To Gals Only.............
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I wonder if gals do consider a guy to be her bf for the fact tat wether he have the thing called 'sense of security' or 'an chuan gan' (in chinese)???
Or how u gals define an chuan gan?? i wanna noe how can guy give gals the type of 'an chuan gan' tat u all are looking for??
Pls help me solve the above queries.... -
can i ans though im a guy??Originally posted by Van2002:I wonder if gals do consider a guy to be her bf for the fact tat wether he have the thing called 'sense of security' or 'an chuan gan' (in chinese)???
Or how u gals define an chuan gan?? i wanna noe how can guy give gals the type of 'an chuan gan' tat u all are looking for??
Pls help me solve the above queries....
..build up ur muscles Van2002! -
Good 1 dude.HahaOriginally posted by BoYisHbOy:can i ans though im a guy?? ..build up ur muscles Van2002!
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i think that it is a sense of general well-being with that person
and security comes close to that
u cant reallie explain ir.. onli enjoy it
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honestly tell u, iam quite tall with bits of developed muscles... im not those small guy ard... sorry if i offending anione...Originally posted by BoYisHbOy:can i ans though im a guy?? ..build up ur muscles Van2002!
but size dun necessary mean tat u haf sense of security.
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its a feeling..... like when u r with the guy, u feel comfortable, u feel like he can protect u or sth? like he will b there for u la.....
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how to have or give ppl tat feeling? issit how ppl think abt u and ur personality???Originally posted by esil3:its a feeling..... like when u r with the guy, u feel comfortable, u feel like he can protect u or sth? like he will b there for u la..... -
if muscles = security than body builders n wrestlers must have truck loads of wives.
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precisely... tat is wat i mean!!!!Originally posted by harryryan:if muscles = security than body builders n wrestlers must have truck loads of wives.
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u want hi fi go gym to look for me.....lolzOriginally posted by Van2002:precisely... tat is wat i mean!!!!
Hi Five!!! -
i think requires some chemistry.... not all ppl can clcik so well?Originally posted by Van2002:how to have or give ppl tat feeling? issit how ppl think abt u and ur personality??? -
Pls Gals, i need ur views cuz i think ur views are much more accurate n important n relevant...
pls could some gals answer to this poor soul...
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most importantly .... be honest with her ....
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i AM a ger..Originally posted by Van2002:Pls Gals, i need ur views cuz i think ur views are much more accurate n important n relevant...
pls could some gals answer to this poor soul... -
You wanna know what i think, sure you do!
i think 'an quan gan' is just an excuse by girls to push guys away -
eh not true leh. i think its really impt for me lor. muz feel that my guy can take care of me..Originally posted by Forever84:You wanna know what i think, sure you do!
i think 'an quan gan' is just an excuse by girls to push guys away -
How does taking care, fall into 'an quan gan' isn't it feelin secureOriginally posted by esil3:eh not true leh. i think its really impt for me lor. muz feel that my guy can take care of me.. -
when the d*ck is in da pus5y.. they wil lfeel damn an quan gan sia.. kekee...
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It's a kinda of feeling. Very hard to explain that feeling leh...
It's like feeling protected by a guy and noes tat somebody there will support U during ur happie n sad days.... -
yeah.....Agree....Originally posted by xian89:It's a kinda of feeling. Very hard to explain that feeling leh...
It's like feeling protected by a guy and noes tat somebody there will support U during ur happie n sad days....
its a kind of special feeling when u are with ur bf....its indeed very hard to explain...its beyond words of description -
how do u think tat ur guy caN take Care oF U hUh?? issit his PersonAlity or chaRacter tat maKe u thiNk so???Originally posted by esil3:eh not true leh. i think its really impt for me lor. muz feel that my guy can take care of me..
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i roughly noe wat u are trying to tell mi...Originally posted by |itt|e Devi|?yeah.....Agree.... its a kind of special feeling when u are with ur bf....its indeed very hard to explain...its beyond words of description
but how do u noe which guy have it while some guy have it??
let's a gal go steady wif a guy for like abt 2 weeks... den d gal complain tat d guy dun hav an chuan gan... den how can tat guy 'acquire' an chuan gan so tat he can be wif the gal again??
Do shower the gal u like with CARE N CONCERN n take note of all her activity n give relevant advice mean tat the guy hav sense of security to the gal??? -
an quan gan is when the girl knows that under the circumstance of facing a 7 foot monster trying to eat her up, her bf will be there to fight the monster. it doesnt have to be any actions in reality. most important is feeling. as long as the girl feels protected, there is an quan gan.
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sense of security can be defined in many ways.
some girls define it related to body size
some relates to trust
some relates to faithfulness
it's hard to describe~ depends which of the above u are seeking~ -
true.. it's very much psychological.. it depends on wat the girl see in a guy..Originally posted by IamAngeline:sense of security can be defined in many ways.
some girls define it related to body size
some relates to trust
some relates to faithfulness
it's hard to describe~ depends which of the above u are seeking~
some likes big hands..
some likes broad shoulder..
some likes financial security..
usually, but not all the time, it is something they see in their parents..