Case study 1) A ger was teased by her peers. "woah, u so old liao, stil haven had sex b4 ah? so poor thing. u miss out all the excitment" joked her peers. Btw, the ger was only 16yr old. So the ger replied wif a smile." I can be like YOU all ANY time, but YOU all can NEVER be like me! "
After hearing that, her ger frens stopped teasing her and went away stumped.
Lesson #1: Dun be peer pressured by pple ard u. Yes, we r living in the X, Y, E or probably the F generation. But we still have 1 life, 2 eyes, 1 nose, 1 mouth. Certain things never changed regardless of wad generation u r in.
Case study 2) A ger fren of mine went to Aust, for further studies. Before she left, she discussed that she wld like her bf, hubby to be experienced. I ask her why. " So that we wun garagabo ma..." She replied. " more experiences, more shiok"
2 yrs after she graduated , she came bk Sg, i remembered her 'requirements' and ask her the requirement again. She paused and thought thru, then she said:" after being to Aust. i wld prefer her hubby to be v, so tat they can garagabo together"
Lesson #2: As the generation proceeds, the world will get more and more jialat. Virgins in future will be a very valuable virture in humanity.
Case study 3) My fren was driving me for supper. We started discussing abt virginity and sex. He said," what if the ger herself willingly offer and she dun even love her body?" He believed in sex as an expression of love. (No doubt abt tat) But he thinks tat PMS (Pre Marital sex) is nuthing if both r in 'love'. I just ask him 1 sentence " If YOU allow your daughter in future to do wad you r doing to your gf now, i have nothing to say."
He stopped his car, gazed blindly into the windscreen. He ended wif this statement:" You got me there."
Pple haf double standard, they wan to ride other gers, but they dun wan their own daughters to be ridden without commitment of marriage.
Lesson #3: Do unto others wad you wan others to do unto YOUR daughter.
Case study 4) A couple was about to get married, they were very happy. Everything was right. The guy was handsome and successful in life, the ger was pretty and well mannered. The lightings, decorations,etc were just rightly lit and placed. They were abt to take the vow. Minutes before they took the vow, the ger confessed to the guy she is a virgin and she said this:" I belift that virginity is the best present a wife can ever present to her hubby" . The guy wept after hearing this. He felt so guilty and short changing his wife as he has bed numerous ex gfs ,tat he converted to christianity shortly after his marriage and loved his wife immensely.
Lesson #4: Dun do things for short term pleasures and miss out the long term pleasures and live in guilt of short changing the other party.
To those who r still v, keep it up and leave the most valuable present to your spouse. They WILL appreciate it.
trust me!
But u may say, i'm not a v nw, so it does not matter if i do it again. Since i'm an 'open-up' present. No need to be holy la... Well, think again, if u fail ur test, does tat mean tat it makes no difference if u fail again?
or wld u study doubly hard to make up for it in ur final exams and get a pass if not an A?
To those who r not v, repent and leave sex for your life partner who will share life wif u. It takes greater courage for pple to reject PMS and ur partner WILL respect you for that.
Sex is an act of physical intimacy to cement relationship in marriages. If u wan it now, then get married!
you will get to reap the fullness of sexual act wif your spouse if u keep sex after marriage. Its like u have been watiing for so long and ur excitement reached the highest and u *roarrrr* rip off ur wife on the 1st nite of marriage. U 1st time, she oso 1st time. Now, which is more exciting? PMS or SAM(sex after marriage)?
but i find okguy of very good moral.....
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