My Boyfriend Just Couldn't Hold It Long...
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My guy's sweet and nice, he takes care of me in bed, doesn't skip steps of forplay,
but...
When he gets into me... he's out in a few thrusts...
I don't blame him but i do wish to look for a solution to this...
I can see he does know the problem, but of coz he won't bring it up to me,
I did not confront him either, it'll be too ouch for his ego... he tries doing me with his hands b4 he penetrates into me, i know he is trying hard...
But all gals out there, you know what the good stuff is ya?
How? How? How? -
give him bj..wen he is gona come..stop..n tease him..then continue process..Originally posted by Vonderful:My guy's sweet and nice, he takes care of me in bed, doesn't skip steps of forplay,
but...
When he gets into me... he's out in a few thrusts...
I don't blame him but i do wish to look for a solution to this...
I can see he does know the problem, but of coz he won't bring it up to me,
I did not confront him either, it'll be too ouch for his ego... he tries doing me with his hands b4 he penetrates into me, i know he is trying hard...
But all gals out there, you know what the good stuff is ya?
How? How? How?
no pain no gain
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I give him blowjobs most of the time, but he cant control, he'll come into my mouth...
Even like you say, do it after few lickings first, same things happens....
Done in 10secs..
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dump him.....im here...i can last longer than thatOriginally posted by Vonderful:I give him blowjobs most of the time, but he cant control, he'll come into my mouth...
Even like you say, do it after few lickings first, same things happens....
Done in 10secs..
i think he needs willpower....well...he needs more experience to control it...for me is totally opposite..i can 'stay' long...one time about 13hours...but my problem was couldnt come early..so my gf get headaches frm getting happy 2 much...but now...its ok...try askin ur bf think of sum neutral images in his mind..maybe his grandma or sth....n he needs sum kind of rythm or beat.. -
wtf? did i jus become a sex therapist? omg..
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how about trying to give hima bj and then have sex? this way he could prob last longer during sex.
or you could find out at what point will he ejaculate, and try not to tip him over that point. Do it a few times so that it works some muscles down there to hold his ejaculation.
And finally, try talking to him about the problem. It hurts his ego to admit he has this problem, but it prob hurts him more knowing that his not lasting long enough for you. -
his imaginations too good already~
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ask him apply axe brand oil at *ahem* everynite...then cfm wont be so sensitive le...think he can last longer by then
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He can hold longer the second time, but longer is like 15secs more?
I'm not fustrated, just a little sianz, when i haven't even got on the plane, he's down liao..
But talking to him is a hard part... how do i even start?
Will i end up making him witdrawn from having sex in fear of not being able to satisfy me?
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come to think of it, i'm a guy and i prob wont be very pleased if my gal was to tell me that. but on the other hand, if she's truly sincere in helping i would be touched...it's the most intimate thing a couple can do....
But starting the conversation would be a problem....how about using action instead of words....like when he enters you, let him thrust a few times, then you'll tell him to hold. say something like dont move, just stay in there...subtly hint him....let him start then stop...get it going for a while.... -
then blow him up and go for a 3rd time lo....Originally posted by Vonderful:He can hold longer the second time, but longer is like 15secs more?
I'm not fustrated, just a little sianz, when i haven't even got on the plane, he's down liao..
But talking to him is a hard part... how do i even start?
Will i end up making him witdrawn from having sex in fear of not being able to satisfy me?
Pls advise. -
sekali 3rd time cannot stand liaoOriginally posted by BrUtUs:then blow him up and go for a 3rd time lo.... -
very fast her bf going to die/turn skinny like skeleton~Originally posted by BrUtUs:then blow him up and go for a 3rd time lo.... -
your boyfriend have a serious problem of premature ejaculation. he must seek medical advice.
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No 3rd time... coz he can't liao...
Medical advices??? Not that serious ba..
I guess i'd just wait and see how it goes... he'd be so hurt to hear me criticise about his manhood... better keep my mouth shut...
After all, he's my guy, not a machine... -
You should set your mindset right first...you are not criticising him...you are helping him...let him know that.Originally posted by Vonderful:No 3rd time... coz he can't liao...
Medical advices??? Not that serious ba..
I guess i'd just wait and see how it goes... he'd be so hurt to hear me criticise about his manhood... better keep my mouth shut...
After all, he's my guy, not a machine... -
you never know.Originally posted by Vonderful:No 3rd time... coz he can't liao...
Medical advices??? Not that serious ba..
I guess i'd just wait and see how it goes... he'd be so hurt to hear me criticise about his manhood... better keep my mouth shut...
After all, he's my guy, not a machine... -
do you have orgasm?Originally posted by Vonderful:He can hold longer the second time, but longer is like 15secs more?
I'm not fustrated, just a little sianz, when i haven't even got on the plane, he's down liao..
But talking to him is a hard part... how do i even start?
Will i end up making him witdrawn from having sex in fear of not being able to satisfy me?
Pls advise.
if you have orgasm, it doesn't matter whether he lasts long or short...
if you have already has orgasm (foreplay, oral) before penetration.. i think you don't mind whether how long he can last... ( or can ask for multiple orgasm
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smiley challenge?
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nothing 2 do can change him. either u ask him 2 c a doc or u get another guy 2 satisfy your needs. simply as tat
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a few suggestions....
if u guys are not using a condom, i recommend using one... the rubber will de-sensitize somewhat so he might have to work longer to reach O,
another way is for him to diy sometime b4 u guys do, he might be able to O 2nd time with u, but will take longer then what he ussually do
another way is for me to "stop" b4 he come.... maybe pause to take a breath or stop thrusting and kiss u.. and then when it suside continue again, this will keep him going for longer....
the long term solution is to "practice" self control.... that is up to individual lah.
did he diy? if he did, then ask him to diy but "stop" just b4 he come...a nd when subside, continue again... this will let him control himself....
As for the gal, be happy lah... your bf LOVE you too much, so come so fast! -
poor thing.. i think u need some help... pm mi lor..
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We've tried all of the above...Originally posted by spencer99:a few suggestions....
if u guys are not using a condom, i recommend using one... the rubber will de-sensitize somewhat so he might have to work longer to reach O,
another way is for him to diy sometime b4 u guys do, he might be able to O 2nd time with u, but will take longer then what he ussually do
another way is for me to "stop" b4 he come.... maybe pause to take a breath or stop thrusting and kiss u.. and then when it suside continue again, this will keep him going for longer....
the long term solution is to "practice" self control.... that is up to individual lah.
did he diy? if he did, then ask him to diy but "stop" just b4 he come...a nd when subside, continue again... this will let him control himself....
As for the gal, be happy lah... your bf LOVE you too much, so come so fast!
But i like your last sentence though...