The Good , the Bad and the vicious cycle...
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Hi,
Have you ever wondered why good guys die first and gals always fall for the "bastards" in life. I think it's becoz, gals "feel / think" nice guys are boring while bad boys give them a emotional roller coaster. Thus, they naturally feel that such love life is exciting without them realising.
The reason why guys treat gals nicely is becoz they are seriously in them and hope that it will last. This in turn become a vicious cycle as gals keep falling for bastards while leaving the good guys behind to sulk in their wake. Slowly but surely, even a good guy will morph into a bastard, nuture by this process. This simple equation will churn out more bastards...
Lesson learn is to treat the guys who are nice to you before you fall into the vicious cycle..... comments ??? -
Insightful piece of work. -
i knowOriginally posted by Parka: Insightful piece of work.
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it really depends what the guy seek in a relationship.. if it's a enduring, meaningful relationship he is after.. then he wouldn't be resentful about 'bastards'..
being truthful to yourselves and sincere to others is certainly a good principal..
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good guys = boring guys...
hmm... have to self reflect... hahahahaha -
not true wat. y good = boring?
anyway almost all the gers i know all wanna find a nice guy who loves them... onli minority r those player type -
Confucius say "Good guys die young....because whats the point of living so long if you have to be good?"
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I totally agree with you but in additional to the 2 theories above, I must throw in the last theory. That you must meet gals when they are in the "stable mode and not the "player"mode which are usually happen in 2 phases, firstly when they just discover the meaning of love, they will have the mentality of "forever n ever" but after some dumping / cheating by seasoned bastards, they will also adopt the players mode. After some time, when they are tired of changing bf then they will start to look for someone to sette down, and i dun mean marriages here....
3 theories combined into one that merge flawlessly -
so when those kind of gals reach a certain age and wanna settle down liao, then they suka suka find some guy to marry rite?
makes u wonder...u're in love with some gal...are you sure the gal's gonna marry u for the right reasons? -
Ha...
That the biggest problem I have... even a 5 yrs relationship cannot confirm whether she rite for me.. so now I'm so lost till no longer know the meaning of love...
Falling for all the wrong type of gals...sigh.. so now into love / relationship mgmt... coming out with theories based on my life experiences...
regards -
King Fisher - maybe you have to determine what you want from a girlfriend, before you know whether she's right for you.
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Hi Choco B,
I just lost faith in love as I no longer have the ability to know who is the one for me in life. In fact, I have a current gal friend but deep down i dun think she is the one.
I have a liking for another gal but likewise she also has a current bf, but when we going out together, we behave like couple. My friends tell me she is just leading me on and she would not commit. Even I know this but a call from her will just make me rush to her side like a knight or in this case more like a puppy. She told me that she has feelings for me but when I need her, she never around.
"Love is like a pain that start from the centre that will engulf you to the core" -
what good is a stead if ur ard when she needs concern and help but she's nowhere to be found when u ask for some love n concern?