Sexual advance at work
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I can't reply your question. Everyone will know. Not only about me, its about my femal colleague too.Originally posted by Gordonator:ok what happened? did u give in?
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Such client bound to meet some, but u can look for new client who isn't so di-goOriginally posted by Christy:I can't reply your question. Everyone will know. Not only about me, its about my femal colleague too.
The thing is if u give in, u will face the same situation over n over again in the future. It isn't a situation if u stick to ur principles. -
if you dare to reject it once, you will have the courage to reject such situations in the future. run away, you musn't!
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I've got lots of female colleagues who clinched their deals with major clients w/o giving in to their "demands" too.
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Obviously there are girls doing it to get business.
Doing business is never that straight forward method by the book
we study in school.
This is the real world.....Originally posted by Christy:Anyone come across clients who have touchy hands and make sexual request in return for business?
Should the lady do that just to get the business and maintain the client? -
u have the choice to break free, it's whether u want to do it onot
if u have the liao, no need scared cannot find another job elsewhere, dun have to betray ur soul...... -
Well said.
The choice is always with us.Originally posted by FireIce:u have the choice to break free, it's whether u want to do it onot
if u have the liao, no need scared cannot find another job elsewhere, dun have to betray ur soul...... -
Means you gave in lah.Originally posted by Christy:I can't reply your question. Everyone will know. Not only about me, its about my femal colleague too.
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Yeah, it's useless.Originally posted by SnowFlag:Tell them u hv boyfriend liao
They are out looking foe fun. not committment. -
never ever give in to these kind of people! it's just not worth it. ask yourself, is it satisfactory at all when u use your body to clinch the deals instead of using your own capability?
give that bastard a punch, yes a hard one! scolded by the boss? quit the job! -
haha. yeah. but it wouldn't reflect nicely on your resume if you punch your client and get fired
just decline politely and ask him whether he wants to continue the deal. if not, walk out on him. just my 2 cents. -
Happens all the time.
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offer your body just to get sales or promotion?
personally i think it is crazy.
there are plenty of girls out there making a decent living without offering themselves. is climbing the corporate ladder that important?
if you have not started, dont!!! coz it will never end...
anyway it depends on what you want. -
Seems like the clients you meet already have ulterior motives.
I presume you are pleasant looking and have exceptional attributes.
Ya, just like what everyone stated:
You might want to consider quitting this present job.
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Or drop the prospect nicely 'you may want to kiv till you're ready to call me again?'
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Then look for ways to powersell and throw in incentives/values to build customer loyalty - you've got to lose some money to clinch deals, but think far.
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Balance your thoughts? Body over Principle / Huge Comission over Lesser one.
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No one can force you, and there is no such excuse as 'no choice'
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Sales sells products/service, not body. -
Well say......Originally posted by M©+square:Seems like the clients you meet already have ulterior motives.
I presume you are pleasant looking and have exceptional attributes.
Ya, just like what everyone stated:
You might want to consider quitting this present job.
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Or drop the prospect nicely 'you may want to kiv till you're ready to call me again?'
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Then look for ways to powersell and throw in incentives/values to build customer loyalty - you've got to lose some money to clinch deals, but think far.
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Balance your thoughts? Body over Principle / Huge Comission over Lesser one.
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No one can force you, and there is no such excuse as 'no choice'
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Sales sells products/service, not body.
things like tis happen all over the place is a matter how u handle it.... what he say is VEry Good -
keep it professional. your job is 2 sell your company, not your body. if your company knows u r doin this 2 get sales, wat will they think? 1 day the bubble will burst & u wont b able 2 stay in this line anymore cos your reputation is gone. u will b branded as the "sleep ard 2 get business". who will trust u again? & pls, there r females clients 2. not only horny males. if u c a male touching gals here & there, wat will u think of him? a tikopeh who doesnt respect woman rite? if a man sees u offering your body 2 ppl 4 business, wat will he think? choice is yours
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tell them u used to have a manhood....Originally posted by SnowFlag:Tell them u hv boyfriend liao 
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I agree with your statements but if the quota can't be reached, that means out of jobOriginally posted by M©+square:Seems like the clients you meet already have ulterior motives.
I presume you are pleasant looking and have exceptional attributes.
Ya, just like what everyone stated:
You might want to consider quitting this present job.
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Or drop the prospect nicely 'you may want to kiv till you're ready to call me again?'
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Then look for ways to powersell and throw in incentives/values to build customer loyalty - you've got to lose some money to clinch deals, but think far.
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Balance your thoughts? Body over Principle / Huge Comission over Lesser one.
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No one can force you, and there is no such excuse as 'no choice'
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Sales sells products/service, not body. -
Look elsewhere my friend.Originally posted by Christy:I agree with your statements but if the quota can't be reached, that means out of job
I really don't see the point of hanging onto your present job. Care to share what benefit they offered?
I presume you're in direct sales?
I sense that you're still in the 'no choice'/'nowhere to go' situation.
Why restrict your talent and creativity? Force yourself to think out of the situation, you'll see paths which you're afraid to take but it could be better than your present thinkingwise.
Alternatively. Why not tell us your qualification?
Assuming that you're a Bus Degree holder, shouldn't have any problem getting jobs.
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Female sales rep have advantage in some way. Even if they are not sexy, even they just look OK, they have the advantage. For those who know how to do the tricks like wear low cut, talk sweet(or even bitchy), body contact, etc will be even better.
imagine u are on the street and a very chio gal come and ask you directions, most likely i would take the trouble to tell her how, or even bring her there if not too far/same direction i am going. But if a guy come, i would also tell, but not as detailed, and sure wont bring him there. Tat's the different. Guys, what about u?
back to the main topic, sexual advance at work, it's very common anywhere. In China, some ppl are suggesting to raise a law against it but not officially approved yet. Cos in china, taking money as bribe is very common for govt officers, business man, etc. And now girls offering sex as bribe is getting more common. They use it to get business deal, climb in job position, etc. Since using money to bribe others is illegal, then how about using sex offer to bribe??
search google for the chinese word "xinghuilu"(sex bribe) will find some news articles on this issue. -
My last advice to u... $$$ is not everything.
You still hv a full-time job and can still survive from the income.
Take care ya...