serious topic: my gf in pain when i insert my finger in her

ahworm

13 Jul 06, 23:46

what's wrong here? i always try to insert my finger after i make her wet. she's willing to let me insert my finger but upon inserting she says it's pain. when i totally insert my finger into her she say buay tahan liao then i must take out my finger....

i need serious help here...

darkensun

13 Jul 06, 23:48

worm got fingers?

ahworm

13 Jul 06, 23:52

pls this is a serious topic. i wish to help my gf and myself.

thanks for your kind undersatnding. Smile

SMRT Buses

13 Jul 06, 23:58

If you're serious then perhaps I would suggest both of you visit a doctor to clarify & solve your problem

ahworm

14 Jul 06, 00:01

i did thought of bringing her to see doctor but i dun think my gf will feel comfortable abt it so i hope this will be the last thing in my list.... i hope to get more advise or if me or she is doing anything wrong which caused it.

SMRT Buses

14 Jul 06, 00:07

Originally posted by ahworm:
i did thought of bringing her to see doctor but i dun think my gf will feel comfortable abt it so i hope this will be the last thing in my list.... i hope to get more advise or if me or she is doing anything wrong which caused it.

Eh, would you rather have a few mins of your gf being uncomfortable or would you rather have your wholelife miserable & uncomfortable? I suggest you better not put the visiting of the doctor last in your list wor. Anyway, visit a female doctor lah so your gf won't feel uncomfortable at all

ahworm

14 Jul 06, 00:10

Originally posted by SMRT Buses:
Eh, would you rather have a few mins of your gf being uncomfortable or would you rather have your wholelife miserable & uncomfortable? I suggest you better not put the visiting of the doctor last in your list wor. Anyway, visit a female doctor lah so your gf won't feel uncomfortable at all

for this i really got to have a good talk with her... after all, it's not really comfortable to talk to a stranger abt your sexual problem right? i got to spare a thought for her feelings also...

Ito_^

14 Jul 06, 00:15

ur fingernail long? edges uneven?

maybe its juz a small issue. wun die can le lar.

ahworm

14 Jul 06, 00:17

Originally posted by Ito_^:
ur fingernail long? edges uneven?

maybe its juz a small issue. wun die can le lar.

i got cut fingernail. i hope it's not big issue too.... hope some experts can give more advice.....

SMRT Buses

14 Jul 06, 00:20

Originally posted by ahworm:
for this i really got to have a good talk with her... after all, it's not really comfortable to talk to a stranger abt your sexual problem right? i got to spare a thought for her feelings also...

I know, both the "face" & feelings are impt but health far more impt leh...

tofushop193

14 Jul 06, 02:52

ohhh...this is serious

Fatum

14 Jul 06, 03:01

use your tongue first .....

stellazio

14 Jul 06, 03:41

its the wrong hole. Mad

Blue`Bulb

14 Jul 06, 06:03

Originally posted by stellazio:

its the wrong hole.

lol

shandower

14 Jul 06, 08:35

Not enough lubrication probably. Make sure your gf is really wet before attempting to finger her.

de_middle

14 Jul 06, 11:43

Originally posted by ahworm:
what's wrong here? i always try to insert my finger after i make her wet. she's willing to let me insert my finger but upon inserting she says it's pain. when i totally insert my finger into her she say buay tahan liao then i must take out my finger....

i need serious help here...

wrong technique ar Laughing

dunno how better dun ani how do hor Laughing

You use video camera record & post here, we help you see if you're doin it rite anot ok Laughing

dragg

14 Jul 06, 11:45

your finger as big as king kong's?

eddyshinoda

14 Jul 06, 12:20

make her really wet. den use ur smallest finger.
if small finger she say pain, i noe y already.

she got infection or she just dont want to do it with you.

dork3d

14 Jul 06, 12:21

Ask you a very fundamental question: Have you ever have sex with your girlfriend?

If yes, then it could be a medical reason of vaginal linen inflammation, which require medical attention....

If not, then it could be the dryness of the vaginal wall linen and the tissues around the vaginal wall are sensitive...

red_tide24

14 Jul 06, 12:54

why u wanna put ur finger inside got gold ah?

tink u go too fast liao.. 1st time put ur whole finger in.. imagine i insert my finger into ur nose.. 1st time i poke it str inside.. of course pain la.. but if i everyday 0.5cm deeper.. the nose will tend to expand more in size and grow accustomed to ur finger wat.. tink my bro...

Darkness_hacker99

14 Jul 06, 14:57

Originally posted by ahworm:
what's wrong here? i always try to insert my finger after i make her wet. she's willing to let me insert my finger but upon inserting she says it's pain. when i totally insert my finger into her she say buay tahan liao then i must take out my finger....

i need serious help here...

That's means she is a virgin lor.

mhcampboy

14 Jul 06, 15:32

Urroh

14 Jul 06, 15:56

Use KY Jelly, i think can help you.. Mr. Green

After fingering can use it on yr dick the same way. Laughing

CyNdI)4.eVa

14 Jul 06, 16:28

Possible solutions:

1) Trim your nails.
2) Use more lubrication.
3) Break that piece of skin that is preventing pentration.
4) Improve your fingering skills and techniques.
5) Consult a doctor.
6) Just dump her to avoid all this trouble.

ahworm

14 Jul 06, 19:50

Originally posted by CyNdI)4.eVa:
Possible solutions:

1) Trim your nails.
2) Use more lubrication.
3) Break that piece of skin that is preventing pentration.
4) Improve your fingering skills and techniques.
5) Consult a doctor.
6) Just dump her to avoid all this trouble.

1) i always trim my nails. i know it sure hurts with long nails.

2) i haven't try this yet. but will try it

3) you mean there is a piece of skin which 'break' already then won't be painful already? is it the same is when virgin girl having sex then got blood cos the skin break?

4) willing to learn

5)last in my list until confirm problem lies in my gf

6) definately i will not.