i have been with my gf for 2 years and we are sexually active. i started masturbating when i was 15 years old and i've never mention this ever to her. you think i should let her know or just keep it a secret as long as i could?
with certain reports stating that 99% of guys actually masturbate, i'll be really at a loss if my gf turn to me and ask me if i ever did. how am i to answer her at that very instance?
guys: do you come clean with your present gfs on your sex history and masturbation habits? if so, how did they react upon hearing them?
gals: you do feel a sense of betrayal that your guy is doing this behind your back? do you treat him (as in sexually) the same as before you knew anything?