What is she thinking
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Can you guys out there accept this type of ger. Like in the courting phase she go out with a few guys and have a not "so normal couting relationship" -sexually involved.
Imagine only in courting phase. 
Do you think it's still worth courting her, cause the way she act in term is very "Loose".
I think she is one of those "player" in this field, man, she really screwed my mind - not sexually, but mentally ( Like i like you but i also like this guy and that guy ). Want to start a normal relationship with her, but i think "gone case".
Just want to let it out of my mind, thank for reading.
Make up my mind, throwing her out of my life. 
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i think she still wan to play around doesn't wan to settle down so fast..... if you are serious i think you should reconsider... but you never know... you might be able to change her....
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Agree...Originally posted by Souledge:i think she still wan to play around doesn't wan to settle down so fast..... if you are serious i think you should reconsider... but you never know... you might be able to change her.... -
some guys would mind but some guys really dont. if you really mind it then better not go on with the relationship... it can be really painful in the heart. if you dont mind then i gues it's ok to go on. but if she already change, then i think it's ok, at least she never lie or hide her true feelings. but if you think she hiding something or not being honest then wait longer... love is a great thing but it can also be a very painful thing.
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change has to come from within her.. u can't changer her... accept her if u can... if not, wait till she changes or when you can accept her as she is.. it's all about timingOriginally posted by Souledge:i think she still wan to play around doesn't wan to settle down so fast..... if you are serious i think you should reconsider... but you never know... you might be able to change her.... -
Hahah my frnd, u r definitely right.. She looks like a pro player.. Dun get ur fingers burnt. However she might be confused about who to go for too.. Better clear up the air.. or... u'r the victim.Originally posted by MagicOne:Can you guys out there accept this type of ger. Like in the courting phase she go out with a few guys and have a not "so normal couting relationship" -sexually involved. Imagine only in courting phase.
Do you think it's still worth courting her, cause the way she act in term is very "Loose".
I think she is one of those "player" in this field, man, she really screwed my mind - not sexually, but mentally ( Like i like you but i also like this guy and that guy ). Want to start a normal relationship with her, but i think "gone case".
Just want to let it out of my mind, thank for reading. Make up my mind, throwing her out of my life. 
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prepare urself to accept it b4 tinkin of changin her....at least if u can't change her u still can accept it....but i doubt so...u already gt the perception dat she's loose....Originally posted by MagicOne:Can you guys out there accept this type of ger. Like in the courting phase she go out with a few guys and have a not "so normal couting relationship" -sexually involved. Imagine only in courting phase.
Do you think it's still worth courting her, cause the way she act in term is very "Loose".
I think she is one of those "player" in this field, man, she really screwed my mind - not sexually, but mentally ( Like i like you but i also like this guy and that guy ). Want to start a normal relationship with her, but i think "gone case".
Just want to let it out of my mind, thank for reading. Make up my mind, throwing her out of my life. -
how u know she's loose??? and how u know she fooled around in the first place??
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what do you mean 'Loose'?
btw, why dont you give details about her identity? scarly someone from here know about her... heh. might be able to help. -
We met on net. Then chatted on the phone for a few weeks, from there she told me all about her past lifestyle ( Sex Parther, Love life, family problems and etc ).
Hey man, i can accept a lady with a past, cause i believe if she willing to be with me, why should i mind her past.
We met and have a nice evening together. Believe me, i try no monkey business with her on the first date.( Hope to develop it into an serious relationship ).
We chatted abt meeting up later on phones for some time again, she told me she comfortable and like to carry on with me futher( Seriously i am damm happy when she say that )
Then came the changes, she still date me and answer my call but the duration is shorthen each time. She is always like in a rush to somewhere or answer some call secretly. Finally i asked her what wrong, does she have a problem or something i can help.
Then she knew that i suspected something, she confessed to some shocking thing to me, She actually have a sexually affair with someone she met on the chatroom, when we are dating. And they are still meeting( ensure that she is holding more, for i can tell from the way she talk to me ). Bloody 2 timer lady.
Imagine i seriouly wanted this lady, as my gf and even my wife overlooking her past. But she treated me as a fool.My Blood is boiling to the core.
If she is doesn't like me, tell me at else we can be friends and not ended in this way. Sometime ladies like this type, can make men turn their back to relationship. -
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that sucks man! she chinese, malay or indian or what? wanna plan to sabo her??? heh.
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no way i can accept this kind of gal........Originally posted by MagicOne:Can you guys out there accept this type of ger. Like in the courting phase she go out with a few guys and have a not "so normal couting relationship" -sexually involved. Imagine only in courting phase.
Do you think it's still worth courting her, cause the way she act in term is very "Loose".
I think she is one of those "player" in this field, man, she really screwed my mind - not sexually, but mentally ( Like i like you but i also like this guy and that guy ). Want to start a normal relationship with her, but i think "gone case".
Just want to let it out of my mind, thank for reading. Make up my mind, throwing her out of my life.