This gOod Good gAl and Its jUst mE
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sounds like u already chosen...Originally posted by nightyoung:i womdered if she getting good meals
and had eaten dinner?
i dun know why i still care for her - at least a bit -
i am a bit soft-hearted sometimes but the thought and sight of them together really make me mad..Originally posted by BrUtUs:sounds like u already chosen... -
Its normal. sometimes you worry whether is she taking care of herself.Originally posted by nightyoung:i womdered if she getting good meals
and had eaten dinner?
i dun know why i still care for her - at least a bit
Then you think, she might be doing some nuisance to herself and blame it on you saying she did it for you. Maybe drinking, maybe being reckless and so on. Because she is so sad blah blah blah.
Then you think about about the scene and you feel like actually tipping the whole load of the things you returned her, plus some flower pots on their heads.
Cheer up babe, you got a overseas trip to worry about. Focus on that! -
You mean .. its good to go with her for the overseas trip??Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Its normal. sometimes you worry whether is she taking care of herself.
Then you think, she might be doing some nuisance to herself and blame it on you saying she did it for you. Maybe drinking, maybe being reckless and so on. Because she is so sad blah blah blah.
Then you think about about the scene and you feel like actually tipping the whole load of the things you returned her, plus some flower pots on their heads.
Cheer up babe, you got a overseas trip to worry about. Focus on that! -
You mean you still wants to go with her?Originally posted by nightyoung:You mean .. its good to go with her for the overseas trip??
Go Alone or someone else to replace her lah! -
Not necessary..Originally posted by viciouskitty74:You mean you still wants to go with her?
Go Alone or someone else to replace her lah! -
so its trip cancel.Originally posted by nightyoung:Not necessary..
Then what you want to do? brood at home? -
i dun know... i am still thinking about her now.. i still miss her...Originally posted by viciouskitty74:so its trip cancel.
Then what you want to do? brood at home?
but when i think back what has happened that nite.. i just dun have the courage to go on...
i msg her about how i felt too.. -
dun know why i went over to her house at 2.30am..
really afraid that that she's still upset or cant eat..
but met her younger sis and came to know that she went out for countdown..maybe movie with friends..
i left..
i but somehow i just feel like seeing her again..
My mum called and my dad called..
I waited at her house void deck.. but my guess i wont see her till 7am in the morning.. thereforce i left and i thought.. what if i see her with the guy again or what if i see her again alone..
what would i do?
I find no answer but left the place..
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Deja vu!!!
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=170645
How i wish she can called me in 3 min time and say she will never see her ex again, maybe i will forgive her...
but... sighed.......
X'mas is really not the day for me...
Merry X'mas everyone!! -
seriously l tink our nightyoung here is really a very nice good guy with alot of patience....and l am kinda touched by u..as for me..l wont do so much for a gal l like..
Nightyoung l even browse ur old thread and read up....read every things that u wrote..and l am kinda amazed that u can hold a torch for her for so long...
But dun u tink...is time to let go le? How can she be with her ex bf..hugging when she has already been with her? Is this a nice and good gal shld do, l doubt so...l dun tink u shld harbour any tots of being with her again..If she dare to do it one time...who noes? there might be a 2nd time...dun tell me u wan to marry this kind of gal and living with her in future..who let u worry and always nid u to be ard to take care of her..This cant be going on...u will feel sumhow exhausted and tired in the journey? If she really love u...she will be more independent and dun let u worry abt her, and of coz making u happy than sad..l could see that u are kinda sad alot of times..
It is pain to put down her...but like l say..time shall heal anything...
U deserved a better gal...who will treat u with respect and love u as much as u love her...=)
l really hope u will hav a happy outcome in ur r/s
Merry christamas btw ^^ -
Actually it felt scary.
nighthyyoung is kinda impulsive and boredering on hysterial.
And he is stalking his ex now. Thats not a good sign.
For heavens sake. Go for a trip alone! Its better then you waiting at her void deck and then she suddenly turns upset to say that her ex is harrassing her! -
ya is a bit overline liao..but l dun understand is y nightyoung is holding this gal so firm...there are better and nicer flowers waiting on the other side for us to explore ....but he is juz bend on wanting this flowerOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:Actually it felt scary.
nighthyyoung is kinda impulsive and boredering on hysterial.
And he is stalking his ex now. Thats not a good sign.
For heavens sake. Go for a trip alone! Its better then you waiting at her void deck and then she suddenly turns upset to say that her ex is harrassing her!
tink that this gal must be a great beauty to attract nightyoung all over..
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if you only knew what he went through in the beginning..
anyway, i hope he figures things out..
if you want to let go, LET GO!
if not, go talk to her again... and if it works, good.. if it doesn't, LET GO!!
but as things show, he feels he cannot trust her again, it will never work..
good luck NY.. hope you figure things out..
if you do let go, take a deep breath and start over.. -
Trying to write Epilogue, Part 2/2 but some how ...
u know.. i know she is very remorseful now.. but anyway i just couldn't get over it as yet..
so we end up not spending the x'mas this year together... -
Actually, this is her second time..Originally posted by xShevchenkox:seriously l tink our nightyoung here is really a very nice good guy with alot of patience....and l am kinda touched by u..as for me..l wont do so much for a gal l like..
Nightyoung l even browse ur old thread and read up....read every things that u wrote..and l am kinda amazed that u can hold a torch for her for so long...
But dun u tink...is time to let go le? How can she be with her ex bf..hugging when she has already been with her? Is this a nice and good gal shld do, l doubt so...l dun tink u shld harbour any tots of being with her again..If she dare to do it one time...who noes? there might be a 2nd time...dun tell me u wan to marry this kind of gal and living with her in future..who let u worry and always nid u to be ard to take care of her..This cant be going on...u will feel sumhow exhausted and tired in the journey? If she really love u...she will be more independent and dun let u worry abt her, and of coz making u happy than sad..l could see that u are kinda sad alot of times..
It is pain to put down her...but like l say..time shall heal anything...
U deserved a better gal...who will treat u with respect and love u as much as u love her...=)
l really hope u will hav a happy outcome in ur r/s
Merry christamas btw ^^
the first time she lied to me saying she meeting her friend ans its on a sat which usually we will meet.. but she keep saying its ok we meet later or what..
then i saw her with her ex together..
she said her ex parents ask her for dinner and thats why she was that afraid i got angry so she lied to me..
She knew that she was in the wrong the second day and apologized to me and said that if she were to ever meet him again... she will let me know..
and will meet him in public places and not at his house anymore..
I forgave her...
and this time i think its will be more or less the unforgiven ...
I love her ver much and do not wish to see this ending for us but its not a choice for us anymore... she has broken our trust. and my heart... -
We're back together again!!
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eh... what happened???Originally posted by nightyoung:We're back together again!! 
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seriously nightyoung if she were to get involved with her ex bf or lie to u again..this time..u must really stand firm and giv her up...u cant be forgivin her again and again...Originally posted by nightyoung:Actually, this is her second time..
the first time she lied to me saying she meeting her friend ans its on a sat which usually we will meet.. but she keep saying its ok we meet later or what..
then i saw her with her ex together..
she said her ex parents ask her for dinner and thats why she was that afraid i got angry so she lied to me..
She knew that she was in the wrong the second day and apologized to me and said that if she were to ever meet him again... she will let me know..
and will meet him in public places and not at his house anymore..
I forgave her...
and this time i think its will be more or less the unforgiven ...
I love her ver much and do not wish to see this ending for us but its not a choice for us anymore... she has broken our trust. and my heart...
Like the boy who cry wolf..1st time..ppl believed him, 2nd time oso..and 3rd time nobody believed him anymore..
Anyway now u and her patch liao..l nthing to say le..juz hope that she will love u as much as u love her..and everything goes smoothly for u and her =) -
ya we both know its a last straw.. and i am sure she wont do it again..Originally posted by xShevchenkox:seriously nightyoung if she were to get involved with her ex bf or lie to u again..this time..u must really stand firm and giv her up...u cant be forgivin her again and again...
Like the boy who cry wolf..1st time..ppl believed him, 2nd time oso..and 3rd time nobody believed him anymore..
Anyway now u and her patch liao..l nthing to say le..juz hope that she will love u as much as u love her..and everything goes smoothly for u and her =) -
if i were u, i would be equally devastated also..
see ur love one in another person's arms.. it's really terrible de.
i have never seen a man cry over gf de..
i dun think you are being selfish ba..
she really did you wrong..
but i believe that things has come this way, somehow you must have contributed a bit also.
had she done something similar like this before?
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Originally posted by nightyoung:We're back together again!!
huh?
so drama! -
yup yupOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
huh?
so drama! 
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well ok.. i hope next xmas wun see u post such a thread again.Originally posted by nightyoung:yup yup -
i hope too... thanks everyone too!!Originally posted by browniebaobao:well ok.. i hope next xmas wun see u post such a thread again.