Normal for a guy not to Masturbate?
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Hi there, this is something that has been bothering me all these years but just too shy to speak to anyone on it.
Well i have watch porn b4, have fantasies on girls and all just like a normal guy would. Thing is that my bro will erect from the sexual stimulation but it will just end there, i have nvr have any desire to Masturbate so as to release the sexual tension.From what i know, my friends will mostly M when they r in similar situation. Well i have tried to do it b4 but even after the gentle stroking and stuff, what i feel is only pain and not pleasure from this supposed further sexual stimulation.My bro also go like swollen after just a while like maybe only 3 mins. Dun know if real sex is like this since i m still a V.
What i fear is that, i will not be able to have sex properly later in life. Thus to summarize thru all these 6-8 years since puberty, whenever i have any sexual stimulation, it will just end with my bro erecting and it will end there. I have nvr have any desire to M or have actual sex to release the tension. Does anyone know if this is normal or is it that i just have too low a sex drive to begin with ? -
yes its veri normal lor......
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Normal lah Bro, dun worry...
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Don't worry boy... speak your hearts out to a Doctor or a Phsychologist near you. They'll will help you.Originally posted by Cyberix:Hi there, this is something that has been bothering me all these years but just too shy to speak to anyone on it.
Well i have watch porn b4, have fantasies on girls and all just like a normal guy would. Thing is that my bro will erect from the sexual stimulation but it will just end there, i have nvr have any desire to Masturbate so as to release the sexual tension.From what i know, my friends will mostly M when they r in similar situation. Well i have tried to do it b4 but even after the gentle stroking and stuff, what i feel is only pain and not pleasure from this supposed further sexual stimulation.My bro also go like swollen after just a while like maybe only 3 mins. Dun know if real sex is like this since i m still a V.
What i fear is that, i will not be able to have sex properly later in life. Thus to summarize thru all these 6-8 years since puberty, whenever i have any sexual stimulation, it will just end with my bro erecting and it will end there. I have nvr have any desire to M or have actual sex to release the tension. Does anyone know if this is normal or is it that i just have too low a sex drive to begin with ?
Take care and cheers.
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how o r u ? tel us firstOriginally posted by Cyberix:Hi there, this is something that has been bothering me all these years but just too shy to speak to anyone on it.
Well i have watch porn b4, have fantasies on girls and all just like a normal guy would. Thing is that my bro will erect from the sexual stimulation but it will just end there, i have nvr have any desire to Masturbate so as to release the sexual tension.From what i know, my friends will mostly M when they r in similar situation. Well i have tried to do it b4 but even after the gentle stroking and stuff, what i feel is only pain and not pleasure from this supposed further sexual stimulation.My bro also go like swollen after just a while like maybe only 3 mins. Dun know if real sex is like this since i m still a V.
What i fear is that, i will not be able to have sex properly later in life. Thus to summarize thru all these 6-8 years since puberty, whenever i have any sexual stimulation, it will just end with my bro erecting and it will end there. I have nvr have any desire to M or have actual sex to release the tension. Does anyone know if this is normal or is it that i just have too low a sex drive to begin with ?
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Dun worrie too much....its pretty normal to feel dat way n the pain as well...
Regarding the pain which u had felt after stroking for a while rite... hmmmm
... its normal..cos of the fore skin. Do u noe which one is the fore skin? As u r still a virgin, the fore skin has not been down fully yet...dats y u will feel the pain when u try to pull the fore skin downwards...
Probably u wanna try to masturbate in different ways...try it out on yr own n may be u will find a way whereby it will not be painful for u...
My 2 cents worth...all the best n hope u enjoy it as much as yr frens do
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wah u really know a lot about guys..Originally posted by elmoloveyou:Dun worrie too much....its pretty normal to feel dat way n the pain as well...
Regarding the pain which u had felt after stroking for a while rite... hmmmm ... its normal..cos of the fore skin. Do u noe which one is the fore skin? As u r still a virgin, the fore skin has not been down fully yet...dats y u will feel the pain when u try to pull the fore skin downwards...
Probably u wanna try to masturbate in different ways...try it out on yr own n may be u will find a way whereby it will not be painful for u...
My 2 cents worth...all the best n hope u enjoy it as much as yr frens do 
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Well i will be 20 this yearOriginally posted by Peepupu:how o r u ? tel us first ! -
You PERVERT
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Very normal for BoyishBoy.... ~WAHAHAhahahahaha...Originally posted by BoYisHbOy:yes its veri normal lor...... " -
oh dun worry. i haven done tt since i was born.
hahahahahah...
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buy urself a sex toy, so u wont hurt ur didi right ? bare hands can be quite rough also !Originally posted by Cyberix:Hi there, this is something that has been bothering me all these years but just too shy to speak to anyone on it.
Well i have watch porn b4, have fantasies on girls and all just like a normal guy would. Thing is that my bro will erect from the sexual stimulation but it will just end there, i have nvr have any desire to Masturbate so as to release the sexual tension.From what i know, my friends will mostly M when they r in similar situation. Well i have tried to do it b4 but even after the gentle stroking and stuff, what i feel is only pain and not pleasure from this supposed further sexual stimulation.My bro also go like swollen after just a while like maybe only 3 mins. Dun know if real sex is like this since i m still a V.
What i fear is that, i will not be able to have sex properly later in life. Thus to summarize thru all these 6-8 years since puberty, whenever i have any sexual stimulation, it will just end with my bro erecting and it will end there. I have nvr have any desire to M or have actual sex to release the tension. Does anyone know if this is normal or is it that i just have too low a sex drive to begin with ? -
but what i heard is if guys don't masturbate or have sex to relieve their build-up hormones, then they'll be more likely to have wet dreams?
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I dunno. Maybe u have tight foreskin or something? Should get it circumcised if u feel pain... By right shouldn't be. Anyway i've went to talks and there's no wrong in masturbating. Its healthy, and keeps u from become a sex maniac actually haha... And ya, true, reduces wet dreams
Dun over do it tho, masturbate only when u feel like it, not because you MUST every do it at least twice a day or something. Else it'll be an addiction, then not healthy liao.
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Originally posted by kim_hwoarang:buy urself a sex toy, so u wont hurt ur didi right ? bare hands can be quite rough also !
Yeah! go to http://www.realdoll.com/