Stop Me Please!!!!
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I know some people are going to flame me and say that i'm sick...
I had my previous post stating that my bf couldn't last for long in bed.. I heeded the kind advices, i tried to "help" him stay longer, but in the end he says that the problem is with me, and asked me what's so different between fingers and ****... Den now he rejects affection from me...
Now i'm asking for nice people here to screw the idea out of my head of having a no strings attached affair with a married man...
In my mind, i'm toying with this idea and frankly, i find it sick... i acknowledge my weakness and i accept any comments to wake me up..
A married man at my workplace is making advances with me... i chose a married man coz i don't need to bear any responsibilities of hurting any innocent guy... We'll just be making use of each other that's all...
Am i just fufilling my own needs or am i playing with fire upon my selfishness? I'm certainly not asking for anyone to justify my thinking, i'm just confused.... it's a dilemma... i'm not proud of myself asking this qns, i really dunno....
I feel so weak.. i love my bf, but i feel inadequate, i feel hurt when he doesn't recognise my part of needs... But i feel sick that i have to resort to betrayal to get what i need...
I don't want to do this to my bf, i'm avoiding the married man... but i'm afraid... just so afraid that i might fall weak one day...
What can i do to put my bf in my shoes and realise that not only men need to be "complete" in bed? -
ok..i am not going to mislead u further..i'm going to bring u home...to your bf's home..talk to him...explain to him the problems..why want to get a 3rd party to involved?somemore he's married..i'm sure if his wife knew abt it..she'll hunt for your blood..but lastly the choice is yours..
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you ask people to stop you when the only person that can do that is yourself...
heck.. you're thinking about "your needs" and your guy is thinking about his...
what about thinking about each other for a while?
work it out.. get your own egos and whatever out of the way... and speak honestly to each other.. -
juz go and fark all of them. go and have a threesome and everyone is happy.
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if i am a single guy, i will reconsider orso if knowling that you r a sleepin around sl ut who like no strings attached affair. please go for ur regular check up and dun spread std all over the place.
married man orso the same...some mor NPNT....see ur all photos then know what kind of face u hav lovin to anyhow pa cheng
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Ehh this is call "Distractor Problem"
Ownself got one problem.. but feel cannot solve
that's why want to find more problems
so can 'distract' from original problem
then when eventually whole life kenna screw up
cos trying too hard to find more and more 'distractor problems'
cos Original Problem simply not solved.
If you wanna commit adultery
then ensure you commit it for the 'right' reasons - pure lust lah
not for any "you are a victim of circumstances therefore you need to commit adultery"
Doesnt make sense
Doesn't do anyone else any good
and u'll just screw up urself -
don't play with fire .... u cant handed it
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you are right in saying that people will flame you.
this is stupid thing to ask.
fark yourself and dont get others involved.
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tok wif each other out lo..
thrash everything out together e both of ur... -
it's good indication that your boyfriend is very insensitive, or even having very low self esteem.
you should just let him go and get greener pastures for yourself.