Originally posted by xinyi!:
first i must say i'm a girl who's quite comfortable with guys.. i usually initiate most conversations & guys love talking to me. but.. why is it that i get accused of flirting whenever i talk to an attractive male? even when i'm only striking a normal conversation & trying to be friendly?.. as far as i'm concerned, i do not consider myself as a kinky person.
i do hug guys though.. but only those i knew very very well.
PART 1 QNS: why is it that i get accused of flirting whenever i talk to an attractive male?ANS: It might be your body language or the way u express yourself towards attractive males. For example, ur speaking style and the qns u ask matters. If u tend to ask stupid qns to attractive males(like wat u r doing now
), it will seem that you want lotsa attention and it will be considered flirting.
PART 2 QNS: even when i'm only striking a normal conversation & trying to be friendly?ANS: Your normal conversations may be lame, completely outta point or totally insane(just like ur posted threads
).
Also if you are trying to be friendly, it might just be that you are trying way to hard to get attention(like wat u r doing now
), or it might be that you are not up to the attractive males standards and therefore making everyone think you are flirting.
PART 3: ConclusionSo, the Conclusion i made just shows that u might be trying to hard for something you want but know will never get, or, no one really shows interest in you as you may be a Flirtatious Device without you knowing it. I hope i've lead you to the right path.
