How do you ask someone to be ur GF or BF ?
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Any clue ? coz i got this realli nice girl tat i plan to date ... i promise to give pics if anyone got great idea
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how long u known her?
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2 yrs
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have u expressed to her that u have a liking for her?
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i sensed tat she like me to a certain degree too and she knows tat i like her ... but someone told me tat she has soneone in mind tat she missed and tat person had gone to be a gangster so he was gone off sch ...
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no i haven'\t ... but i hinted many times by sending SMS ... and there was once tat she hinted to me too .. like by askin if i got anything to ask her
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then have coffee with her and be direct with her.. some girls tend to like guys who are direct and frank. Over coffee, express ur feelings..tell her that u have been liking her and how u can't sleep thinking abt her...
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so u think i should ask her out and talk to her ? but how do i start ?
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have a small talk with her.. talk about how wonderful she looks...then from there... start with this...Originally posted by freeman_coolman:so u think i should ask her out and talk to her ? but how do i start ?
"Hey (name of future gf), you look great and i am sure u have no lacks of suitors.Maybe thats why i...(pause incoherently)...
The girl asks.. yeah? what is it?
then u resume, maybe thats why i have been liking u for quite some time...
girl will blush...
then continue to praise her... how nice she is.. how perfect she is...
then u say that u wun hurt her or let anyone hurt her feelings...and say that u promise to take care of her under ur arms..
then girl will say..lemme think about it ... still blushing...
then act hero.. u say.. sure..but i dun want to see u hurt again...
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tat means providing a sense of security ?
well ... i told her previously tat i maybe leaving Singapore for my education and i wun hav a girl dumped tat way ... and i told her tat i dun plan to hav GF tat early coz schooling cost lots of restriction -
Be sincere. This is important. Don't take things too lightly, but don't forget to be human. Telling someone you're interested should be enjoyable, not frightening.
Be honest. However you decide to tell someone you like them, do it with the utmost honesty and respect.
Be prepared. Don't shoot from the hip. It's an important step in the creation of a relationship, so make sure you have some idea what you want to express and how.
NEVER (BIG NO!) have a friend tell someone for you! You wouldn't want that special someone thinking you're a mute, now would you?
good luck
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so first thing i should tell her about the past tat we had .. how dun it is and then i tell her how i feel then i will ask for her opioion ?
wat if she says tat we should not do this or she rejects ?
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juz ask lah...... "can u be my gf??? i reali like u......."
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if she rejects u dun give up.. some girls like to play hard to get one.. cos if too easy let u sian tio they afraid u might take the relationship lightly mah..Originally posted by freeman_coolman:so first thing i should tell her about the past tat we had .. how dun it is and then i tell her how i feel then i will ask for her opioion ?
wat if she says tat we should not do this or she rejects ?
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Originally posted by Initial`D:if she rejects u dun give up.. some girls like to play hard to get one.. cos if too easy let u sian tio they afraid u might take the relationship lightly mah..
Damn life is a game of challenge...... -
so 'liao jie' hoh??? heheheOriginally posted by Initial`D:if she rejects u dun give up.. some girls like to play hard to get one.. cos if too easy let u sian tio they afraid u might take the relationship lightly mah.. -
usu they have an application form...just fill up the form and wait for the interview lor
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got experience before mah =)Originally posted by thhong22:so 'liao jie' hoh??? hehehe -
yah ... and remember to dress well on the interview day !Originally posted by sgboy2004:usu they have an application form...just fill up the form and wait for the interview lor
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i am a gentleman
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Just ask....
2 yrs liao... if she like you too, she will agree to be your gf -
bring flowers and present too.Originally posted by szehao:yah ... and remember to dress well on the interview day !
remember to show your credit cards too.
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i'm jus a little boi boi u know ... dun hav cradit cards ...
so u think i should jus ask lar ... any techniques ? -
*kok*Originally posted by Initial`D:got experience before mah =)
experience ur head..
not all gers play hard to get.. just tat they are shy or wat mar.. mabbe there is something that is holding them back..... -
Just go to somewhere quiet...then hold her hands and say...
A "i got something I wan to tell u a long time ago....I love u....."
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B "Do u know wat i wan....I wan er.....to er....take care of u....."
LASTLY
C "Please...promise me one thing...please say yes...I love u"
I tried this three to three diff girl...
Her reply was
A -"I know,I know...but Im reali sori...I dun wish to lose u too...but I got bf le...."(DAMN....&@^^%#)
B-"U know what...I reali wish to be take care of too...but...Im going overseas for study next month...I dun wan to end my relationship like this..pls wait for my return.."(Siao..wait u return...I die as a old virgin liao #^*@(%^)
C- for 10 secs...And then i ask....so how?Do u wan to be wif me...? And the reply was..."U know I wont say No....so y u keep asking....(YEAH!!!!My first Stead....and my one and only stead...Haha) -
wat can be the reason of holding them back ? .... can explain .. ?