Would you girls ever marry a cleft-lipped guy?
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One who is kind-hearted and sucessful?
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Why cannot? My friend is happy married with 2 kids leow... love is blind lah haha.Originally posted by Vince Disel:One who is kind-hearted and sucessful? -
I'm still unconvinced... I have many cases of girls discriminating against such guys.
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Depends on the girl.. but now can have surgery to make it less obvious. I know bad to depend on looks but guys also complain if girls not perfect.
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those who talk with a strange accent?
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Its really sad to see many girls are judging a person by his looks first. Theres no such thing as inner beauty anymore....
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that's sad but a cold hard factOriginally posted by Vince Disel:Its really sad to see many girls are judging a person by his looks first. Theres no such thing as inner beauty anymore....
we got to keep on moving until we find the one who truely understands -
We also judge girl based on chio or not first mah... but takes time to know a person lah.
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I would say even most guys judge another guy by his looks too . If he sees someone hadicapped or ugly, they wouldn't want to be his friend.
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If the handicapped / ugly guy thinks this way, he's likely a person with little to no self-esteem.Originally posted by Vince Disel:I would say even most guys judge another guy by his looks too . If he sees someone hadicapped or ugly, they wouldn't want to be his friend.
Most people I know dislike people with no self-esteem, and not because of their outward appearances. Of course, there are many types of people in the world. -
It's a cruel world brother.
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y not, ever heard of love is blind??
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Joaquin Phoenix got cleft lip but still quite handsome what.
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When we see pretty girls,we would tend to see all her good points before discovering her bad points.Originally posted by Vince Disel:Its really sad to see many girls are judging a person by his looks first. Theres no such thing as inner beauty anymore....
Whereas for a fat and ugly girl,we wld associate all bad things with her,ignoring any good points that she has.
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my friend cleft lipped have a pretty gf .. who say they cant have love?
Love doesnt base on looks alone..
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acherly, me wudnt mind.
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there are of course discrete examples of people with cleft lipped but still happily married.
but the truth is ... if u have cleft lip, you will be disadvantaged and discrminated naturally by a certain degree.
discrimination is hardwire in us. we just avoid things that looks different. we can of course learn to reduce our natural inclination to discriminate but it takes time and there is so many things we have to learn not to discriminate.