Do couples who have sex stay long together??

• *evanesence*

  6 Apr 03, 02:26

  Or do they break up eventually??
  how do you know whether a guy is serious about you & not your body?
• wendy81

  6 Apr 03, 02:30

  Originally posted by *evanesence*:

  Or do they break up eventually??
  how do you know whether a guy is serious about you & not your body?

  many of such couples do break up after they had a couple times of sex or like a couple of years but maybe not due to bored of having sex wif the same person.. but the feelings haf changed gradually?
  
  its hard to understand human nowadays.. so whether the guys is serious abt u or ur body.. depends solely on urself to gauge... but den if u think u wanna have a r/s wif him without sex juz to see if hes tt kinda jerkz... maybe a good idea.. coz he will most prob respect ur body and u..
• Master -_-

  6 Apr 03, 02:31

  the guy is serious about the girl when the girl looks like sh[/i]it and has the body of a pig..
  
  its true..its true..
  
  v v
• *evanesence*

  6 Apr 03, 02:37

  Originally posted by Master -_-:

  the guy is serious about the girl when the girl looks like sh[/i]it and has the body of a pig..
  
  its true..its true..
  
  v v

  Im sure looks isnt everything..
  beauty is in the eye of the beholder
• juk

  6 Apr 03, 02:51

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  many of such couples do break up after they had a couple times of sex or like a couple of years but maybe not due to bored of having sex wif the same person.. but the feelings haf changed gradually?
  
  its hard to understand human nowadays.. so whether the guys is serious abt u or ur body.. depends solely on urself to gauge... but den if u think u wanna have a r/s wif him without sex juz to see if hes tt kinda jerkz... maybe a good idea.. coz he will most prob respect ur body and u..

  sorry but to say this ..... which guy would not want sex? kiss kiss then will lead on to something more right? its just abnormal if a guy dun ask for it. my ex told me this ..."its a shame to her if she has to let her bf diy"
• dark_slayer79

  6 Apr 03, 04:22

  don't think they will stay long cos not every guy is like me mah
• ^MaRcUs^

  6 Apr 03, 04:47

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  but den if u think u wanna have a r/s wif him without sex juz to see if hes tt kinda jerkz... maybe a good idea.. coz he will most prob respect ur body and u..

  quite true!
  as a guy, when i was younger,
  when got gf, 1st time think of is sex...frank...
  older then diff thinking....
  so i guess it will be good not to let us guy have our way...
  good things are worth waiting for!
  
  
• evererin

  6 Apr 03, 07:24

  Good answer to this
  DUn have sex wif yr bf at all
  And guys dun have sex wif yr gf at all...
  Lets try to be virgin till we get married...
  
  Me quite lame...but hope we can achieve this!!!
• sgboy2004

  6 Apr 03, 07:31

  sex? what's tat?
  
  
  _______________
  Baby sgboy2004
  
• kopiosatu

  6 Apr 03, 09:21

  Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:

  quite true!
  as a guy, when i was younger,
  when got gf, 1st time think of is sex...frank...
  older then diff thinking....
  so i guess it will be good not to let us guy have our way...
  good things are worth waiting for!
  
  

  that's where the word maturity comes in
• huoyun

  6 Apr 03, 12:18

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  many of such couples do break up after they had a couple times of sex or like a couple of years but maybe not due to bored of having sex wif the same person.. but the feelings haf changed gradually?
  
  its hard to understand human nowadays.. so whether the guys is serious abt u or ur body.. depends solely on urself to gauge... but den if u think u wanna have a r/s wif him without sex juz to see if hes tt kinda jerkz... maybe a good idea.. coz he will most prob respect ur body and u..

  can't say sex nowadays is all initiated by the guys, I do know there are some 'spontaneous' gals out there. It's a 2sided thingy now due to the more liberal thinking that youngsters have. so can't say having sex means showing disrespect for the gal lor.
  
  If a couple truly love each other, then it's making love, and that is so much different cuz of the emotional feelings for each other being entwined into the intercourse. Every sigh, moan, touch, kiss makes the experience so beautiful
  
  Sometimes the breakup is due to not enough love -- care, concern, commitment, support for each other -- being shown for each other so the sex becomes quite meaningless. End up when the guy leaves the gal, it looks like he is the panda -- "eats shoots and leaves"
  
  But have to say lah, it's in a relationship that you learn and grow lor. Many a time, you realise what you really want emotioanlly after going into in a relationship.
  Sometimes during the course of the relationship, guys find that after sex, their "ultimate goal" is reached, so they "move on". Of course, I've to be fair to all the guys (and myself :mrgreen.. can't say it's true for all guys. This is what I think lah
  
  So take ur time, observe carefully lor, dun "nao chu ren ming"
  
  /bows
• dark_slayer79

  6 Apr 03, 12:29

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  sex? what's tat?
  
  
  _______________
  Baby sgboy2004
  

  sex = gender
• wendy81

  6 Apr 03, 12:47

  Originally posted by huoyun:
  
  can't say sex nowadays is all initiated by the guys, I do know there are some 'spontaneous' gals out there. It's a 2sided thingy now due to the more liberal thinking that youngsters have. so can't say having sex means showing disrespect for the gal lor.
  
  If a couple truly love each other, then it's making love, and that is so much different cuz of the emotional feelings for each other being entwined into the intercourse. Every sigh, moan, touch, kiss makes the experience so beautiful
  
  Sometimes the breakup is due to not enough love -- care, concern, commitment, support for each other -- being shown for each other so the sex becomes quite meaningless. End up when the guy leaves the gal, it looks like he is the panda -- "eats [b]shoots and leaves"
  
  But have to say lah, it's in a relationship that you learn and grow lor. Many a time, you realise what you really want emotioanlly after going into in a relationship.
  Sometimes during the course of the relationship, guys find that after sex, their "ultimate goal" is reached, so they "move on". Of course, I've to be fair to all the guys (and myself :mrgreen.. can't say it's true for all guys. This is what I think lah
  
  So take ur time, observe carefully lor, dun "nao chu ren ming"
  
  /bows[/b]

  nowadays... sex initiated by most gals are those who are already exposed to touchings like pettings, or even sex itself... the virgins seldom does it lah though there is minority of them doing so (maybe? *shrugz*)
  
  i agree wif u on the feelings part, as like i mentioned the period of time a coupel stays together do NOT depend solely on the sex part, whereby the men has got enuff of her and wanna move on wif another gal... tts like sleeping ard lah in short... flings... no strings attached. But the guys usually dun tell the gals no string attached n they carry on giving the gals false hope and so the gals will tend to think that after having sex the r/s will be damaged to some extend. In a r/s, i think the most impt is trust and without it, many other components do not come into the r/s so rem its not abt sex den that had damaged the r/s.
• huoyun

  6 Apr 03, 15:37

  Originally posted by wendy81:

  nowadays... sex initiated by most gals are those who are already exposed to touchings like pettings, or even sex itself... the virgins seldom does it lah though there is minority of them doing so (maybe? *shrugz*)
  
  i agree wif u on the feelings part, as like i mentioned the period of time a coupel stays together do NOT depend solely on the sex part, whereby the men has got enuff of her and wanna move on wif another gal... tts like sleeping ard lah in short... flings... no strings attached. But the guys usually dun tell the gals no string attached n they carry on giving the gals false hope and so the gals will tend to think that after having sex the r/s will be damaged to some extend. In a r/s, i think the most impt is trust and without it, many other components do not come into the r/s so rem its not abt sex den that had damaged the r/s.

  trust is impt.. how about thrust?
• X-men

  6 Apr 03, 16:04

  True love will not be affected by sex. Sex only enhances a true relationship by giving the couple a sense of responsibility towards each other, does not change the length.
  
  Only thing I think of that will change the length is the guy out to have sex and once got it.. bye bye to the gal or got too sianz with the same pussy and go look for new ones.