I dun see any point in this thread.
Obviously ester76 doesn't trust her so-called "BF" anymore. So my suggestion... break off with him. U dun deserve him if u don't even trust him.
Cos most of us here have this special person among our friends to spill our troubles/worries to, troubles which one does not wan to discuss with parents, spouse, relatives and even close friends. She might be "TAT" person which he needs to talk to, de-stress, spill out his troubles.
Besides, if a guy will have sex with a gal everytime he have some time alone with her... well damn.... I'll already be hailed by everyone as the sex-god.

So u have to be a little bit more understanding here, gal. Think with ur brains, not with ur t.i.t.s.

Originally posted by shandower: