How should I explain to him??
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I was cuddling with my boyfriend and I stroke his groin.
A while later he had a full erection.
I then said that his erection is very fast...other ppl take quite a while and some are always 'soft soft' one.
What I meant is that I watch porn movies before and I saw the male actors take a long time to get fully erected.
Then my boyfriend very unhappy asked me what I mean by 'other ppl'.
I was stuck as I became shy to say I watch porn movies. I start to stammer as I dunno what to explain.
Then my boyfriend asked me how many other guy's have I 'do' before that I start comparing. I became angry as he is saying as if I am a loose woman.
Then its cold war.
I think about it and I think its my fault I say the wrong thing. But I dunno how to explain to him that its was porn movie. And even if I admit now I dunno if he will believe me or say I come up with this story to cover up.
How shd I explain to him? -
jus say u watch porn loh
nothing to be shy abt
if required, share ur collection with him -
the next time u have sex with him...just say his dick is longer than most guys' u have seen...
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Must have evidence to your claim... show him your porn collection...
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but i think the praising part muz come first before show evidence.. show he get high, den more high wif the show..
but hor, consequence is u might contribute to singapore population.. do be careful ya ?
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boost his ego, say his c0ck big... then he'll forget about what happened
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agree.. show him your porn collection and prove to him that u saw them in the porn that u are watching. a lot of couples watch porn together and enhance their intimacy. maybe after showin him your collection........ well... is for u to update us again... hehe...
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nothing wrong..if really very tempting..my little brother jump up fast
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Never ever insult a man's manhood especially if the didi belong to your bf/husband . As u know men are ego lots and very sensitive to their di di. You will cause a Cold WAR. The same way u girls dont want us to say u are fat even though u are one, so pls respect the man little soldier.
Count urself lucky ur bf little brother is working.Nowadays men having ED are on the rise. 
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Just say sorry and give him a good time.. he will sure forgive you damn fast.
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just say that u watch porn before lor.. confirm he watch before too.
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again another gal attached
with these type of guys
why guys always take serious
the gal talk abt other guys
pls la guys wake up
gal talk abt other guys
take it easy la
doble standard world
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well, if you think you are wrong in the 1st place,
then i suppose you shld apologise.
don't just say sorrry, perhaps, let him knw that you wan to provide him an explaination, if he ignores you, give him some time, leave him alone 1st, but not without e-mailing him to give him a full explaination,
then let him knw that you are going to give him some space of his own when he has cooled down, he can come find you again.
its probably that he just impluse that caused him to be angry with you bahx.
if your explaination is not accepted, then i guess, you just have to come up with other form of communication bahx.
man has invented the knowledge of speech and writing for communication, do not waste such basic knowledge and lose someone you truely treasure. -
well, there is no way men can understand ladies, nor ladies, understand men because sometimes we don't even understand ourselves, lady A may not think the same as lady B and same goes to man. twins too don't think exactly alike. many like to search the hidden meaning of everything, and hence making life complicated. and misunderstand would naturally occur. and on the final note, would you like your guy talking abt other girls?Originally posted by mrsmall:again another gal attached
with these type of guys
why guys always take serious
the gal talk abt other guys
pls la guys wake up
gal talk abt other guys
take it easy la
doble standard world -
Why worry so far ahead? Tell him the truth then see how it goes lah
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just tell him u watch porn loOriginally posted by alien queen:I was cuddling with my boyfriend and I stroke his groin.
A while later he had a full erection.
I then said that his erection is very fast...other ppl take quite a while and some are always 'soft soft' one.
What I meant is that I watch porn movies before and I saw the male actors take a long time to get fully erected.
Then my boyfriend very unhappy asked me what I mean by 'other ppl'.
I was stuck as I became shy to say I watch porn movies. I start to stammer as I dunno what to explain.
Then my boyfriend asked me how many other guy's have I 'do' before that I start comparing. I became angry as he is saying as if I am a loose woman.
Then its cold war.
I think about it and I think its my fault I say the wrong thing. But I dunno how to explain to him that its was porn movie. And even if I admit now I dunno if he will believe me or say I come up with this story to cover up.
How shd I explain to him? -
Originally posted by R3SsH|n:the next time u have sex with him...just say his dick is longer than most guys' u have seen...
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say it is only in porn that the guy can take so long to erect. normal guys in real life often erect fast. (as told by other guys that you know).
otherwise gg rm. -
just tell him that you watch porn.
confirm chop chop he wont get angry. -
say his cock long and big
followed by a blowjob..
confirm he wont angry liao.. -
Don't need to explain to him lah, if he doesn't trust you enough can ask him to fuck off!
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He did not mention the matter liao and we are back to normal.
Think the next time if I were to say such things, I will remember to start the sentence by saying '...compare to those guys in porn movie...'
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very interesting indeed
at least he's aroused by you... a healthy and normal sign yes
so be thankful for that...
and pls do try not to +1 to the s'pore population w/o being legally married...
although we're in need of +1 ya
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Now u have learnt the invaluable lesson of importance of complete honesty between couples......... Cheers!
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Originally posted by FireIce:jus say u watch porn loh
nothing to be shy abt
if required, share ur collection with him