why my bf.....??
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Why my bf said that im not the initiative type?? what does he mean by that?
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initiate wat?
War dance?
Sex?
Secret Society Ceremony?
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im also not sure.... he din say. He juz say im not the initiative type.
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i think she meant that he feels that she leaves everything to him
why lala, i wld not know how to help u cos since u urself duno why
then i of course wld have less then no idea wat is happening
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There are alot of things which he could mean by that.Originally posted by lala gal:Why my bf said that im not the initiative type?? what does he mean by that?
As master said, "sex" could be 1 of them.Things like holding hands,kissing,intimate acts,watching movies,calling up each other does count.
Btw you can determine what kind of person Master is from his post ( I am refering to his guess "sex"). -
hmmm.. maybe becos you din intiate to call him and always he call you??Originally posted by lala gal:Why my bf said that im not the initiative type?? what does he mean by that?
Maybe you din intiate to date him out and he always does?
Maybe he always spare his free time with you and you dun??
Maybe all you care most is about yourself.. which sometimes you dunno.. Its a HIDDEN SELF.. only outside ppl can noticed it.. but you cant figure out yourself.. unless someone tells you..
Small little things sometimes you think that is nothing.. but maybe to your bf is might be something big..
You should talk to him about it.. ask him what do he mean by that.. Cos there's alot of maybe here and there.. You oso dunno.. If he answer you like "What do you think it is"? then you tell him.. IF there's anything that you make him unhappy or upset about.. jus tell you straight..
Tell him that certain things.. you might have missed out.. and you dun even know.. TAlk to him nicely and see whats the whole picture about it..
From here maybe can compromise with each other.. ok??
CheerS!
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ask him wad he mean by initiative better(no point guessing here)
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Hmmm......
ur bf is SNAG ...
more sensitive than u ah ....... -
Mayb if u tuk the initiative n tell us wat happen we wldnt nid to ask so many questions....
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em.....dun mind me asking but did u 2 have sex liao?? If have den most prob he is refering to sex..... in a sense that u dun do the 1st move like arousing him all this.....Originally posted by lala gal:Why my bf said that im not the initiative type?? what does he mean by that?
If not, den its like those other small things like house chores etc...
Jus my point of view though..... -
I think your bf wants you to 'rape' him.
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hahaOriginally posted by shandower:I think your bf wants you to 'rape' him. -
if he dont like ur flaws, why shld u treasure him anymore?Originally posted by lala gal:im also not sure.... he din say. He juz say im not the initiative type.
i believe if u like/love a person, u shld like/love his/her flaws...
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x 2Originally posted by dark_slayer79:ask him wad he mean by initiative better(no point guessing here)
yah go ask him loh........ -
x 2 *nod nod*Originally posted by anfuni:i believe if u like/love a person, u shld like/love his/her flaws... -
we din have sex b4 but we had heavy petting. It's not that i din take the initiative at all, sometimes i still ask him out.
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ask him wat he mean lor...Originally posted by lala gal:we din have sex b4 but we had heavy petting. It's not that i din take the initiative at all, sometimes i still ask him out.
too initiative some guys oso dun like leh -
means you're a dead fish
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i think he means that although u might love him in ur heart, u doesn't shows it out... like talking and actions lor...Originally posted by lala gal:Why my bf said that im not the initiative type?? what does he mean by that? -
yup agree...maybe he feels tat he is the one making the first move all the time
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den during the heavy petting do u participate in it in a sense that u also touch him here and there to make him feel good......or he is the only one doing the job to make u feel good??Originally posted by lala gal:we din have sex b4 but we had heavy petting. It's not that i din take the initiative at all, sometimes i still ask him out.