Originally posted by wendy81:
actually it all depends alot on the family upbringing.. dun mean u r very open-minded u are a slut or bitch or some shamless bimbos.. but coz the society of singapore cannot accept such gals and so they are labelled as such bad reputations. open minded gals see things differently frm conservative of coz but many men love the conservative when they wanna marry but open-minded ones when they wanna haf flings or ONS. i am brought up in a westernise environment and so i speak and behave in a very difft manner compared to usual singaporean gals... my aunt as an air stewardess flew ard and so i was influenced as i mixed wif her most of the time. why the difference in conservative and open-minded gals is tt they get difft views and treatment from the society and further make them the way they are. the peers are important factors too... like now ministry of education is encouraging sex education in lower sec already coz to advance the society into the same as the westernize.. we are being influenced too much by the internet and movies.. so we haf to change.. maybe i was influenced much earlier den... anyway both open-minded and conservative gals are similar in a few aspects esp when it comes to r/s. they both wanne be loved the same way.. and when it comes to respect of coz conservative gals need more than the other. some of u said gals of the middle character is the best... but den do u noe... its hard to gauge one of those kinds?? maybe its those who toks openly and do not engage in sexual activities as and when they like?
Wat do u mean?U still no tell whether u r the conservative type or the open type?Wel...i personally prefer conservative type...I mean...girls r girls...must ai zi ji more...rite?
So open minded girls...its time to change...haha...but its to our guys disadvantage.....oh well..