Painful sex (penetration)
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Just wonder if any of the gals here find sexual intercourse or fingering painful? but enjoys other forms of sexual play. How about the guys here, any of ur gals are like this?
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Heard b4 some gals finger will pain.... Intercourse most gal will too.....Originally posted by ss80:Just wonder if any of the gals here find sexual intercourse or fingering painful? but enjoys other forms of sexual play. How about the guys here, any of ur gals are like this? 
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If sex are painful then why they are always indulging in sex too?Originally posted by tjm07:Heard b4 some gals finger will pain.... Intercourse most gal will too..... -
Fingering can be very stimulating for girls but remember to cut yr nails b4 fingering.. or it will be painful...
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Eh... You mean will hurt when finger instead of the finger will pain right?Originally posted by tjm07:Heard b4 some gals finger will pain.... Intercourse most gal will too..... 
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For HYGIENE purpose....
instead of passing the dirts & gems in ur fingernails to the vaginal wall... or even scratching the wall & cause infection...
UNDERSTAND??? -
For the first time only... after the first time it will be all but pleasure...Originally posted by [G]oggles:If sex are painful then why they are always indulging in sex too? -
then tell u something, everytime i do with my ger, its like always the first time. and i really cannot do anything but just stone there, coz any slight movement and she will complain pain. i wonder if she has ultra low threshold of pain coz i know it hurts for gals, but the pleasure overrides the pain. My ger gets high and orgasms w/o penetration, but the moment i close in on her to penetrate, she loses all pleasure. damn SIAN ah........ love her so much but then everytime a romantic evening tat shd end up in passionate sex becomes like tat.
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eerrrmmm
not enuf lubricant?
ger not ready then guy kan cheong........................ -
Ur bird too big izzit? Cos big bird will make almost all gal pain... that why gal dun really like big dick woorrrr...Originally posted by ss80:then tell u something, everytime i do with my ger, its like always the first time. and i really cannot do anything but just stone there, coz any slight movement and she will complain pain. i wonder if she has ultra low threshold of pain coz i know it hurts for gals, but the pleasure overrides the pain. My ger gets high and orgasms w/o penetration, but the moment i close in on her to penetrate, she loses all pleasure. damn SIAN ah........ love her so much but then everytime a romantic evening tat shd end up in passionate sex becomes like tat. Another problem maybe she not enough wet and i think if all two are untrue for ur case then she is not ready give her more time... love dun mean must hv sex... passionate moment are enough... -
hahaha..pratice make perfect...the more you do with the gal the less pain she will fell and eventually feels shiok then numb then no feeling, then she can watch newspaper while you are doing finally, she gave up and left you with your finger to settle the job lor..hahaha
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Whah???!!! You beri imaginative lei.Originally posted by sugardaddy:hahaha..pratice make perfect...the more you do with the gal the less pain she will fell and eventually feels shiok then numb then no feeling, then she can watch newspaper while you are doing finally, she gave up and left you with your finger to settle the job lor..hahaha -
err xinn
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Maybe it is a mental problem which result her in being too nervous.
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Unless she is a virgin, it should not hurt. Most probably she is not stimulated enough that is why. If you do want to use your fingers guys, please a) cut your fingernails, b) be gentle....dun go push your fingers all into her virgina then finger-fuck her when she is not stimulated...that is panful okie!!
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got to wet her before penetration lor.... figner cant work.... use your mouth...
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Originally posted by ss80:then tell u something, everytime i do with my ger, its like always the first time. and i really cannot do anything but just stone there, coz any slight movement and she will complain pain. i wonder if she has ultra low threshold of pain coz i know it hurts for gals, but the pleasure overrides the pain. My ger gets high and orgasms w/o penetration, but the moment i close in on her to penetrate, she loses all pleasure. damn SIAN ah........ love her so much but then everytime a romantic evening tat shd end up in passionate sex becomes like tat.
This used to happen to me. I try to endure the pain then.
But after some " practise", it will be fine. Needs to take time. can't be rush. -
well, at least u practiced, my ger is all say and no action. it's not becoz she not wet, my nails long. She is damn wet and high because i make foreplay to her brain the whole day. i appeal to her 5 senses to create the atmosphere, (including music, aromotherapy) make her ultra high, but when we try, she ultra turn off which makes me even ultra pissed.Originally posted by butterc: This used to happen to me. I try to endure the pain then.
But after some " practise", it will be fine. Needs to take time. can't be rush. -
Wow!!make her so high, then she turn-off.. realli qian gong jing qi...Originally posted by ss80:well, at least u practiced, my ger is all say and no action. it's not becoz she not wet, my nails long. She is damn wet and high because i make foreplay to her brain the whole day. i appeal to her 5 senses to create the atmosphere, (including music, aromotherapy) make her ultra high, but when we try, she ultra turn off which makes me even ultra pissed.
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use lubricants. nowadays quite widely available even on websites.
came across www.modnoc.com, www.condom2u.com etc.
do a search on www.google.com using keyword like lubricant,singapore, u shld find a list of websites -
got to go slow and be patient. How can she be relaxed if you rush her and when you are so impatient?
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ya lor... xin jing zi ran liang...hehe.. take a step at one time...Originally posted by star princess:got to go slow and be patient. How can she be relaxed if you rush her and when you are so impatient? -
ur bf did that to U be4 ?Originally posted by Hershey:Unless she is a virgin, it should not hurt. Most probably she is not stimulated enough that is why. If you do want to use your fingers guys, please a) cut your fingernails, b) be gentle....dun go push your fingers all into her virgina then finger-fuck her when she is not stimulated...that is panful okie!!
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u have to be patient with her... =) some gers dun get high so easily mahh.. =) must make sure she is wet first..before u actually attempt to finger her or penetrate her..if not..very painful one lehhh.. maybe if things really dun seem to improve after extended foreplay and stuff like that..maybe u could try using some lubricants? that would be helpful. =) and also...when u try to penetrate her rite..are u like forceful and just force urself into her..or are u those kind of gentle kind? this matters alot too....especially if the ger is a virgin... for virgin..have to go slow and steady loo..dun force..if not very painful one..
after some time ahh..when she gets used to it..things will be okay one lahz. =) she will then begin to enjoy it..