ok, this may sound weird but I'm trying to conceive but my bf is thinking otherwise.

why am I doing this? It's not to entrap him or something

. We have a very stable relationship and marraige is something on the horizon but maybe not now but I've been having this very strong maternal instincts for some time already. We live togerther so I have no problem with it. Everytime we have sex, we use the withdrawal method. By the way, it has been proven recently pre cum has NO sperm in it... coz he usually ejactuates on my belly and then goes off to wash up, does anyone know if I move the sperm to my vagina opening, is it possible to get pregnant? Or any other ideas? I was actually thinking of telling him I'm on the pill so that he will ejactulate inside of me but if I get pregnant immediatedly won't it be too obvious? I also have worries about fertility. I had an ex who smoked loads of weed in the past (heard it impairs fertility) and so I always smoked it "second hand" and he always ejactulated inside of me and we were together for about almost a year.... but no baby. He recently got another gal preggers so is the problem with me I wonder... Hmmm

Can anyone help???