Does Age really matter in a relationship??
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Lately i had read about couples whose age gap is about 15 - 20 years old.
Mostly refered to men.
Personally i don't think it is a problem and it can works, as long as both parties are matured enough and know what they are into.
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only true love matters in a relationship, nothing elseOriginally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:Lately i had read about couples whose age gap is about 15 - 20 years old.
Mostly refered to men.
Personally i don't think it is a problem and it can works, as long as both parties are matured enough and know what they are into. 
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I do partially agree to dat, but sometimes its depends on individuals if they can do wif the gossipin ard..
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I use to be a dreamer, but comon reality is different. Given the situation, I do accept it but to certain ext. Currently with a difference in age of 5yrs, I already find difficulty in communicating in some ext.Originally posted by dreamlander:only true love matters in a relationship, nothing else -
i guess different people comprehend it differentlyOriginally posted by zix:I use to be a dreamer, but comon reality is different. Given the situation, I do accept it but to certain ext. Currently with a difference in age of 5yrs, I already find difficulty in communicating in some ext. -
I agreed..... you fall in love with a person and not his or her age.Originally posted by dreamlander:only true love matters in a relationship, nothing else -
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Maybe it is not dued to age differences but difficulties in expressing yourselfOriginally posted by zix:I use to be a dreamer, but comon reality is different. Given the situation, I do accept it but to certain ext. Currently with a difference in age of 5yrs, I already find difficulty in communicating in some ext. -
u mean each other age gap 15 yrs apart or the 15yrs -20 yrs old..
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most cases, male is usually older or same age as e woman.Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:Lately i had read about couples whose age gap is about 15 - 20 years old.
Mostly refered to men.
Personally i don't think it is a problem and it can works, as long as both parties are matured enough and know what they are into. -
It doesn't matter to most people who are in love.
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As I say, I'm not against it and I do agree.
Its not how big the gaps are, its the state of my of the individuals who are in at dat point of time and not how comprehensive you are.
Given this situation, lets say you are in your 30s then the love is only 15, you mean there wun be any communication porblems? Wat I believe in is will this 15 yr old understand wat the 30 yr old folk? I dun elimate the possiblity of it, but dun think it'll work on me.
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i'm 20 and she's 13. issit ok?
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yeahh....mostly the men are older.Originally posted by jumpmanz:most cases, male is usually older or same age as e woman.
i haven't come across any story where the wife is 15 to 20 years than her husband -
what i meant is the age gap is more than 15years apart...Originally posted by ha8n:u mean each other age gap 15 yrs apart or the 15yrs -20 yrs old.. -
Originally posted by shandower:It doesn't matter to most people who are in love.
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Yes. Most large age gap r/s doesnt work.
But in love that doesnt matter.
Do you know the difference between love and r/s ? -
only money matters....
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you got the point here........Originally posted by zix:As I say, I'm not against it and I do agree.
Its not how big the gaps are, its the state of my of the individuals who are in at dat point of time and not how comprehensive you are.
Given this situation, lets say you are in your 30s then the love is only 15, you mean there wun be any communication porblems? Wat I believe in is will this 15 yr old understand wat the 30 yr old folk? I dun elimate the possiblity of it, but dun think it'll work on me.
i would say the chances of success rate is higher if it involved someone who is in late 30's with an early 20's or a 50's with a 30's. By these age i guessed they are more mature to know what they want.
i think a 15 years should be in school and love can wait........ -
.... ok lah.. just treat her as your little sister lor..Originally posted by aCid_rAIn:i'm 20 and she's 13. issit ok? -
Hmm, I cant agree.. How I done it is educated my partner, in this way things will be rough but long term wise its healthier.Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:.... ok lah.. just treat her as your little sister lor.. -
it depends on wat kind of age group.like if 40 and shes like later 20+s kinda thing. no prob if both parties r working things out. some gals of them same age might still b "playful" & unwillin 2 commit.
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Love doesn't happened out in the blue, love needs time to grow.Originally posted by Ferret:Yes. Most large age gap r/s doesnt work.
But in love that doesnt matter.
Do you know the difference between love and r/s ?
As for relationship, it is only the two parties getting to know each other. It is during these period of times that they got to discover themselves, whether they are meant for each other and to see there are sparks flying......
Love comes during the relationship or not at all............. -
mmm... sounds sensible, if you think the girl got potential and you liked her, why not? You will reap what you sow. But there is a risk, she might break away and landed on someone else instead of you........Originally posted by zix:Hmm, I cant agree.. How I done it is educated my partner, in this way things will be rough but long term wise its healthier. -
...that's true.... i have met girls in their early 20's who are very mature in their thinking.Originally posted by MRMUSICPRODUCER:it depends on wat kind of age group.like if 40 and shes like later 20+s kinda thing. no prob if both parties r working things out. some gals of them same age might still b "playful" & unwillin 2 commit.