If ur gf is unfaithful to u, will u forgive her?
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If ever u meet a ger whom u really love and rationally analysed that both of u really can get along well and can be life-partners, but during the relationship, she is unfaithful to u. Will u forgive her? If so, how many times u will forgive her?
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Isnt this like the past few topics on the guys being unfaithful... just that its now on the other party...
For me guess it would really be had to say cause i havent been in that situation.. i would forgive her and will give the relationship another go but in the case where it happens again i think i will still forgive her but i wont want to carry on the relationship. Also depends on sitiuation and how remorseful she is i guess... -
Of course not, I will have sex with her till I am tired of her. Then I dump her.Originally posted by chaicka:If ever u meet a ger whom u really love and rationally analysed that both of u really can get along well and can be life-partners, but during the relationship, she is unfaithful to u. Will u forgive her? If so, how many times u will forgive her? -
i'll demand a menage a trois with the girl of my choice and my GF as an apology
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hahaha..i like this idea!!! i will play her inside out then dump her.Originally posted by Stanguy:Of course not, I will have sex with her till I am tired of her. Then I dump her. -
Most likely
but at most only twice -
wah.... play her then dump her... wah all gers must be careful of u all guys...heehee...
why not ask her wats wroong...is there anything wrong between u two.... if theres nothing wroong just because she wanted to play around...
i can say forget it loh guy.... she's not fated to be urs... no use giving each other chances... b/c i can say it will be noo end... -
no way i would forgive............
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Originally posted by chaicka:If ever u meet a ger whom u really love and rationally analysed that both of u really can get along well and can be life-partners, but during the relationship, she is unfaithful to u. Will u forgive her? If so, how many times u will forgive her?
unlikely 2 happen 2 me..bcos i know my gf well enuf b4 steppin in2 relatnship..if she reali dat sort of girl..she wud not hav been my gf in da 1st place liao.. -
h,,,Originally posted by R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n:Isnt this like the past few topics on the guys being unfaithful... just that its now on the other party...
For me guess it would really be had to say cause i havent been in that situation.. i would forgive her and will give the relationship another go but in the case where it happens again i think i will still forgive her but i wont want to carry on the relationship. Also depends on sitiuation and how remorseful she is i guess...
...ya i thk i think i will forgive her and give the relationship another chance....if it goes on well then jus put that past behind us and goes on lor....well who dun make mistakes....but if like wat Revelation said, if she let me down again, yes i will still forgive her but chances are i will end the relationship. -
That's where I would disagree.Originally posted by boy in blues: unlikely 2 happen 2 me..bcos i know my gf well enuf b4 steppin in2 relatnship..if she reali dat sort of girl..she wud not hav been my gf in da 1st place liao..
Things happens, human changes, temptations, etc etc..
You never know what's going to happen next...
Even a model couple I noe of, a gd ger who ain't those unfaithful type can end up she going out and had an affair, end up divorce. U say leh.... -
but if you all really like her a chance also cannot meh
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Should this thread ever reaches 3 pages, I will post my personal experience here...Originally posted by Forever84:but if you all really like her a chance also cannot meh -
bravoOriginally posted by chaicka:Should this thread ever reaches 3 pages, I will post my personal experience here...
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Whats with people posting their opinions after so and so replies. Anyways, I dont know what I will do. It seems unlikely in my relationship now, oh, I'm female, btw. But, I dont think I will forgive that person if he cheats on me. However, I think someone mention something about asking the fault in the relationship. I think that is a good idea. That's why I like this forum, loads of diverse opinions. Anyways, I'm off topic.
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wah... big words!!!! u never know a person too well!!Originally posted by boy in blues: unlikely 2 happen 2 me..bcos i know my gf well enuf b4 steppin in2 relatnship..if she reali dat sort of girl..she wud not hav been my gf in da 1st place liao.. -
Originally posted by J fellow:wah... big words!!!! u never know a person too well!! both parties shud trust each other..b able 2 communicate wifout fear of reproach, bcos each understand d other's capacity 2 accept him/her as he/she is..2 know some1 well, shud 1st let 1self b known..such qualities help a relationship survive thru uncertainties..
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this type of question hard to answer lar.
my initial answer is no. but it really depends lor. -
never underestimate what one incident can do.Originally posted by boy in blues: unlikely 2 happen 2 me..bcos i know my gf well enuf b4 steppin in2 relatnship..if she reali dat sort of girl..she wud not hav been my gf in da 1st place liao.. 
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i will f her until i song den dump her
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No.Originally posted by chaicka:she is unfaithful to u. Will u forgive her? If -
over my dead body.once the trust is broken,its always hard to build back.moreover,can she really be so sure that she won't cheat again??it will always create a
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I would bear with pain of losing her ( short-term ), then making myself and herself misery.
Imagine having to suspect if she is sleeping with another guy when you are not with her is a very painful through to have. Some more, when she slept with the guys, she didn't care so much abt you then.
Once broken, even if mend, there is also a scar. -
depends..
sometimes, emotions confuses you.. so when you say one thing now.. you may do another when you really face the problem.. -
Aye that is so true... many a times we are blinded by our emotions.. really hard to judge what you will do in that actually situation when anger n hurt seep in than when u cool down theres always pride that comes in and well other emotions that all come into play.Originally posted by sillyme:depends..
sometimes, emotions confuses you.. so when you say one thing now.. you may do another when you really face the problem..
About the part about knowing someone... i think its an ongoing process as much as we think we know a person we all live behind a mask to a certain extend whether we like to admit it or not.
But we are all bound to make mistakes cause we arnt perfect so i guess everybody deserves a 2nd chance no?