e Q is :Stay or Stray?
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i love my wife with all my heart,i dont wanna go to others but I'm at my wits end.
Our sex life really sucks.at times she is like a dead fish,at best she is only bit better.
How to go like this,tried conselling,no use.did talk to her,a men's sexual needs are as real & true as womens emotional needs.
still going nowhere it seems.
for now my heart is with her still,but my manhood has needs to be met...way past deadline
I do hv chances with other women,just need to make my mind,keep thinking to just do it,leave the feelings out of it and keep it up till she stops being so bloody 'stift' or I find someone who can share good loving & sex with.
you women out there,& I dont mean 'girls',if you were in my shoes.....
should I stay or should I stray??
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Hmmmm...you two ever seriously talk about this problem? I mean there must be something about her that makes her behave this way. Talking to her and discussing about the problem isn't the same.Originally posted by maximuus:i love my wife with all my heart,i dont wanna go to others but I'm at my wits end.
Our sex life really sucks.at times she is like a dead fish,at best she is only bit better.
How to go like this,tried conselling,no use.did talk to her,a men's sexual needs are as real & true as womens emotional needs.
still going nowhere it seems.
for now my heart is with her still,but my manhood has needs to be met...way past deadline
I do hv chances with other women,just need to make my mind,keep thinking to just do it,leave the feelings out of it and keep it up till she stops being so bloody 'stift' or I find someone who can share good loving & sex with.
you women out there,& I dont mean 'girls',if you were in my shoes.....
should I stay or should I stray?? -
Ask yourself this question....
Will you forgive yr wife if she ever stray becoz she feels that her emotional needs
are not met?????
NO!!!!!!! Stray only if you want to end up in divorce.....got read newspaper or not?...
so many cases of HIV out there ( steadily increasing everyday)
....wat makes you think that these "other woman" are safe! .... let me put it that way, if
these other woman are prepared to have sex with you so readily...wat makes you
think they will not "Prey" on other readily available man!!
Y spoil a loving family just
becoz you feel that yr manhood cannot be fufilled at a satisfactory level!
Go on a romantic getaway at a beach resort without kids (if any)!!! Make her relax and feel love.....buy a book on
kamasutra to experiment with each other body
...... try out get out of yr routine way of life.......
Guide her on how you want to be touch..... do like wise for her!!!
NO MATTER WAT!!! Never stray! Curse all man who strays becoz of bad sex!
p/s do not call yr wifes name ie dead fish!!! Likewise you will not like yr wife to
call you names like " Little Penis!"
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Is it worth giving up everything just to satisfy your needs?
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Emotional reaction frm Pinky there.
Ans: You shouldn't stray. You will speak to her on this matter, she might have a unhappy past or incident which led her to repel from having good sex.
Find out more from her.
If not, divorce is neccessary in this case.
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It's not only a physical need?Originally posted by bratpig:Is it worth giving up everything just to satisfy your needs?
To a man, to certain extend. It is a part of his life. -
hahaha....maximuus is asking for the thoughts of a woman mah!!! Just voicing
how a woman will feel towards their better half straying leh!
Pai seh for the emotional outburst ya!!!
But truely....give yr wife and yr marriage a chance..... understand that sex
is veri much of a man life...... but just put yourself into your wife shoe....you
will not want her to make you wear a "green hat" just becoz we are not fulfilling
her "watever" needs as well.....
If no kids involve and you just simply can not stand "dead fish" sex any longer.....
consider divorce as a last resort lor...... *sigh* ....
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Hmm.. dis is getting common..
I haf a fren whose problem was rather similar to urs. For his case, everything was fine until he got his 1st child. His wife juz "switched off" & refused to consummate with him. She had turned cold. He tried every means & ways to solve the problem but to no avail. After 2 yrs, his patience & efforts juz didn't pay off, finally he decided to call it quits.
Recently, another fren also revealed dat he's having this problem too. I couldn't believe my ears when he said dat thru his 6 yrs of courtship + marriage, he has never touched his wife b4. At 1st he tot his wife was against pre-marital sex. Little did he noe dat her problem was so serious. He tried to help her but she is reluctant to work it out. Till today, he's still sticking by her hoping for a miracle to happen.
Sex without love is cheap. Love without sex is not complete. So i'd say, stay & try harder to get to the root of the problem. If all else fail, leave. Gdluck. -
muz "test drive" b4 "booking"!!!
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watch porn with her