Dilemma!
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here it goes, i have a bf for 1 year plus. we have been doing heavy petting everytime. i know he wants sex badly but i don't know want to give in or not? i don't like the consequences but i really love him. by the way i am 18 years old.
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youth and temptation coms hand in hand.... dnt mistake love for lust, curiousity or obligation.
sex can lead to a vaireity of problems ranging from pregnancy to dieases....
are you ready to accept the problems that arise due to a lack of self control?
pre-marital sex should not be taken lightly especially at your age. -
does your bf hint you that he wants sex?? Anyway, you are only 18 yrs old and mmm...y don you talk to him bout it? If he really loves you then he would not pushes you into it cos he doesn't want you to be troubled by the consequences.Originally posted by CheEsy:here it goes, i have a bf for 1 year plus. we have been doing heavy petting everytime. i know he wants sex badly but i don't know want to give in or not? i don't like the consequences but i really love him. by the way i am 18 years old. anyone got other dilemma problems? -
Its perfectly ok, in my opinon, if the both of you are alright with the idea and take proper precaution. Since the both of you are biologically old enough to be a parent, its up to your principle, mental and personal attributes and character to judge whether is right/wrong and the proper time.Originally posted by CheEsy:here it goes, i have a bf for 1 year plus. we have been doing heavy petting everytime. i know he wants sex badly but i don't know want to give in or not? i don't like the consequences but i really love him. by the way i am 18 years old. anyone got other dilemma problems?
However the issue is that you don't like the consequences and it seemed to be that you feel uneasy about it. Your bf MUST respect your feelings and thinking and not just listen to the flesh in between his legs.
I think its quite lame when one is enjoying like crazy, while the other is worrying at the back of her head and not fully enjoying the pleasure of bodily union. I can tell you this: If you ain't ready and is 'pressured' into having sex, (presuming no unborn baby involved) I have never seen a case study BGR relation that has walk till marriage. Scary?
When you are ready, you are ready. It must come from within and the willingness must be from your own accord. If not, it simply means its not the right time yet. No external factor must shaped this idea - it has to come from your own.
Cheers -
DUN DO IT....pls pls....PLS dun give in to him...If he reali love u,just will respect u...tell u if u give in..u can kiss this relationship byebye any sooner....ok?Pls take care wor....Me reali concern!Pls dun....Heavy petting is dangerous too...pls take care..
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Its perfectly ok, in my opinon, if the both of you are alright with the idea and take proper precaution. Since the both of you are biologically old enough to be a parent, its up to your principle, mental and personal attributes and character to judge whether is right/wrong and the proper time.
However the issue is that you don't like the consequences and it seemed to be that you feel uneasy about it. Your bf [b]MUST respect your feelings and thinking and not just listen to the flesh in between his legs.
I think its quite lame when one is enjoying like crazy, while the other is worrying at the back of her head and not fully enjoying the pleasure of bodily union. I can tell you this: If you ain't ready and is 'pressured' into having sex, (presuming no unborn baby involved) I have never seen a case study BGR relation that has walk till marriage. Scary?
When you are ready, you are ready. It must come from within and the willingness must be from your own accord. If not, it simply means its not the right time yet. No external factor must shaped this idea - it has to come from your own.
Cheers [/b]
cloud u these days becum night breed liao ah... good to c u around. written any stories recently? -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
agree..
Its perfectly ok, in my opinon, if the both of you are alright with the idea and take proper precaution. Since the both of you are biologically old enough to be a parent, its up to your principle, mental and personal attributes and character to judge whether is right/wrong and the proper time.
However the issue is that you don't like the consequences and it seemed to be that you feel uneasy about it. Your bf [b]MUST respect your feelings and thinking and not just listen to the flesh in between his legs.
I think its quite lame when one is enjoying like crazy, while the other is worrying at the back of her head and not fully enjoying the pleasure of bodily union. I can tell you this: If you ain't ready and is 'pressured' into having sex, (presuming no unborn baby involved) I have never seen a case study BGR relation that has walk till marriage. Scary?
When you are ready, you are ready. It must come from within and the willingness must be from your own accord. If not, it simply means its not the right time yet. No external factor must shaped this idea - it has to come from your own.
Cheers [/b]
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Nope... exams approaching. I log in every now and then, no fix time.Originally posted by skeujin: cloud u these days becum night breed liao ah... good to c u around. written any stories recently?
Wow, at least someone miss me eh? *Head swell* -
ya thanks for all the help. i am more sober now. well since heavy petting is dangerous it will be better to stop but i doubt my boyfriend can. Haiz!
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For a start to help you: Avoid going each other's house, problem always starts from there. You know what I mean.Originally posted by CheEsy:ya thanks for all the help. i am more sober now. well since heavy petting is dangerous it will be better to stop but i doubt my boyfriend can. Haiz!
Cheers -
try talking to him about marrige and wat to name yr baby... c if tt can cool him off...Originally posted by CheEsy:ya thanks for all the help. i am more sober now. well since heavy petting is dangerous it will be better to stop but i doubt my boyfriend can. Haiz! -
heaad dnt swelll 2 much k. wait all your t shirts cannot wear.... go study...... shoo.... shoo.....Originally posted by Yunhaier:Nope... exams approaching. I log in every now and then, no fix time.
Wow, at least someone miss me eh? *Head swell* -
but do u like the heavy petting tat is going around u two?Originally posted by CheEsy:ya thanks for all the help. i am more sober now. well since heavy petting is dangerous it will be better to stop but i doubt my boyfriend can. Haiz! -
i know he likes it alot, many times even request me do bj for him but no i didn't. as for me, maybe i like it abit.
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yr 1st post!!!!! so hapi 4 u!!!!!Originally posted by kKz-:but do u like the heavy petting tat is going around u two? -
haha...yeAh... cHeErs~Originally posted by skeujin:yr 1st post!!!!! so hapi 4 u!!!!! -
you sounded a bit mian qiangOriginally posted by kKz-:haha...yeAh... cHeErs~ -
hey nobody has other dilemma problems
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but if really things can't work wel.. juz let go n find a new 1.. u stil young.Originally posted by CheEsy:ya thanks for all the help. i am more sober now. well since heavy petting is dangerous it will be better to stop but i doubt my boyfriend can. Haiz! -
maybe have..but have too little brain cells to think nowOriginally posted by CheEsy:hey nobody has other dilemma problems -
ya... i kip thinkg of the song dilemma by nelly....Originally posted by jell_o:maybe have..but have too little brain cells to think now -
haha! Thanx! ya i will try and see how. but do you think we should stop heavy petting?
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'no matter wat u do...ho..al i think abt is u'Originally posted by skeujin:ya... i kip thinkg of the song dilemma by nelly.... 
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mayb.. or juz noe more frenz..then u have more chooses..Originally posted by CheEsy:haha! Thanx! ya i will try and see how. but do you think we should stop heavy petting? -
yeAh! that song is nice man!Originally posted by skeujin:ya... i kip thinkg of the song dilemma by nelly....