clinically, they are considered more impulsive than the average individual."
.
People with tendencies to swing might also have perfectly normal sex lives but probably lack opportunities to express themselves.
.
"Mentally, a swinger is not looking to settle down with a partner he finds. It can be tied to a lack of personal security. In some cases, intra-personal relationships of the subject may be affected, but not seriously," said Dr Yeo.
.
Since swingers' parties are by invitation only, the feeling of exclusivity adds to the allure. "Those who attended swinger's parties purely for sexual gratification tend to take pride in the fact that they were part of an exclusive gathering. They might prepare themselves for future events and even look forward to it. They treat it as their exclusive activity that distinguishes them from everyone else," he said.
.
But after the short-term thrill, swingers may feel emotionally empty, said experts.
.
"Some patients who need constant sexual gratification could loose their self-esteem in the long run if they stop engaging in promiscuous sex after getting hooked onto the habit. Patients are treated entirely on a case-to-case basis," said Dr Yeo.
.
While counselling can address these psychological issues, there are other potential hazards of engaging in such activities that are more serious and warrant immediate attention.
.
Said Dr Moti Vaswani, a consultant family physician who has been practising in Singapore for 35 years: "The chief medical hazards are transfer of sexually transmitted diseases and Hepatitis B. Apart from Aids, people can also be infected with gonorrhoea (a condition characterised by discharge of pus from the penis after sex with an affected partner, followed by a burning sensation during urination) or syphilis, in which sores appear on the penis."
.
The use of a condom makes such practises "safer", but it does not eliminate the risk completely.
.
"I would say that the idea and habit of promiscuous sex is unhealthy," he said. -
dream holiday -> hedonism...
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Originally posted by uncle_abc:let the expert do the job...
Swinging, sometimes referred to in North America as the swinging lifestyle or simply the lifestyle (although this simplified term is also used by people into Leather and BDSM), includes a wide range of sexual activities conducted between three or more people. Swinging activities can include watching others have sex; having sex with your partner while being watched; kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person (called soft swinging); or having penetrative sex with someone other than your partner (Full Swap), which is the commonly understood definition of swinging. Typically swinging activities occur when a married, or otherwise committed, couple engages with a similar couple or a single individual. These acts may or may not occur in the same room. Sex on these occasions is often referred to as play. The phenomenon (or at least its wider discussion and practice) may be seen as part of the sexual revolution of recent decades.
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From dictionary ...
somebody with an unconventional lifestyle: somebody who lives a somewhat unconventional and hedonistic life, especially somebody who exchanges sexual partners with others ( slang ) -
i has sex with 3 guys at the same time b4...am considered a swinger?
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Nope...Originally posted by Slut_16:i has sex with 3 guys at the same time b4...am considered a swinger?
U juz live up to Ur name...
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Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Nope...
U juz live up to Ur name...
Lolx...
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Originally posted by Simple_Bear:
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Originally posted by Kenashi:
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Originally posted by morbid:
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Enjoy swapping STDs too!
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Originally posted by ha8n:a person whom swings on the See-saw goood 1
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United Singapore Swingers Info Needed
i have been interested in joining a swingers' party in singapore and am sincerely looking for anyone who can help me get started with a group.
i have a ready female partner.
i understand that one needs to be in the inner circle of swinger friends to be able to go to one of these highly exclusive functions.
1. if there is any one true swingers out there who is keen in help me out, can you please kindly send me a private message?
2. also to those who are experienced, how may i locate the United Singapore Swingers?
please refer to this recent article:
http://www.todayonline.com/articles/44368print.asp
please only reply to this thread if you are sincere about helping.
thank you in advance and always eager to learn more.
p.s.
i sincerely believe in giving and taking and win-win situations. thus, if there are any swingers out there who believes that there may be something that i can do to contribute to the swing group(s), just kindly holler and let me know. -
Chilledpills....check your PM pal....and good luck!
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HI bro chilledpill, i can see that u are indeed very determined to get urself into the exclusive circle. Posting here, posting in Sammyboy forum & maybe other forums. Like a poor toad desperately trying to lavish after others flesh for lust & greediness.Originally posted by chilledpills:United Singapore Swingers Info Needed
i have been interested in joining a swingers' party in singapore and am sincerely looking for anyone who can help me get started with a group.
i have a ready female partner.
i understand that one needs to be in the inner circle of swinger friends to be able to go to one of these highly exclusive functions.
I sincerely hope u may catch STD in ur pursuit for more cheap s-e-x