Is virginity so important?????
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hi! all
Just would like to know why there is such a different between the thoughts of women and men in Virginity?
i come arcoss a survey on the above.
About 70% of the men prefer their partner to be virgin than about 30% of women.
How come????
Does that meant that Singaporean women are more open-minded then men?????
Why so?????
oh! something Very Strange too...in the survey most men dont mind having pre-marital sex but their partner must be Virgin?????
Tell me about your opinions gals and guys
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70% of the guys are 'selfish' or very conservative people... 70% of the women wants to have better sex for the rest of their lives....
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Originally posted by Devil1976:70% of the guys are 'selfish' or very conservative people... 70% of the women wants to have better sex for the rest of their lives....
Devil
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So how many 70% men and women here
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h&E -
H&E is 2 ppl or one person?
why u wake up so early on saturday wan? go back to sleep! -
You know i had read a few of your posts. i like it. i think you are a very open-minded and mature guy. i think at your age you should think that way. A guy who is full of life experienceOriginally posted by M3OwMi:H&E is 2 ppl or one person?
why u wake up so early on saturday wan? go back to sleep!
Hmmm...you seem to be very observant too
Have you heard of a Proverb:
Early to bed and early to rise makes
a man healthy, wealthy and wise
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http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0604.html
HYMEN STRETCHING
Dear Alice,
I am (still!) a virgin and have a question about the hymen. I know mine is not entirely intact, because I did a lot of horseback riding as a child. But as I'm not a tampon-user (nor wish to become one), I'm not exactly sure how painful intercourse will be, for the first time, nor what will happen to the hymen.
I always assumed it was a thin membrane that, upon penetration, would shrink evenly to the sides. But I seem to have what you might call a flesh tab, and though I've looked at pictures offered in Our Bodies, Ourselves, I'm not sure I understand how an opening will be created, and have the horrifying idea that a piece of flesh is going to drop out or be torn right out of me. Is it normal to have a flesh tab? What will happen to it? And if I tried inserting a tampon, would that facilitate the tearing process? Please help.
Yours,
Tawanda
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Dear Tawanda,
The hymen is a thin membrane, with a space or spaces for periods to flow through, which partially blocks the opening of the vaginal introitus, or vaginal entrance. Hymens are stretched or torn during the first experience of sexual penetration, or with tampon use or other non-sexual activity. It can also be stretched with fingers. Some females are born without hymens. Once torn or stretched, the hymen becomes an irregular ring of tissue around the vaginal opening.
From your description, it sounds like your hymen is partially still in place. This need not cause you any concern. This flesh tab will shrink to the sides of the vagina following increased pressure on the hymen, through tampon, penis, or other object insertion in your vagina. You could also stretch your hymen yourself. It is a relatively simple procedure. Place a finger into your vagina (which can be lubricated with lube or saliva) and apply pressure on the vaginal entrance by pressing downward toward the anus. Keep the pressure on for a few minutes, then release it. Repeat this procedure several times, each time with a little more pressure. Then insert two fingers and apply pressure to the sides of the vaginal entrance, in addition to the downward stretching. This whole process can be repeated over several days and usually reduces any discomfort during a first experience of intercourse. However, keep in mind that in the majority of cases (though every female is different), the first coital experience is generally nontraumatic, with limited discomfort and minor, if any, bleeding.
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er ... im a girl! or rather im a womanOriginally posted by HimmeL & erDe:You know i had read a few of your posts. i like it. i think you are a very open-minded and mature guy. i think at your age you should think that way. A guy who is full of life experience
Hmmm...you seem to be very observant too
Have you heard of a Proverb:
Early to bed and early to rise makes
a man healthy, wealthy and wise
H&e...2in1 product
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Life is a state of mind.
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