Have difficulty in inserting your penis into the girl?

• wendy81

  31 May 05, 03:29

  Recently I had made many friends who club and seems like many of them do not go for ONS as they have a contraction problem with the vaginal. They get pains when the guys wanna try enter the small little entrance. Heard that about 2yrs ago there was such a problem and the couple was sent to the hospital in an ambulance in the sex position [the kinda position is not an issue here]. Anyone had encountered such a problem before?
  
  I really feel so sad for those girl friends of mine. I do wish they have a proper sex life like anyone of us here do have.
• Gackt247

  31 May 05, 03:39

  It doesnt juz concern the ladies. Guys do wonder how to make entry easier coz we do worry of causing too much pain on our partners. Past posts in past threads include lubrication, extended foreplay etc. The notion tt the entry is too small is often rebuffed by the arguement tt if a baby can exit from the same orifice, wat's a penis. But the thing is, it takes a considerable amt of time n of course pain before a baby can come out. So now.. how to deal with the problem?
• BrUtUs

  31 May 05, 03:40

  its been a long time since saw your post...
  as for the topic, tink defninitely need alot of lub and patience... ask them go see doc lo...
• wendy81

  31 May 05, 03:43

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  its been a long time since saw your post...

  Its been a long long while I supposed how's everything going with ya? Hope all things fine and sailing smoothly for ya.
• wendy81

  31 May 05, 03:45

  Originally posted by Gackt247:

  It doesnt juz concern the ladies. Guys do wonder how to make entry easier coz we do worry of causing too much pain on our partners. Past posts in past threads include lubrication, extended foreplay etc. The notion tt the entry is too small is often rebuffed by the arguement tt if a baby can exit from the same orifice, wat's a penis. But the thing is, it takes a considerable amt of time n of course pain before a baby can come out. So now.. how to deal with the problem?

  But there was really a case when the the penis was stuck in the vaginal as the contraction was too huge. They needed help from the doctors.
• BrUtUs

  31 May 05, 03:54

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  Its been a long long while I supposed how's everything going with ya? Hope all things fine and sailing smoothly for ya.

  life is ok, still surviving...
• wendy81

  31 May 05, 03:57

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  life is ok, still surviving...

  Everyday is like having warfare.. nutting new about the hectic lifestyle in SG. I've been so bz working too that I had almost forgotten about this forum till someone went to IRC and found me. AiTeZ! its time to hit the sack soon... Its my holidays now and I have to grab the chance to sleep more! hehe! nite nite dude!
• kentheman

  31 May 05, 06:35

  well, like u say, ONS...really depends la...sometimes those involved juz wanna gian song but not trust..therefore, the Pussy wun get wet as easy as those who have sex in a relationship...
  
  wat i can suggest is prolonged foreplay to make the lady wetter..or if the guy wanna save the trouble, invest in a tube of KY...
• wendy81

  31 May 05, 09:34

  Originally posted by kentheman:

  well, like u say, ONS...really depends la...sometimes those involved juz wanna gian song but not trust..therefore, the Pussy wun get wet as easy as those who have sex in a relationship...
  
  wat i can suggest is prolonged foreplay to make the lady wetter..or if the guy wanna save the trouble, invest in a tube of KY...

  Hmmm.... Ive got a particular case whereby my frens who are a couple did not have sex before at all due to the contraction problem. She would bleed and have severe pain even they have foreplay or lubricant. its not about the abrasion pain but its a feeling like the vaginal just do not want to open up at all... the maximum size is so small that it does not fit a penis. Guess there really women who have such problems and they can only climax with the massage of clitoris without the actual penetration.
• spencer99

  31 May 05, 09:58

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  Hmmm.... Ive got a particular case whereby my frens who are a couple did not have sex before at all due to the contraction problem. She would bleed and have severe pain even they have foreplay or lubricant. its not about the abrasion pain but its a feeling like the vaginal just do not want to open up at all... the maximum size is so small that it does not fit a penis. Guess there really women who have such problems and they can only climax with the massage of clitoris without the actual penetration.

  heard that most cases is mental... but if really suspect got physical problem go and see a doc or the gyne.
  
• Devil1976

  31 May 05, 11:18

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  Hmmm.... Ive got a particular case whereby my frens who are a couple did not have sex before at all due to the contraction problem. She would bleed and have severe pain even they have foreplay or lubricant. its not about the abrasion pain but its a feeling like the vaginal just do not want to open up at all... the maximum size is so small that it does not fit a penis. Guess there really women who have such problems and they can only climax with the massage of clitoris without the actual penetration.

  In severe cases, maybe can see a professional about it?
  
  Else, it's often foreplay / lubrication thing with regard to both parties AND mainly a woman's control over her pelvic and vaginal muscle contractions.
• the.raven

  31 May 05, 11:21

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  Recently I had made many friends who club and seems like many of them do not go for ONS as they have a contraction problem with the vaginal. They get pains when the guys wanna try enter the small little entrance. Heard that about 2yrs ago there was such a problem and the couple was sent to the hospital in an ambulance in the sex position [the kinda position is not an issue here]. Anyone had encountered such a problem before?
  
  I really feel so sad for those girl friends of mine. I do wish they have a proper sex life like anyone of us here do have.

  huh, ya rightm the guy's penis shrink then can take out already what, still need to go hospital in the sex position?
• wendy81

  31 May 05, 11:25

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  In severe cases, maybe can see a professional about it?
  
  Else, it's often foreplay / lubrication thing with regard to both parties AND mainly a woman's control over her pelvic and vaginal muscle contractions.

  They have gone to see the gynae already and the doc did mention she's one of the rare cases with problems controlling the pelvic and vaginal muscle. I was just pondering over the question if this will affect their relationship. Sex somehow plays a part in maintaining a relationship.
• MRMUSICPRODUCER

  31 May 05, 13:04

  sex definately is 1 of the key role in a relationship. but since your frd has seen the doc, her bf or bfs or ons or upcoming bf shd appreciate tat. happy bonking
• waliao

  31 May 05, 13:10

  Hello n welcome back Wendy
• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  31 May 05, 13:17

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  But there was really a case when the the penis was stuck in the vaginal as the contraction was too huge. They needed help from the doctors.

  The embarrassment would not have been avoided if the gal had kept a tube of vaselin gel. Never leave home without one. I bring the condom, you bring the gel .
• shandower

  31 May 05, 14:14

  Lubrication is very important.
• wendy81

  31 May 05, 16:51

  Originally posted by waliao:

  Hello n welcome back Wendy

  thanks!
• laosu

  31 May 05, 17:08

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  Hmmm.... Ive got a particular case whereby my frens who are a couple did not have sex before at all due to the contraction problem. She would bleed and have severe pain even they have foreplay or lubricant. its not about the abrasion pain but its a feeling like the vaginal just do not want to open up at all... the maximum size is so small that it does not fit a penis. Guess there really women who have such problems and they can only climax with the massage of clitoris without the actual penetration.

  There's cases whereby some have the tendency of being tensed when having sex whether it's ONS or with bf or even husband. In such cases, the entry will be hard for the male. And sometimes the position does play a part too.
  
  Ok. When I say tensed, I don't mean excitment. I really do mean tensed. Could be a lot of reason and I guess if the couple are very close, the girl should tell the partner what are the ways to make her less tensed or simply just discover it.
• Devil1976

  31 May 05, 17:10

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  They have gone to see the gynae already and the doc did mention she's one of the rare cases with problems controlling the pelvic and vaginal muscle. I was just pondering over the question if this will affect their relationship. Sex somehow plays a part in maintaining a relationship.

  Yeah... Can be quite a 'test' for them...?
• Yellow Box Fish

  31 May 05, 21:06

  Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:

  The embarrassment would not have been avoided if the gal had kept a tube of vaselin gel. Never leave home without one. I bring the condom, you bring the gel .

  Hi everyone...... something to add.... isn't it troublesome to carry the gel in the handbag when out having fun? and moreover, how embarrassing to stop the SEX Partner halfway during making-out.... "Wait.... Not forgetting to use the gel b4 entering orh.... "
  
  Why didn;t anyone mentioned about including Oral Sex during foreplay? I find that's the best way to foreplay a women & Lubricating them before any entry....
  
  I hope i'm not too open.....!!