HELP about my sexual orientation.

• Sylvia Cai Jia Ying

  1 May 05, 18:56

  i shall introduce myself first. my name is sylvia and i recently have a liking for girls.. when i hold hands with my girl friends my heart beats veri fast but i dont haf this feeling with guys. i communicate wif guys naturally and is not shy at all wif them. as a result i haf much more guy friends than girl. recently i found a girl that i can get along very well and we kissed!! on the cheeks. i am not afraid to admit that im a lesbian but it is not well accepted by ppl.. so far only my closest frens know it. my mom will kill me if she finds out about this. how shall i reason out or tell my mom if she happens to find out?
• deathscythe99

  1 May 05, 18:58

  First Question: Why the bar
• FireIce

  1 May 05, 18:59

  Originally posted by deathscythe99:

  First Question: Why the bar

  then u want "her" to put where?
  
  military nuts or cars?
• Sylvia Cai Jia Ying

  1 May 05, 18:59

  my girl frens like me a lot becauz i haf a very wide contacts wif guys and some hot hunks to introduce to them.. all my guy frens treat me as a sister instead of what a guy will treat a girl he like. my liking for female has developed slowly and now i can say i am more attracted to girls than guys.
• deathscythe99

  1 May 05, 19:00

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  then u want "her" to put where?
  
  military nuts or cars?

  Aunt or Uncle Agony mah
• CoolMyth

  1 May 05, 19:01

  It's a common lifestyle trend wat....
  
  At most your mum severs relations with you lor.....not so bad what right....
• I-like-flings(m)

  1 May 05, 19:05

  Originally posted by Sylvia Cai Jia Ying:

  i shall introduce myself first. my name is sylvia and i recently have a liking for girls.. when i hold hands with my girl friends my heart beats veri fast but i dont haf this feeling with guys. i communicate wif guys naturally and is not shy at all wif them. as a result i haf much more guy friends than girl. recently i found a girl that i can get along very well and we kissed!! on the cheeks. i am not afraid to admit that im a lesbian but it is not well accepted by ppl.. so far only my closest frens know it. my mom will kill me if she finds out about this. how shall i reason out or tell my mom if she happens to find out?

  dun worri.. it's ok.. the world is changing soon ppl can accept lesbians or gays....and ur mom will kill u anyway even if u are with a guy what... right? so dun worri lah. tell her at least this gal cant make u preg what.. so she should be happy
• RaTtY81

  1 May 05, 19:31

  hmm u sounds like a clone leh
• deathscythe99

  1 May 05, 19:35

  Originally posted by RaTtY81:

  hmm u sounds like a clone leh

  Of jessie*?
  
  Or Janice Lim Yan Ping?
• RaTtY81

  1 May 05, 19:35

  Originally posted by deathscythe99:

  Of jessie*?
  
  Or Janice Lim Yan Ping?

  janice lim yen ping
• crazy monkey

  1 May 05, 19:35

  Originally posted by Sylvia Cai Jia Ying:

  i shall introduce myself first. my name is sylvia and i recently have a liking for girls.. when i hold hands with my girl friends my heart beats veri fast but i dont haf this feeling with guys. i communicate wif guys naturally and is not shy at all wif them. as a result i haf much more guy friends than girl. recently i found a girl that i can get along very well and we kissed!! on the cheeks. i am not afraid to admit that im a lesbian but it is not well accepted by ppl.. so far only my closest frens know it. my mom will kill me if she finds out about this. how shall i reason out or tell my mom if she happens to find out?

  tell ur mum its better tat to be lesbian because you wun get pregnant
• deathscythe99

  1 May 05, 19:38

  Originally posted by RaTtY81:

  janice lim yen ping

  Paisei lar
  
  Never remember clone nicks one
• Simple_Bear

  1 May 05, 19:38

  Originally posted by Sylvia Cai Jia Ying:

  i shall introduce myself first. my name is sylvia and i recently have a liking for girls.. when i hold hands with my girl friends my heart beats veri fast but i dont haf this feeling with guys. i communicate wif guys naturally and is not shy at all wif them. as a result i haf much more guy friends than girl. recently i found a girl that i can get along very well and we kissed!! on the cheeks. i am not afraid to admit that im a lesbian but it is not well accepted by ppl.. so far only my closest frens know it. my mom will kill me if she finds out about this. how shall i reason out or tell my mom if she happens to find out?

  U r still young...U will grow out of it...lolx...
  
  Hope so...
  
  
• borgkilla

  2 May 05, 00:26

  just go with the flow
• losers.inc

  2 May 05, 09:53

  do you attend lesbian parties?? i would love to go for once.
• BonJovi

  2 May 05, 09:56

  Originally posted by Sylvia Cai Jia Ying:

  i shall introduce myself first. my name is sylvia and i recently have a liking for girls.. when i hold hands with my girl friends my heart beats veri fast but i dont haf this feeling with guys. i communicate wif guys naturally and is not shy at all wif them. as a result i haf much more guy friends than girl. recently i found a girl that i can get along very well and we kissed!! on the cheeks. i am not afraid to admit that im a lesbian but it is not well accepted by ppl.. so far only my closest frens know it. my mom will kill me if she finds out about this. how shall i reason out or tell my mom if she happens to find out?

  u need to seek help FAST if u ever wanna be accepted in sg. Cos in sg, lesbo and gays r nono
• Gordonator

  2 May 05, 16:40

  are u tomboyish?
• vIn.Warrior

  2 May 05, 16:41

  it's just some childish imagination.
• LazerLordz

  2 May 05, 17:09

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  then u want "her" to put where?
  
  military nuts or cars?

  Or SAF Forum
• ndsef

  2 May 05, 17:13

  Originally posted by Sylvia Cai Jia Ying:

  i shall introduce myself first. my name is sylvia and i recently have a liking for girls.. when i hold hands with my girl friends my heart beats veri fast but i dont haf this feeling with guys. i communicate wif guys naturally and is not shy at all wif them. as a result i haf much more guy friends than girl. recently i found a girl that i can get along very well and we kissed!! on the cheeks. i am not afraid to admit that im a lesbian but it is not well accepted by ppl.. so far only my closest frens know it. my mom will kill me if she finds out about this. how shall i reason out or tell my mom if she happens to find out?

  Poor gal... Actually its ok to be a lesbian. But have ever try it out with a guy? Maybe its bec u haven't meet a guy that can make your heart beat fast as well.
  
  Then again aren't you afraid that someone who knows you is in this forum and tell your mum? Hey you put your full name in man...
• silv3rgal

  2 May 05, 17:50

  Originally posted by Sylvia Cai Jia Ying:

  i shall introduce myself first. my name is sylvia and i recently have a liking for girls.. when i hold hands with my girl friends my heart beats veri fast but i dont haf this feeling with guys. i communicate wif guys naturally and is not shy at all wif them. as a result i haf much more guy friends than girl. recently i found a girl that i can get along very well and we kissed!! on the cheeks. i am not afraid to admit that im a lesbian but it is not well accepted by ppl.. so far only my closest frens know it. my mom will kill me if she finds out about this. how shall i reason out or tell my mom if she happens to find out?

  Well, do u wanna be a lesbo till u're old or something? Why not think about da future.... when normal people have their families and kids.. and enjoying their lives with their spouses and grown up kids after retirement....what would u be doing then? And further more lesbians are not widely accepted in Singapore.. bascially other than feelin happy having the accompany of your gf.. there are lotsa obstacles & odds going against u...
  
  Lesbians can't get married here.. and u'll never know how long such r/s lasts...esp when u're old (maybe in ur late 30s , 40s +) if you're ok with singlehood...if u think it's worth it... then do ignore my comments...
  
  However u're still young... it wouldn't be late if u can work to change ur sexual orientation... & it's not gonna be that easy if u sink further years to come... do think about it..... but one thing most of us understand.. feelings sometimes are uncontrollable.. it all depends on ur willpower gal...
  
• kops21

  2 May 05, 17:57

  Originally posted by Sylvia Cai Jia Ying:

  i shall introduce myself first. my name is sylvia and i recently have a liking for girls.. when i hold hands with my girl friends my heart beats veri fast but i dont haf this feeling with guys. i communicate wif guys naturally and is not shy at all wif them. as a result i haf much more guy friends than girl. recently i found a girl that i can get along very well and we kissed!! on the cheeks. i am not afraid to admit that im a lesbian but it is not well accepted by ppl.. so far only my closest frens know it. my mom will kill me if she finds out about this. how shall i reason out or tell my mom if she happens to find out?

  .....
• highway69

  2 May 05, 19:00

  Originally posted by Sylvia Cai Jia Ying:

  i shall introduce myself first. my name is sylvia and i recently have a liking for girls.. when i hold hands with my girl friends my heart beats veri fast but i dont haf this feeling with guys. i communicate wif guys naturally and is not shy at all wif them. as a result i haf much more guy friends than girl. recently i found a girl that i can get along very well and we kissed!! on the cheeks. i am not afraid to admit that im a lesbian but it is not well accepted by ppl.. so far only my closest frens know it. my mom will kill me if she finds out about this. how shall i reason out or tell my mom if she happens to find out?

  Yeah yeah.You are probably the 20millionth lesbo on planet earth.Give her a clap guys.
• shandower

  3 May 05, 10:29

  Whatever floats your boat.
• kopiosatu

  3 May 05, 10:42

  do what you wanna do
  
  i'm gay