Feelings for the person or juz SEX???
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something i've been wondering for quite sometime....
so decided to post it here n ask for some opinion....
Do guys actually lost interest in a gal after having sex??? if gf mayb different cos both of u have feelings n love for each other.... then if let's say frans leh??? PTL or something where feelings n liking were not strongly involve??? cos found out tat b4 sex guys usually treat the gal better... hug n kiss n felt more 'hot' but after sex, becomes colder.... until the nx time they abt to have sex again....
How true is it
anybody care to explain ur opinion
n y is it so
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Hmm... Let's see...Originally posted by thhong22:something i've been wondering for quite sometime....
so decided to post it here n ask for some opinion.... Do guys actually lost interest in a gal after having sex??? if gf mayb different cos both of u have feelings n love for each other.... then if let's say frans leh??? PTL or something where feelings n liking were not strongly involve??? cos found out tat b4 sex guys usually treat the gal better... hug n kiss n felt more 'hot' but after sex, becomes colder.... until the nx time they abt to have sex again....
How true is it anybody care to explain ur opinion
n y is it so 
We guys are really strange creatures..... when we have the crave and everything is set right in front for you then..... things are done or self controlled.... Mostly after the crave is gone... the feelings are not so much affectionate... That's why gals like to call us bastard.....
Think we are born biologically this way.... unless we don't know what is sex and we don't get in touch with it..... Then another problem.... sexually deprived.... -
Originally posted by jetruby:Hmm... Let's see...
We guys are really strange creatures..... when we have the crave and everything is set right in front for you then..... things are done or self controlled.... Mostly after the crave is gone... the feelings are not so much affectionate... That's why gals like to call us bastard.....
Think we are born biologically this way.... unless we don't know what is sex and we don't get in touch with it..... Then another problem.... sexually deprived.... 
I veri agree wif wat u sey... -
not necessary lah...depend on individual lor....Originally posted by thhong22:something i've been wondering for quite sometime....
so decided to post it here n ask for some opinion.... Do guys actually lost interest in a gal after having sex??? if gf mayb different cos both of u have feelings n love for each other.... then if let's say frans leh??? PTL or something where feelings n liking were not strongly involve??? cos found out tat b4 sex guys usually treat the gal better... hug n kiss n felt more 'hot' but after sex, becomes colder.... until the nx time they abt to have sex again....
How true is it anybody care to explain ur opinion
n y is it so -
ya...lor..Originally posted by sugardaddy:not necessary lah...depend on individual lor....
oso depend on the ger...I think sometime gers after u had them...they seem to be not interested to attract u like b4. They tends to dress down or don't put make-up anymore. Talk to you like some debt collector...
so far I have not lose interest with my gf after these 4 years ...maybe she is alway look so good.....more I see the more I want.......... -
hahaha.... sound damn horny....Originally posted by euphratis:so far I have not lose interest with my gf after these 4 years ...maybe she is alway look so good.....more I see the more I want.......... -
izit??? i tot only guys will lost interest in gals... nv heard of gals will oso lost interest in guys.... hahaha....Originally posted by euphratis:ya...lor..
oso depend on the ger...I think sometime gers after u had them...they seem to be not interested to attract u like b4. They tends to dress down or don't put make-up anymore. Talk to you like some debt collector...
if they dress down n don put make up... then they lost interest in u... how r they going to get new guys???
don understand y u say tat leh.... -
reali strange... maybe bcos guys had higher sex drive, so like u say, the crave is gone then they like sian sian liao....Originally posted by jetruby:Hmm... Let's see...
We guys are really strange creatures..... when we have the crave and everything is set right in front for you then..... things are done or self controlled.... Mostly after the crave is gone... the feelings are not so much affectionate... That's why gals like to call us bastard.....
Think we are born biologically this way.... unless we don't know what is sex and we don't get in touch with it..... Then another problem.... sexually deprived....
can i oso say tat guys r nice to a gal is bcos of tat crave or horniness???
wat guys treat the gals as??? only a sex partner to help to satisfy ur crave??? abit unfair to the gals hoh???
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not really...... when feelings comes into play.... then everything changes.... that's why we have girlfriend.... our mentality about a girlfriend is someone whom we can share anything and trusted the most no matter whether we are happy or sad..... Someone whom we wanted to start a family with later in our life and there's where our committments and responsibities came in.... life is too short to think about what is fair and unfair.... time wasted on brooding this kind of issues can be used for others more meaning purposes.... no matter what happens, we just accept it and move on with our life, that's why it's called: yesterday is a history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift, that's why it's call the present....Originally posted by thhong22:reali strange... maybe bcos guys had higher sex drive, so like u say, the crave is gone then they like sian sian liao....
can i oso say tat guys r nice to a gal is bcos of tat crave or horniness???
wat guys treat the gals as??? only a sex partner to help to satisfy ur crave??? abit unfair to the gals hoh??? -
well saidOriginally posted by jetruby:not really...... when feelings comes into play.... then everything changes.... that's why we have girlfriend.... our mentality about a girlfriend is someone whom we can share anything and trusted the most no matter whether we are happy or sad..... Someone whom we wanted to start a family with later in our life and there's where our committments and responsibities came in.... life is too short to think about what is fair and unfair.... time wasted on brooding this kind of issues can be used for others more meaning purposes.... no matter what happens, we just accept it and move on with our life, that's why it's called: yesterday is a history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift, that's why it's call the present....
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Agree with you...somethimes humans just spend too much time brooding issues that are not really that important....Originally posted by jetruby:not really...... when feelings comes into play.... then everything changes.... that's why we have girlfriend.... our mentality about a girlfriend is someone whom we can share anything and trusted the most no matter whether we are happy or sad..... Someone whom we wanted to start a family with later in our life and there's where our committments and responsibities came in.... life is too short to think about what is fair and unfair.... time wasted on brooding this kind of issues can be used for others more meaning purposes.... no matter what happens, we just accept it and move on with our life, that's why it's called: yesterday is a history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift, that's why it's call the present.... -
we gals too have a bf bcos of wat u say.... share anything happy or sad.... trusted... love n be loved....Originally posted by jetruby:not really...... when feelings comes into play.... then everything changes.... that's why we have girlfriend.... our mentality about a girlfriend is someone whom we can share anything and trusted the most no matter whether we are happy or sad..... Someone whom we wanted to start a family with later in our life and there's where our committments and responsibities came in.... life is too short to think about what is fair and unfair.... time wasted on brooding this kind of issues can be used for others more meaning purposes.... no matter what happens, we just accept it and move on with our life, that's why it's called: yesterday is a history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift, that's why it's call the present....
but i oso do noe some guys who have a gf bcos of having a free n regular sex partner...
Hmm.... i got nothing to say when i heard him saying tat...
think the gals muz b very sad if they noe abt tat... Hiaz....