Physical Relationships
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Do you think they last?
If you're partner is willing to go all the way with you(physically that is) after being together for a month, have sex whenever you want etc. Would you treasure her? Or would you just take it for granted?
From my personal experience, I don't think this type of relationships last. Maybe the guy has had enough fun or in other words is tired of playing, and he just doesn't take the relationship seriously anymore.
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i will say...hey lizV fuk off
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After 1 month and then go all the way?
In the first place. What in the world is the girl thinking???
It's not about how long or whether the r/s can last or not.
It's how much you know the guy?! -
very well?
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doesnt matter whether its 1 month or 1 year or 1 decade cos its the guy himself tat determines it... if he has the character then he def will do it even the couple did it after married...Originally posted by LizV:Do you think they last?
If you're partner is willing to go all the way with you(physically that is) after being together for a month, have sex whenever you want etc. Would you treasure her? Or would you just take it for granted?
From my personal experience, I don't think this type of relationships last. Maybe the guy has had enough fun or in other words is tired of playing, and he just doesn't take the relationship seriously anymore.
What say you? -
Very well as a Friend or a boyfriend?Originally posted by LizV:very well? -
i doubt can last..
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There are many ways to look at it. And many stories to prove it right, as well as proving it wrong.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:i doubt can last.. -
x1Originally posted by M©+square:There are many ways to look at it. And many stories to prove it right, as well as proving it wrong. -
bfOriginally posted by M©+square:Very well as a Friend or a boyfriend?
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You prove to me.Originally posted by LizV:bf 
With 1 month as a bf. You can be assured that you know him VERY WELL.
My dear girl. It doesn't work that way.
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I beg to differ.Originally posted by M©+square:You prove to me.
With 1 month as a bf. You can be assured that you know him VERY WELL.
My dear girl. It doesn't work that way.
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Come come share share.Originally posted by HENG@:I beg to differ.
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hmm.... i believe its not the actual length of the knowing that matters. its how much u have interacted with the other person during that time period that matters. And anyways, in a r/s, how much of it is spent knowing someone and how much of the rest of it is spent in a routine r/s? I personally believe that u can get to know someone well very quickly. Its how much they change later on and how well u get to know and come to accept those changes that decides how long a couple stays together.Originally posted by M©+square:Come come share share.
Other than that, I refuse to comment on anything else more
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With your post, i slipt into two portion.Originally posted by HENG@:hmm.... i believe its not the actual length of the knowing that matters. its how much u have interacted with the other person during that time period that matters. And anyways, in a r/s, how much of it is spent knowing someone and how much of the rest of it is spent in a routine r/s? I personally believe that u can get to know someone well very quickly. Its how much they change later on and how well u get to know and come to accept those changes that decides how long a couple stays together.
Other than that, I refuse to comment on anything else more
1 is the length of time knowing one another. Understanding strength and flaws and gain communication.
2 is the change after you 'thought' you've already known the person. Yup, you've mentioned the point on 'acceptance.'
Personally i think, with 1 month. It's not possible to grasp the person's character and adaptation to his/her changes, though it's not impossible.
Morever, it is usually expectations of willing party which will decide on the outcome of r/s as a whole.
To accept a partner with only 1 month of knowing one another and having gone thru physically all the way. It's not impossible. But damn hard. -
within one month, we don't have to care about adaptation to changes. The issue here is on whether u can grasp the person's character. Any changes are longer term so they don't fall into the picture. So yes I believe within one month of knowing each other, its possible to know the other person very well. I do not equate knowing the other person very well to having physically gone all the way though. But it is quite possible for both to happen, and personally I would say that within this past 2 weeks I've gotten to know someone very well, and if it wasn't because I'm physically away, its quite possible that we would have physically gone most if not all the way within 1 month.Originally posted by M©+square:With your post, i slipt into two portion.
1 is the length of time knowing one another. Understanding strength and flaws and gain communication.
2 is the change after you 'thought' you've already known the person. Yup, you've mentioned the point on 'acceptance.'
Personally i think, with 1 month. It's not possible to grasp the person's character and adaptation to his/her changes, though it's not impossible.
Morever, it is usually expectations of willing party which will decide on the outcome of r/s as a whole.
To accept a partner with only 1 month of knowing one another and having gone thru physically all the way. It's not impossible. But damn hard. -
sometimes, it's make believe...Originally posted by HENG@:within one month, we don't have to care about adaptation to changes. The issue here is on whether u can grasp the person's character. Any changes are longer term so they don't fall into the picture. So yes I believe within one month of knowing each other, its possible to know the other person very well. I do not equate knowing the other person very well to having physically gone all the way though. But it is quite possible for both to happen, and personally I would say that within this past 2 weeks I've gotten to know someone very well, and if it wasn't because I'm physically away, its quite possible that we would have physically gone most if not all the way within 1 month.
sometimes, it's real.
We have the ability trust what we believe and make things work out. -
yes. thats true. If you believe, u'll try your damned hardest. i don't want to fail and then wonder what i could have done better. so i believe, and if it doesn't work out, at least i know i've done my best.Originally posted by M©+square:sometimes, it's make believe...
sometimes, it's real.
We have the ability trust what we believe and make things work out. -
Yup, that's what makes living life beautiful....but at times a living hell.Originally posted by HENG@:yes. thats true. If you believe, u'll try your damned hardest. i don't want to fail and then wonder what i could have done better. so i believe, and if it doesn't work out, at least i know i've done my best.
Seems like you got lots of good relations over there. Good for you.
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lol. i wish la. i seldom got that sort of luck one. recently got to know someone. But that person is in sg.Originally posted by M©+square:Yup, that's what makes living life beautiful....but at times a living hell.
Seems like you got lots of good relations over there. Good for you. -
Originally posted by HENG@:lol. i wish la. i seldom got that sort of luck one. recently got to know someone. But that person is in sg.
I somehow heard.....
Hush hush. -
u did?Originally posted by M©+square: I somehow heard.....
Hush hush.
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i think the word here is chemistry? if u choose to go all the way, chemistry is impt, no?Originally posted by LizV:Do you think they last?
If you're partner is willing to go all the way with you(physically that is) after being together for a month, have sex whenever you want etc. Would you treasure her? Or would you just take it for granted?
From my personal experience, I don't think this type of relationships last. Maybe the guy has had enough fun or in other words is tired of playing, and he just doesn't take the relationship seriously anymore.
What say you?
n since u know him as a bf n v.well, how abt him? does he know u equally well? if not a r/s cannot just last for a long time on a solo basis.
wif ur personal experience, didn't it tell you something of this nature of r/s? the other word for this might be maturity (in terms of thinking, relating to one another etc)? if he's young, likelihood of him committing to 1 person is difficult but not impossible.
jmo. -
dear lizv, don't be blinded by love.
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guys all sucks..