Is he serious?
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I met this man some months ago. We had been bf-gf after that. But now I feel that he is not really into this relationship. I have some doubts on him.
after so many months, we never hold hands, we never kiss, never watch a single show....i dont feel being loved at all.
when he is free, he will call me up and ask me to wait for him downstairs...
and every meeting is the same procedures. Meet up - drove to quiet carpark - talk a little (very little) - unzip his pants - ask for oral sex - drive me home. but he called me is gf...
i very confused. who am i actually?
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Dear girl, he is obviously making use of you. Is that the way you want your bf to treat you? If he loves you he wouldn't be doing that.
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**I want u to be with me.....
be with me in the morning...be with me in the nite...with me when its dark out...with me when its light...
I want u to be with me...no matter what we do...just keep this reminder...of how much I love u...** -
but that's the only way to get close to him.
and i feel that special kind of love when he hugs me in his arm after the act.
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but deep in me i know all these are not real, i know he is not sincere -
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Celestine88:
[B]but that's the only way to get close to him.
and i feel that special kind of love when he hugs me in his arm after the act.
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Dear young lady....How many relationship have u been into ???
Woman dun die without man...He is lusting after u ...No feeling attached! Why doesn't he bring u out for friends gathering??? Think abt it ...Wake up ...What "Special Kind Of Love" BULLSHIT...Are u very happy performing oral sex on him ???
Do some soul-searching..Lady
I believe u deserve a much more special guy than him....Get him out of ur life...NOW
There are more to life than waiting for him to pick u up, talk c**k abit....Suck C**K an hour Hug Hug a while then go home.....Is that the kind of relationship you're SEEKING???
I hope I drove my message across to u ...'in a harsh manner'
Rgds
Xavier
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i dun think dat he loves u at all... maybe u do luv him... but do u think dat it's worth it?... wad he wants, in my opinion, is not luv but sex... and unfortunately u are de choosen one... sorrie if i sounds crude but i juz hope dat u can see light... maybe he does luv u... *hope*
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thank u for all ur advices
i am as happy as a lark now. because i had made clear to him. asked him not to play with my feelings.
Never pick up his call yesterday. -
celestine, u luv'd him? if u still do, den go observe his actions towards u in dis few weeks lorz... see if he offer any words of sorrie, or promises not to juz view sex as de crux of a relationship... maybe he might change fer de better... but on other hand he might tell lies... dat's de complexity of relationships mahz...
if u dun like him liaoz... den easy lorz... initiate a breakup n no haf anything to do wif him liaoz... he might not even treasure friendship, juz as he does not value relationships...
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~FoReVeR I hOLd YoU cLoSe To My HeArT~ -
you seem to have a lot of problems... cheer up.
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cheer up, like other pple already mentioned liao, he only playing wif u... i belief no guys will treat their gf like that...(especially me.. wahaha...)
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[and every meeting is the same procedures. Meet up - drove to quiet carpark - talk a little (very little) - unzip his pants - ask for oral sex - drive me home. but he called me is gf...}
Stop seeing him and selling yourself cheap. (sorry for the words). This kind of asshole is just getting a freebie from you. He is not serious with you. Even if he is serious, he is seriously wanting to have sex with you. Sex is the next time he will be asking from you very soon.
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yep... it's quite crap when that happens... sex or parts of it for that matter is just a small part of what a relationship should have. so screw the bastard (not in that sense) but you get what i mean huh?
good luck... oh.. don't be in such a hurry to do that thang.. wait it out and find out if you're really in love with him. speaking from past experience.. i'm a guy btw, so don't flame me for not having a female chauvinistic view.. hehe.. -
hate dis type of men! hes simply making use of u to satisfy his lust & sex urge. hes not serious after all so gals if u meet dis type of men stay away from early part & dun keep doing wat he tell u to do b4 u become too emotional and hard to let go
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glad to hear that u've made things clear to him...Originally posted by Celestine88:thank u for all ur advices
i am as happy as a lark now. because i had made clear to him. asked him not to play with my feelings.
Never pick up his call yesterday.
but does that means u are no seeing him???
stop seeing such a jerk...
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Wat does he treat u? a girl to be called up for oral sex??? he jus making use of u and doesent care about yr feelings... communication is the most important btw couples... dump him b4 he dumps u..
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This guy is basically using you to satisfy his sexual needs...till he finds someone new to fulfill his urges, he will keep on saying things like 'I love you so much...I really like you....you are my g/f'
Y? simple, so that you will still be his back-up plan for sex...coz if u're gone, he gonna be 'one hand joe' again...know what i mean?
Clear cut..he's not worth any thing at all. Leave him now. Think of all the shit stuff he made you do, you'll get over faster.
Cheers..
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ask u out to gam lan u also go...wow lau.......u dn be stupid lar.........maybe behind u he tell ppl u are lok kuay.......even ah gua do bj aso gt money earn....nex time he ask u go carpark...u listen to him...go...chop off his lanjiao cook curry..fed dog eat.....u r jus his sex slave..
(anyway.tis post so long...will the person read?) -
Ya he is doing that to get some extra sex from you for free.
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Haha " Chop Off his lanjiao and cook curry is yr kou tou chan when u scold guys??? hehe..Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:ask u out to gam lan u also go...wow lau.......u dn be stupid lar.........maybe behind u he tell ppl u are lok kuay.......even ah gua do bj aso gt money earn....nex time he ask u go carpark...u listen to him...go...chop off his lanjiao cook curry..fed dog eat.....u r jus his sex slave..
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he is not serious. he just want free oral sex tts all. maybe a 'real' sex next time.
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Gal....i'm not sure u r still seeing him anot....
Juz in case u wanna give him one more chance, if he ask u to give him a bj, tell him NO...n see his reaction....then u will know whether to stay with him or not......
However, as a gal....i wouldn't want my bf to treat mi in this way.....
it would be rather a sex slave than a gf....
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Gal....i'm not sure u r still seeing him anot....
Juz in case u wanna give him one more chance, if he ask u to give him a bj, tell him NO...n see his reaction....then u will know whether to stay with him or not......
However, as a gal....i wouldn't want my bf to treat mi in this way.....
it would be rather a sex slave than a gf....
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by the way hw old r u? hmm guess he not reli a gd guy at all juz make use of u to satisfy his needs... sorry if wad i said hurt u...
