Getting married soon, need help for first sex
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Hi, i am getting married to my bf soon (Oct). As a virgin, i have no sex experience yei i want our 1st time to be a memorable one. So i have some question to ask those who are experienced in this field.
1) how to create the atmosphere
2) should i shave my pubic hair
3) should i be naked before the whole thing or let him strip me
during the process
4) when should the condom be put? before everything or just b4
shooting
5) if he dont dare to touch me, will i seem very cheap to take his
hands and place on my breasts
6) during blowjob, am i suppose to suck to bite?
7) after intercourse, what am i suppose to do? wear back my
clothes, sleep or clean up
8 ) what can i do to turn him on
pls teach me, thanks for ur guidance! -
Well I guess that explaining the whole thing will be too worrisome for something so natural. I'm sure millions of couples have faced your situation before, and I feel that the best thing to do is to go with the flow. Juz totally immerse in it and let yourself go?Relax,everything will work out fine.
BTW, congratulations, and I wish u both matrimonial bliss always.
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Originally posted by aeki:Hi, i am getting married to my bf soon (Oct). As a virgin, i have no sex experience yei i want our 1st time to be a memorable one. So i have some question to ask those who are experienced in this field.
1) how to create the atmosphere
The night after the ceremony it is enough.
2) should i shave my pubic hair
No
) should i be naked before the whole thing or let him strip me
during the process
No let him do it.
4) when should the condom be put? before everything or just b4
shooting
LIcense to make baby why use it. If needed do it before penetrating.
5) if he dont dare to touch me, will i seem very cheap to take his
hands and place on my breasts
No at least he know what you need.
6) during blowjob, am i suppose to suck to bite?
Do it your way lor
7) after intercourse, what am i suppose to do? wear back my
clothes, sleep or clean up
Depend on both of you
8 ) what can i do to turn him on
Buy some sexy clothing or sexy lingerie
You may encounter pain for the first time just feel relax. If not the process can continue.
pls teach me, thanks for ur guidance! -
1) how to create the atmosphere
– prono movie, no lah just joking.
Talk, have some wine (not too much scaly drunk cannot do) dim the lights.
2) should i shave my pubic hair
– shaving won’t have, some like it clean, so like it as it is. Becareful not to cut yourself then cannot do liao.
3) should i be naked before the whole thing or let him strip me
during the process
– can do some strip tease dance for him. Maybe he will make love wif cloth on, some like it that way. Anyway, some sexy lingeries will do the trick.
4) when should the condom be put? before everything or just b4
shooting – shoot first then put it on,
saver this way wonÂ’t get hurt hee (joking)Â… do u count u period or ovalation? If notÂ…best use condoms before inserting. safer not to have bady immediately after 9mth. no siok too soon. 
5) if he dont dare to touch me, will i seem very cheap to take his
hands and place on my breasts
– just take his P**** & put it into ur mouth but I think u may not like doing that the first time or maybe just rub & put into yr V*****, the rest will be automatic. not cheap...sex if wonderful.
6) during blowjob, am i suppose to suck to bite? - both oso can, some like painÂ….hahaha But donÂ’t do it wif a hungry stomach less u wish it was a hotdog Â….heehee (just suck my dear) 
7) after intercourse, what am i suppose to do? wear back my – no, just sleep if u don’t mind his semen all-over you or u can clean-up or bathe…maybe he want more after that, sleep or clean up. Best is just continue the imtimatecy...
8 ) what can i do to turn him on – yr body should do the trick…if not I don’t know what to say... -
btw hor.... how to wear a condom huh??? hehe
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best practise is to buy a big pack & try on a cucumber, if availble on yr bf..... but make sure he don't make excuses of QC testing of the condom....hahaha
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Just relax and do some foreplay (him fingering u) before getting into the real thing, this will make yrself get into the mood and real high mann.. since you r married, y put on condom? but if u r not planning to haf kids so fast, put a condom before intercourse or take contraceptive pills lor... You can bathe wif him together after intercourse to clean yrself up.As for how to turn him on, you can act seducive by wearing sexy lingerie and slowly striping piece by piece.. Good luck for Yr first time having sex!!
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Aeki,
Just let your heart and emotions take control.... the brain is not required in sex...
you sound like you guys haven't even engaged in petting b4? thats bad... -
my goodness, if ur serious about ur query, u're probably online now "researching" ways on making it good, and grabbing all kinds of magazines to have a squiz at the articles and columns of sex and wat not....
i dare say all the information u've gathered is gonna prove to be more stressful for u when u actually come to do it. i'm saying this becos it may seem like a "test" on the wedding nite for u to perform, much like memorising the different techniques and moves and wat not and performing it when the time comes.
it was never meant to be a procedure. and we are animals, instinct plays a big part.
my first time wasn't that enjoyable. it was awkward and maybe even embarassing. hope urs will be better, but i sure did not research much and i think that i turned out pretty alrite!