How to pick up girls/woman
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i not quite sure about this point do nowadays girls like the direct or indirect approach? how about woo her as your girlfriend direct or indirect?
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hmm....
as a female, i think id rather prefer it the direct way..
clear+direct
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Be direct!
I hate it when guys try 2 play mind games...
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but when we are clear and direct in our approach, its girls turn to play mind game with us
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Originally posted by kamper:but when we are clear and direct in our approach, its girls turn to play mind game with us It all depends on individual lah.............some play tough to get where as some gals are pure friendly.
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a slightly direct would be good..
like mi... i approached a guy at hendrix yesterdae. and i got it -
Some gals like guys 2 be frank.
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x 2Originally posted by Sacred:Some gals like guys 2 be frank.
but reali gotta depends on indivdual loh....
some pple can take direct, but some pple cannot....
u too direct she may get scared away....
one step at a time lah.... but don beat ard the bush oso
gals oso hate tat.... cos sometimes they oso donno if u r franly or u have likings for them....
hmm.... i donno how to explain.... anyway different pple have different ways of doing things.... -
good ...Originally posted by `jOaNnE-:a slightly direct would be good..
like mi... i approached a guy at hendrix yesterdae. and i got it
admire your courage and your attitude..! -
Be honest and direct.
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just have to be thick skin lor...n learn to accept rejection...
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Direct approach~~~
I hate mind games~~~
dun play that game with me~ cos I hate iT~~
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hmm..i like slightly direct.
Too direct will piss girls off..really.
actuall it depends much on how much the girl like u.
If she like u...no matter how direct u are...she will response.
But if she so not into ...better be on the slightly direct side.
Drop hints here and there... -
of coz direct approach la....
beat around the bush onli waste time.... -
dun u think mind games can be very challenging??..though very frustrating..Originally posted by IamAngeline:Direct approach~~~
I hate mind games~~~
dun play that game with me~ cos I hate iT~~ -
Anyone ever watched the movie Tootsie?
The woman confided in the man (who was dressed as a woman) that she'd love someone who would come up to her and tell her in her face that he's attracted to her and would like to make it with her.
So, the man as himself, walks up to her at a dinner party and does exactly that.
She slaps him.
Would that be typical?
Do women fantasize about men coming up and saying that he would like to make it with them directly, while being unable to handle that if it actually happens? -
hmmm~~~ like what~~ when u like you say dun like~~Originally posted by Inzaghi:dun u think mind games can be very challenging??..though very frustrating..
when it's yes u say no~~
kekekek it can be challenging but as times passes~~ it can be very tiring~~ and which is not healthy to a relatoinship-to-be or relationship~ dun u think so?~ -
i think everything cant do overboard lor...if done way over the limit or too much, they can be killer....when done correctly, it can keep the other party on his or her toe...right??..Originally posted by IamAngeline:hmmm~~~ like what~~ when u like you say dun like~~
when it's yes u say no~~
kekekek it can be challenging but as times passes~~ it can be very tiring~~ and which is not healthy to a relatoinship-to-be or relationship~ dun u think so?~ -
Hmm~~ agreed with what you say~~ but I will think that different approaches need to be done with different people~~Originally posted by Inzaghi:i think everything cant do overboard lor...if done way over the limit or too much, they can be killer....when done correctly, it can keep the other party on his or her toe...right??..
let think it this way~~ If you are someone who works upon from day till night~~~ and every day you just have to think and squeeze ur brain juice out~~ what do you think if your partner/partner-to-be trying to 'challenge' you with ur ultimate mind~~
Keke for me i can't take it~~
Whereas if you are someone who is having the same life routine and how you hope that there will be something new and fresh to brighten ur day up, wun you be pinning this kind of challenge that ur partner/partner to be to knock it down on you~~
kekek~~
alright i still believes in a theory: Opposite attracts~ -
it's true to a certain sense.. we usually are attracted to someone whom we are not.. but it takes an amount of common interests to keep two persons together isn't it?Originally posted by IamAngeline:alright i still believes in a theory: Opposite attracts~ -
that will comes in when two are in a relationship loh~~ kekek~~Originally posted by sillyme:it's true to a certain sense.. we usually are attracted to someone whom we are not.. but it takes an amount of common interests to keep two persons together isn't it? -
tell her, "Hi sweetie, I can't bear not noticing you. You are so gorgeous and I feel like exploding in my pants"Originally posted by Herroin:i not quite sure about this point do nowadays girls like the direct or indirect approach? how about woo her as your girlfriend direct or indirect? -
true girls are always like that when we direct they will play mind games sigh.....Originally posted by kamper:but when we are clear and direct in our approach, its girls turn to play mind game with us -
Originally posted by IamAngeline:Hmm~~ agreed with what you say~~ but I will think that different approaches need to be done with different people~~
let think it this way~~ If you are someone who works upon from day till night~~~ and every day you just have to think and squeeze ur brain juice out~~ what do you think if your partner/partner-to-be trying to 'challenge' you with ur ultimate mind~~
Keke for me i can't take it~~
ya, diff pple diff approach..i notice all gals are very individual, can use the same theory on them..hehe
agree..after squeezing our brain juice at work, last thing we wan is to think of wat the other party is coming up..but den if both are matured adults, wont face tat much of this lar..
Whereas if you are someone who is having the same life routine and how you hope that there will be something new and fresh to brighten ur day up, wun you be pinning this kind of challenge that ur partner/partner to be to knock it down on you~~
kekek~~
alright i still believes in a theory: Opposite attracts~ -
pick up? u think we gers are goods or wat?