Do guys reject sex...
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how old r u?mayb he dun wanna do the pre-marital sex mah...i mean after doin it with u is reali like commiting completely liao(if he has responsibility la)...if u 2 married liao then i duno whats wrong with him liao lolOriginally posted by ashley_cold:a couple of times... but last week, he did tried to finger me and brought me to organsm without even him fucking me. -
mayb he suffering from erectile dysfunction ?
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ok, advice noted. will definitely try that out..Originally posted by mystee:hmm.. dun seem normal.. try & seduce him & c he got any reaction anot.. -
yah, basically that's what i feel so too but i'm just not sure if guys think that way too. u know, from what i heard, guys always use their penis to think.Originally posted by darkhour:how old r u?mayb he dun wanna do the pre-marital sex mah...i mean after doin it with u is reali like commiting completely liao(if he has responsibility la)...if u 2 married liao then i duno whats wrong with him liao lol
no offense or wadsoeva.
and nope, we're not married, and neither am i underaged. -
havent married. The guy doesnt get want to be involved in pre martial sex as he is still schooling.
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what's that?Originally posted by TycoPsycho:mayb he suffering from erectile dysfunction ?
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u mean u guys din have sex b4?Originally posted by ashley_cold:yah, basically that's what i feel so too but i'm just not sure if guys think that way too. u know, from what i heard, guys always use their penis to think. no offense or wadsoeva.
and nope, we're not married, and neither am i underaged. -
when guys are horny they use their penis to thinkOriginally posted by ashley_cold:yah, basically that's what i feel so too but i'm just not sure if guys think that way too. u know, from what i heard, guys always use their penis to think. no offense or wadsoeva.
and nope, we're not married, and neither am i underaged. -
if he says he is tired, then u got to take into consideration his nature of work lor. busy type or eng-eng type.
coz most of the time, when guy rejects sex means something going on.
its either they have tried others or going to try one soon thus losing interests in u.
sorry to be so straightforward, but im trying to let u noe the possibilities behind.
but stil, just my view and might not be in ur case.
no matter wad, u just stay relax n cool first, dun jump into conclusion fast, ok.
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It's been a while since there's been a proper topic around here.
I think if the guy is tired he might reject? But otherwise if u're able to turn him on, I think he won't.
Then, of course, same goes with other girls outside.
Too many times have we read/seen/heard about guys who cheat on their gfs. The other way around happens too, but statistically, the guys are still ahead.
Yet, it's impt to trust ur guy. You may want to talk to him about it ya? -
I regret rejecting my gf offer while trying to act holy...
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do you often reject sex from him? if yes, then it is possible that he turn to other forms of sexual gratification, from masturbation to meditation etc.
If the 2 of you were having frequent sex before, and he has never rejected you before until now, it COULD, POSSIBLY be that he has lost interest in ... you, or has found someone else to love, or as what many had pointed out, due to work commitments (but this is unlikely still, coz most young men can and need to have a way of relieving their sexual urge, even when tired.)
3rd possibly is that he has turned holy.
4th is he still loves you but can commit to you.
You are partially correct to say that guys think with their dick, but for many, including myself, if you don't love that girl, I wont feel like having sex with her. -
Sometimes, there's a good football match on.Originally posted by ashley_cold:just because they are too tired? Or are there simply other reasons? -
I'm a guy, and I'm not any "expert" because I haven't fully done any such thing yet, but...
Desperate way: Sneak a viagra into his meal.
Normal way: Many ways around on the net that you can search for. Make sure he's relaxed before doing any special stunts. Best way to make him relax is to have a good meal. -
I want to watch football so stfu and go back to sleep.
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i always say NO when a guy tries to initiate sex...
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depends on who ask for it
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I do when I'm very tired.
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oh please, don't lie to yourself! when there is no love and he doesn't want to hurt you by using your body, he'll have to reject you till the day he gather enough guts to tell you he don't love you anymore, seriously you should be grateful that he rejected sEx with you instead of enjoying your body. true words are always the hardest to hear!!!
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no hot-blooded male will reject sex
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Precisely! So even if he is cheating on her, he wouldnt reject her for sex too.Originally posted by menoob:no hot-blooded male will reject sex -
we did. but not as regularly as before... gosh, does the fire die down so soon?Originally posted by mystee:u mean u guys din have sex b4? -
hey, strado. thanks for your advice. i do still feel his love for me. it's a strange way that love works.Originally posted by strado:You guys are hilarious. I always hear girls say things like "guys all just want sex, guys are all horny despo etc and if there are still any guys out there who dont date girls just for the sake of sex blah blah blah."
And then when a guy reject sex from his girlfriend for just a few times, you all start saying things like he is cheating or something is wrong.
Honestly guys, why are you all having so little faith in our species? You may be horny and want sex, true, I do get horny too but that DOESNT mean I want sex 101% of the time isnt it?
And to Ashley: don't think too much. Just because for a few times that he doesnt want sex, you start to feel something is wrong. Pls dont feel that way, if you do feel that way, it simply implies that you dont trust him at all, and that your relationship with him is built simply on the foundation of lust and physical attractions.
Maybe his body is just experiencing an all-time low and he doesnt feel any urge in him for now.
I'm a guy too btw.
for a start of a relationship, it's all fiery love, lust and everything. but now, as time passed by, it's not so unpredictable anymore. there're lesser surprises than in the past. but i feel safer around him, as if i know i can always rely and count on him anytime.
is this the way that love is supposed to be?