What would you do if...

• R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n

  27 May 03, 10:20

  You like this person but the person is alreayd with somebody else and they are doing fine... would u still try n win the persons heart or do you love that person enough to let them be?
• sillyme

  27 May 03, 10:25

  nah... if you are in a relationship yourself, you wouldn't want someone to ruin yours as well..
• Xynthia

  27 May 03, 10:29

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  nah... if you are in a relationship yourself, you wouldn't want someone to ruin yours as well..

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• skinnybeanie

  27 May 03, 10:29

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  nah... if you are in a relationship yourself, you wouldn't want someone to ruin yours as well..

  exactly my sentiments!
  it's no good to be a 3rd party, end up hurting yourself and others in the process.
• the Bear

  27 May 03, 10:30

  What would I do?
  
  I'd suffer in silence, go somewhere else.
  
  

  Originally posted by R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n:

  You like this person but the person is alreayd with somebody else and they are doing fine... would u still try n win the persons heart or do you love that person enough to let them be?

• R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n

  27 May 03, 10:54

  And if that person tells you that he/she has interest in you... would u stil do nothing.. let chance slip by or still do nothing?
  
• skinnybeanie

  27 May 03, 10:59

  Originally posted by R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n:

  And if that person tells you that he/she has interest in you... would u stil do nothing.. let chance slip by or still do nothing?
  

  if i'm in your position, i'll ask her if there's any prob between she n her bf. And if yes, to solve it before looking for a 3rd party. She has her responsibilities towards her bf. Likewise, if u have a gf, u would want her to clarify things with u before jumping onto another wagon.
• sillyme

  27 May 03, 10:59

  Originally posted by R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n:

  And if that person tells you that he/she has interest in you... would u stil do nothing.. let chance slip by or still do nothing?
  

  if she said that while she's in another relationship.. isn't it suspect?
• the Bear

  27 May 03, 11:00

  And if you win her over, what's going to stop her from doing exactly the same thing to you while you 2 are considered a couple?
  
  

  Originally posted by R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n:

  And if that person tells you that he/she has interest in you... would u stil do nothing.. let chance slip by or still do nothing?
  

• skinnybeanie

  27 May 03, 11:01

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  if she said that while she's in another relationship.. isn't it suspect?

  ya lor, if can do it to her bf, can also do it to next bf. She's taking a shortcut. Should make her set records straight and then see where the path leads.
• R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n

  27 May 03, 11:27

  I am not the one in this situation .. just that i've seen so many kinda of similar situation so wanna get more views on this topic..
  
  Everybody seems to dislike the idea of being the 3rd party including me but when you find yourself in that position your principles do tend to get cloud dont they...
  
  Funny life is just fool of contridictions....
• choco B

  27 May 03, 12:15

  Wouldn't tackle her if she's attached (actually him in my case) but hang around and keep in contact. You'll never know when he's single again!
• sillyme

  27 May 03, 12:19

  Originally posted by R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n:

  I am not the one in this situation .. just that i've seen so many kinda of similar situation so wanna get more views on this topic..
  
  Everybody seems to dislike the idea of being the 3rd party including me but when you find yourself in that position your principles do tend to get cloud dont they...
  
  Funny life is just fool of contridictions....

  very perceptive insight.. most times, it's easier talking the walk then walking the talk..