In love with a divorced mum who is "bao" by another man

• dont know much

  2 Feb 07, 21:20

  I met a divorced mum who brought her boy to singapore to school. They're from china. Days passed, mum & me felt in love. We behaved like a couple.
  
  1 day, mum met someone- Singaporean divorced 40+ years old man.
  He brought her gifts, gave her money, bought clothes & bicycle for the boy. Brought them out to shop etc.. Brought her to meet his working colleagues over dinner, to relatives' place.
  
  Simply put, he is very keen to marry her.
  
  Mum talked to me openly, about what the man did. She felt grateful, but she doesn't love him at present.
  We both agreed that when days passed, love develops..
  
  It seems that money speaks, rather than true love.
  
  I am depressed because we love each other. I didn't treat her as good as what the man did- in the financial sense.
  
  I appreciate constructive & helpful advice. No jokes please, for I am feeling really lousy.
  Please.
• Pitot

  2 Feb 07, 21:21

  so wad? u are the son? huh? wad?
• a-Lost-9uY

  2 Feb 07, 21:22

  i catch no ball
• DeadPoet

  2 Feb 07, 21:25

  Originally posted by dont know much:

  Mum talked to me openly, about what the man did. She felt grateful, but she doesn't love him at present. We both agreed that when days passed, love develops..
  
  

  I am sorry but what exactly is the problem?
• Pitot

  2 Feb 07, 21:26

  Whiskey Tango Foxtrot
• FireIce

  2 Feb 07, 21:27

  although very broken but i think the essence is tt she not willing to leave the one with money
  
  so i dun think u shd waste ur time on her........
• Pitot

  2 Feb 07, 21:28

  so he is lover number 2? not the son?
• Ito_^

  2 Feb 07, 21:32

  u shld post this in aunt agony, not here.
• Eric Cartman

  2 Feb 07, 21:41

  sex, then after that hand her $50
• Medicated Oil

  2 Feb 07, 21:45

  I think both of you singaporean guys have become s ucker for this dragon lady.
  
  Stay away from this lady as she may say the same things to other guys.
  
  You dunno how many guys is she "in love" with ?
  
  Unless you want to part with her and your money, stay clear from her.
• stellazio

  2 Feb 07, 21:46

  sounds like a typical prc lady.. here for the money only..
• dont know much

  2 Feb 07, 22:15

  $ aside, if you'd loved someone- you would feel the person. We feel each other deeply.
  
  $ is another separate energy. When one comes from a poorer place, she will be grateful to the person who gives her what she needs. A norm.
  
  

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  sounds like a typical prc lady.. here for the money only..

• pervertboi

  3 Feb 07, 00:19

  Originally posted by dont know much:

  $ aside, if you'd loved someone- you would feel the person. We feel each other deeply.
  
  $ is another separate energy. When one comes from a poorer place, she will be grateful to the person who gives her what she needs. A norm.
  
  

  Grateful, ok....
  but as u said 'bao' = money for sex = pros.... sorry i had to say that...
• Chuichi Koshiramaru

  3 Feb 07, 00:22

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  u shld post this in aunt agony, not here.

  Yeah, I second that.
• Darkness_hacker99

  3 Feb 07, 09:33

  
• 798

  3 Feb 07, 09:44

  love aside, i think u should let her go for the sake for her bright future. dat man can provide her a good future for her n her son. for u i think u deserve someone better.
• Devil1976

  9 Feb 07, 02:29

  As I think this topic should be more appropriate in AA, could the MOD in here pls kindly close this thread pertaining to cross-posting policy?
  
  Else, do let me know if you're quite insisting that this thread should stay here. I shall just close the other one in AA.
  
  Thanks with regards.