What makes...

• Natty

  16 Mar 03, 05:17

  A guy approach a girl to befriend her? Is it becoz she's pretty? out of the world? or wat? GUys, care to tell me?
  
  
• anfuni

  16 Mar 03, 05:25

  Originally posted by Natty:

  A guy approach a girl to befriend her? Is it becoz she's pretty? out of the world? or wat? GUys, care to tell me?
  
  

  can it purely be friends?
• Natty

  16 Mar 03, 05:32

  Can it really purely be friends? I mean it seems so that guys only approach gers with a certain standard in ther ger's looks or appearance. So, can I assume that appearance got something to do with it????
  
  
• anfuni

  16 Mar 03, 05:40

  Originally posted by Natty:

  Can it really purely be friends? I mean it seems so that guys only approach gers with a certain standard in ther ger's looks or appearance. So, can I assume that appearance got something to do with it????
  
  

  perhaps.... cos most ppl do hv their own stereotyping mindset that have build throughout the years?
  
  maybe approaching someone whom is totally a stranger might need to fulfill some basic standard(as wat u hv posted originally)?
  
  or shld i say purely be friends when that person is somehow or rather "related" ?(as in new classmate/neighbour/friend's fren etc)
• zzzjjj2002

  16 Mar 03, 08:13

  Originally posted by Natty:

  A guy approach a girl to befriend her? Is it becoz she's pretty? out of the world? or wat? GUys, care to tell me?
  
  

  Of course pretty can be a reason. but it functions only at the beginning. after some time, it is a gal's inner beauty that attracts guys.
• jOhO

  16 Mar 03, 08:25

  well some say looks can tell u abit about a person's character. for example, xiang yun and gurmit singh look like really nice pple i'm sure most agree. and in actual fact they are nice! i have a fren who work with xiang yun once and he said she was SUCH a nice person.
  
  the contrary is also true sometimes, apparently sly looking jack nicholson is pretty much wat he looks like in real life. quite the bad guy type. *shrug* anyway just my 2c on this lonely sunday morning!
• Lime66

  16 Mar 03, 15:50

  Originally posted by Natty:

  A guy approach a girl to befriend her? Is it becoz she's pretty? out of the world? or wat? GUys, care to tell me?
  
  

  hmm..i think for most cases it's e looks. guys see chio bu, of cos wanna 'befriend' her. with 'befriend' i mean get to know her with a hope of having a more intimate relationship somewhere down the line lah...but also sometimes it's ego thingy... for eg, when a guy approached a girl in front of his mates, he'll feel good lor... and maybe his friends will also 'pei fu' him... that kinda thing...
• Natty

  16 Mar 03, 17:23

  So I see.. why not share how u guys go approach gers???
• Lime66

  16 Mar 03, 21:53

  Originally posted by Natty:

  So I see.. why not share how u guys go approach gers???

  hmm... my frens would just go up and sae straight that he wants to know her... as for me, not so daring... would just be stealing glances at her...see if she responds... if she does give the 'green light', then went over and just strike a conversation lor... if not.. then forget it liao lor.. btw.. this is in a club scenario... outside of it... never approach one b4...
• sgboy2004

  16 Mar 03, 22:07

  sex...~nuff said
  
  
  
  
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• Transmission

  16 Mar 03, 22:10

  haha...i think that mostly in clubs... EVERYONE goes for the looks...
• thhong22

  16 Mar 03, 22:10

  guys r visually aroused creature.... if they go after a gal without noeing her personally.... it muz be bcos of her looks or figure....
• kopiosatu

  16 Mar 03, 22:14

  haiz... looks lor
• Jonarsh

  17 Mar 03, 13:55

  the guy is horny...
  
  Jo.
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  Be nice to me.
  
  
• baby_lumbo

  17 Mar 03, 14:25

  hi hi can i join in???