how to give my gf a good forplay?
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hi people...
I and my gf have been together for 2 yrs liao...every time we do it, she is always very dry...and she always ended up very pain there..she is sensitive to lubricating gel so in the end i tried to warm her up with some foreplay but can't get some results..can anyone tell me how to make a good foreplay?...
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foreplay doesnt only start from the bedroom, but before that when ur with ur gf. her mood is important.
in bed, the way you touch her not zoom in on her privates but start from thighs, arms, back of joints, hair, neck, french kiss her while stroking her, lick her ears n Breasts and down to her Pussy, talk to her, touch her thighs till her Pussy, rub her clit and insert a finger, kiss her and hug her. get the mood relaxed and sensuous. if you both give each other simultaneous oral sex, lick her clit in a continuous pattern (like right to left) and dont insert into her vagina HAlfway. you can also talk to her while you 2 are Fucking, hold her hand, kiss or hug her or touch her privates. try something new, be spontenous. use different sex positions when you have sex. (if you always do missionary, after a while turn her to lying on her side with her bottom leg straight and top leg bent at the knee, then turn her to doggy.) dont always do at ur house or hotel bed only. add in some new elements and be creative. 2 years of same foreplay and intercourse would be boring. thats why ppl even add in a dog or another couple.. try Fucking in new positions, and new places. refer to post where to have sex in public
after sex dont go to sleep but cuddle n take her out someplace fun.
and remember to use the shower before sex. brush ur teeth and use minty mouthwash. trim ur pubic hairs on ur Dick shaft, balls, and Asshole. dont put hair gel -
Ur gf libido very low is it?? Or ur skill not gd?? Do some research will be good
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wah... so much to do ar...Originally posted by {}==[GOD OF FUCK:::;;::>:foreplay doesnt only start from the bedroom, but before that when ur with ur gf. her mood is important.
in bed, the way you touch her not zoom in on her privates but start from thighs, arms, back of joints, hair, french kiss her while stroking her, lick her ears n Breasts and down to her Pussy, talk to her, touch her thighs till her Pussy, rub her clit and insert a finger, kiss her hug her. get the mood relaxed and sensuous. if you both give each other simultaneous oral sex, lick her clit in a continuous pattern (like right to left) and dont insert into her vagina HAlfway. try something new, be spontenous.
and remember to use the shower before sex. brush ur teeth and use minty mouthwash. trim ur pubic hairs on ur Dick shaft, balls, and Asshole. dont put hair gel
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can i do your ass?
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Dude,Originally posted by cronusaw:hi people...
I and my gf have been together for 2 yrs liao...every time we do it, she is always very dry...and she always ended up very pain there..she is sensitive to lubricating gel so in the end i tried to warm her up with some foreplay but can't get some results..can anyone tell me how to make a good foreplay?...
Thanks
the g-spot is always important, atmosphere and the location too. well tell u something my husband and i had tried a few things, if her vagina is dry, u can try foreplay there with a cube of ice(which we did and it works, cos whenever i feel cold or should i say, like goosebumps etc, i sexually hyperactive
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And if u insert the ice cube in and slip in ur penis, u will have cooling sensuation (But its advisable for some guys not to try it cos ur penis might go soft,as the coldness make u diff to hard) so u just use the ice cube and go around the G-spot or vagina.
Alternatively, u can try the ice tube ("ceng pao") where u can buy from mamak shop or provision shop.Insert the round edge in the vagina till she is high...
Try having an exciting sex at the highest level of the flat whereby there is an small crampy room meant for water hose next to staircase landing or mostly its those new flat with the rubbish chute outside. i tried with my husband there before(its pitch dark but spacious enough for 2 to do doggy-style)Try doing it in the day (office-hours) and so chances of ppl hanging ard to throw rubbish will not be high, but still try to control the moaning as in case of maids or housewives passing by.... -
hairgelOriginally posted by {}==[GOD OF FUCK:::;;::>:foreplay doesnt only start from the bedroom, but before that when ur with ur gf. her mood is important.
in bed, the way you touch her not zoom in on her privates but start from thighs, arms, back of joints, hair, french kiss her while stroking her, lick her ears n Breasts and down to her Pussy, talk to her, touch her thighs till her Pussy, rub her clit and insert a finger, kiss her hug her. get the mood relaxed and sensuous. if you both give each other simultaneous oral sex, lick her clit in a continuous pattern (like right to left) and dont insert into her vagina HAlfway. try something new, be spontenous.
and remember to use the shower before sex. brush ur teeth and use minty mouthwash. trim ur pubic hairs on ur Dick shaft, balls, and Asshole. dont put hair gel -
he pretty much covered most of itOriginally posted by {}==[GOD OF FUCK:::;;::>:foreplay doesnt only start from the bedroom, but before that when ur with ur gf. her mood is important.
in bed, the way you touch her not zoom in on her privates but start from thighs, arms, back of joints, hair, french kiss her while stroking her, lick her ears n Breasts and down to her Pussy, talk to her, touch her thighs till her Pussy, rub her clit and insert a finger, kiss her hug her. get the mood relaxed and sensuous. if you both give each other simultaneous oral sex, lick her clit in a continuous pattern (like right to left) and dont insert into her vagina HAlfway. try something new, be spontenous.
and remember to use the shower before sex. brush ur teeth and use minty mouthwash. trim ur pubic hairs on ur Dick shaft, balls, and Asshole. dont put hair gel -
i think communication is important. mayb u can ask her wat she likes in a cheeky way. tat way u can spice her up & at the same time do wat turns her on. happy b o n king!!!
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Set the mood
Start with sensual time, alone or with him (or her). Run a bath and light candles while pouring in your favorite bubbles and scent. I recommend aromatherapy salts (found in most department and bath stores) to stimulate moods and relax the body, mind and spirit. Put relaxing and romantic music on the CD player, set aside some soothing body lotion or oils (natural is best) and dive into the warmth of the water for relaxation time. If your lover is with you, even better. This is a terrific way to relax together and get into the mood for lovemaking. You might give each other a back scrub or rub-a-dub-dub in all the right places, to allow those tight muscles to soften and to get your heads into gear for the delicious road ahead.
Couples report to me that there really is nothing to match a sensual massage for letting go and coming together. Take your turns to give and to receive this touch -- softly, firmly, gently, slowly -- to produce even more relaxation. Remember that great sex usually only occurs in relaxed bodies, so take the time to prepare yourself.
Focus on foreplay
Many women need to have their breasts or nipples touched to become aroused. Have your lover include this in your prelude to sex, to ignite your energies. Most women report that they need to be kissed before feeling sexual. Perhaps that's because for some women kissing "feels" more intimate than sexual intercourse and turns on the faucet of loving emotions. In some ancient lovemaking traditions, passionate kissing is done only with those you truly love and trust. (Remember in Pretty Woman when the most intimate thing Julia Robert's character, the hooker-turned-Cinderella, could do was kiss Richard Gere? Same principle.) So get him to breathe into your breath with you as you explore each other's mouths. Learn to look eye to eye for that connection while you penetrate and probe the mouth with your tongue and breath. If your man is an "air kisser," teach him how to really kiss.
Oral sex is a valid sexual exchange, of course. But for most women it is not foreplay, whatever their male partners may say. Most women require foreplay in a variety of ways -- deep connective kissing, passionate breathing together, eye contact while caressing and being caressed, massage and fondling, licking and sucking of breasts and nipples. But oral-genital contact is another level for most women. When a woman's genitals are stimulated properly she can achieve her first orgasm, which I highly recommend before the penis goes anywhere near her vagina.
Know thy genitals
Renowned sex educator Betty Dodson advises that all women (and men) should spend time at least once learning about their own anatomy. By sitting naked in front of a mirror and visually exploring your own landscape, you will find answers to your own questions about how you look and maybe how and why you do or don't work to your sexual capacity. Notice where your clitoris is; how the hood covers it; how your clitoral shaft protrudes; how low the opening to your vagina sits; whether your outer lips are fatty and cover you up or whether you are baring all to the wind.
Many women who have trouble getting to their single or multiple orgasms are those with a delicate, perhaps barely noticeable, clitoral hood or covering. If so, some may have shut down their sexual reactions to being touched there, as a way to dampen the continual sensations that they originally felt as girls or young women. Just as men must learn to ignore the signals from the clothes rubbing against their crotch, girls also learn to turn on or off according to what's necessary. By reframing those thoughts and learning to reassociate that part of the body with pleasure and being "on," women can redirect their orgasmic potential.
Find your hot spots
There are three possible areas for penetration and stimulation, not counting the mouth: the G-spot, vagina and anus. Probing and rubbing inside the first third of the vagina, either by hand, penis or vibrator, can bring a G-spot orgasm that produces heights of enjoyment. Some women need more direct or indirect clitoral stimulation while he's inside, while others need their partners to lick them to their zenith while having a finger or vibrating internal rod probe her deeply. Some women's excitement grows with a finger or vibrator in their anus.
Only you and your partner will know what does the trick for your anatomy, your sexual response pattern, your own relationship and the interactions that emerge between you two. Each couple have their own manner of expressing sexual energy, sharing loving feelings and lustful ones, and intermingling bodies. Find your own brand of merging and then add to it, like candles on the cake.
The path to multiple orgasms in women includes all the preparatory phases to get into the mood, following your natural sexual response patterns and then pushing through to the next level. Clear the mental, open the emotional, learn how to play the body like a musical instrument, and trust yourself (and your lover) to transcend the first pop and then keep going. I find that women often need to be given permission to have their first little "O" and then keep soaring before they break open the envelope. To find the multiple-orgasm level in you, let go, push past where you have left off before and bring your lover along to enjoy the ride. -
I tried that... I asked her "How's your work today back in the office?" while we're at it.... She gave me a VERY SIAN LOOK...?Originally posted by {}==[GOD OF FUCK:::;;::>:foreplay doesnt only start from the bedroom, but before that when ur with ur gf. her mood is important.
in bed, the way you touch her not zoom in on her privates but start from thighs, arms, back of joints, hair, neck, french kiss her while stroking her, lick her ears n Breasts and down to her Pussy, talk to her, touch her thighs till her Pussy, rub her clit and insert a finger, kiss her and hug her. get the mood relaxed and sensuous. if you both give each other simultaneous oral sex, lick her clit in a continuous pattern (like right to left) and dont insert into her vagina HAlfway. you can also talk to her while you 2 are Fucking, hold her hand, kiss or hug her or touch her privates. try something new, be spontenous. use different sex positions when you have sex. (if you always do missionary, after a while turn her to lying on her side with her bottom leg straight and top leg bent at the knee, then turn her to doggy.) dont always do at ur house or hotel bed only. add in some new elements and be creative. 2 years of same foreplay and intercourse would be boring. thats why ppl even add in a dog or another couple.. try Fucking in new positions, and new places. refer to post where to have sex in public after sex dont go to sleep but cuddle n take her out someplace fun.
and remember to use the shower before sex. brush ur teeth and use minty mouthwash. trim ur pubic hairs on ur Dick shaft, balls, and Asshole. dont put hair gel -
lols... no wonder.....
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-.-Originally posted by Devil1976:I tried that... I asked her "How's your work today back in the office?" while we're at it.... She gave me a VERY SIAN LOOK...? -
if she starts moaning louder and accidentally mumble some stranger's name. see how u laugh.Originally posted by Devil1976:I tried that... I asked her "How's your work today back in the office?" while we're at it.... She gave me a VERY SIAN LOOK...? -
drip wax on her.
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Originally posted by Ito_^:if she starts moaning louder and accidentally mumble some stranger's name. see how u laugh.
when screwing her, ask her " who's your daddy!!!"
but she answer peter while your name is david! -
Never ask about her work when both of u are engaging in sex!
the other partner always wan a more relax and stress free intimate contact, by asking questions like "how's work today?" will only make her stress up and vexed, this will only spoil the whole mood! Silly boy!
if u are financially stable maybe occasionally u can try bringing her to resorts, good hotels like, Sheraton Towers (the king size bed is fanatastic! its so cozy that its really comfortable to have a good sex) or u can try seaview rm with open style bathroom at Shang-ri-la Resort at Sentosa. S$300+ for a night with free entry to spa and jaccuzi. 
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It is better that both of you seek advice from the doctor.
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who's your girlfriend's idol? got any poster of him?