I had sex with my gf's best friend!!!!
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tai guo fen le!!~~Originally posted by zyvier:What am i to do......i didnt want it to happen...but she initiated.....Any advise?
dun say u dun wan lor.. personali i tink it takes 2 hands 2 clap de lor.. no one can force u if u reali dun wan de...
wil kil my bf 4 that...
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jerk~!~!
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i think this guy is being condemed by starting this thread....but i think he needs help to try n fix e situation so i think we beetr give him some constructive replies or he might really lose it here.....
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gif him advice on how to keep the truth from his gf or help him to get out of tis terrible thing tat he got himself into...haiz...bless his gfOriginally posted by harryryan:i think this guy is being condemed by starting this thread....but i think he needs help to try n fix e situation so i think we beetr give him some constructive replies or he might really lose it here..... -
think he is sorry liao lah.... maybe he is trying to clear up this mess...... i have never been in such a situation b4 n honestly i have no idea how to help but seems like everyone is just bombarding him for wat he has done n not seen that he is trying to find a way to make things rite again.Originally posted by snowf|akes*:gif him advice on how to keep the truth from his gf or help him to get out of tis terrible thing tat he got himself into...haiz...bless his gf -
as i recalled, there was an old tcs drama where this gal went overseas to study then her bf and her best friend felt too lonely and sought each other for companionship....in the end the gal found out..r/s broken off..her fren later died of illness..the guy left with no one...
moral of the story..it doesn't pay to **** with a gal and her best fren...prepare to get slaughtered by both sides...rip...
ps...since u dun realli treasure ur gf why not intro her to me?
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whoo.. cool it little one.Originally posted by snowf|akes*:jerk~!~! 
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frm a female's pt of view...
If my Bf did that 2 me....
I DUN TINK I WOULD EVER FORGIVE HIM!
cuz there wun be anymore trust in this relationship anymore...
n even if we try 2 work things out, it wun ever b same again..
It's like mending a broken vase... the cracks will always be there...
B4 i dump him, i would do something drastic 2 him & that wh0re!!! -
/me kickz joho...Originally posted by jOhO:whoo.. cool it little one. 
how to cool down when u hear tis kind of thing...so unfair to the poor gf -
dis guy my hero
WAHAHAHAHAHA
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but if you tell her, maybe she confess she got do wif ur buddy oreadyOriginally posted by shimmy:better tell her! u wouldn't want to be the victim if ur gf has sex with one of your best buddies rite? -
Ooooooooh that hurtsOriginally posted by pinkygirl^_^:but if you tell her, maybe she confess she got do wif ur buddy oready -
sorry to say this... but you're sucks man !!!Originally posted by zyvier:What am i to do......i didnt want it to happen...but she initiated.....Any advise?
once you've done that.. nobody can guarantee there won't be the second and third and ..and..and..
better keep away from her. is she really your g/f's best friend ????!!! geeezzzzz..... -
Honestly man i think u also want it in the fist place. Come on is not like your gf's fr point a gun at u asking u to do it. One advice - Do what u think is right. U can chose to hide it or to tell the truth , just remember don't regert your action and run away from it. That is NOT cool.
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i think THE SECRET WUN BE KEPT LONG.. zi si bao bu zhu huo de.. sure the girl will tell.. so b4 she tell u better tell ur gf 1st.. but tell ur gf later break... dunno.. u better decide urself..
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Wat done cannot be undone le... Sometimes guys juz couldn't help it lar... so me think best is DUN ever tell your gf... Even if confronted by ur gf... Dun ever admit it if you really love her... jian chi dao di... This kinda thing can never be forgotten and forgiven de... so ... if you wanna keep her die die must DENY ALL THE WAY...
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interesting how a controversial thread incite such varied opinions...
anybody know that guy personally or can verify his story???
most of the guys will said u r nuts 2 talk abt it...
all the gals hate u n u still don't get any solutions
so wat's the point 2 talk abt it in the 1st place
provided it's true...
good luck n bear the consequences
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Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:Yeah...heres a gift for you...Please DIY...
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Pardon me for using ur post as reference.Originally posted by *evanesence*:frm a female's pt of view...
If my Bf did that 2 me....
I DUN TINK I WOULD EVER FORGIVE HIM!
cuz there wun be anymore trust in this relationship anymore...
n even if we try 2 work things out, it wun ever b same again..
It's like mending a broken vase... the cracks will always be there...
B4 i dump him, i would do something drastic 2 him & that wh0re!!!
I am not encouraging anyone to do such things, nor am I trying to say such acts is right or wrong. What I wanna get across is the fact that human make mistakes, and in a true serious relationship, if both parties really love each other, then running away from problems ain't a solution at all.
Relationships is never perfect and bound to have problems, issues that both parties need to face together, be it juz a BGR or Marriage. Relationships ain't like those fairy tales you read or heard about when you are young. In reality, there are lots and lots of obstacles that both have to face together, in order for that relationship to work out.
Yes, it may not be the same as before, and to rebuild that trust, it is tougher and not easily achieveable. However, have anyone ever give it a thought that when such incidents occurs, it may not be the fault of a single person. Furthermore, if both parties can get over the incident and move on with life, ain't the bond going to be stronger.
In relationship, the bond is strengthen with every single obstacles that both face and cross over together. Love and bond is build bit by bit, accumulated over time and not juz an overnight task.
Lastly, again. I am not encouraging anyone to be unfaithful to their partners. Juz that facing problems instead of running away from it should be the approach we take in our lives. -
Originally posted by harryryan:think he is sorry liao lah.... maybe he is trying to clear up this mess...... i have never been in such a situation b4 n honestly i have no idea how to help but seems like everyone is just bombarding him for wat he has done n not seen that he is trying to find a way to make things rite again.
good reply from a guy with a big heart..if his girlfriend's best friend was a virgin, then he really must be held accountable to that friend for consequences like say a baby? but wouldn't that be more like fulfilling a moral obligation than engaging in fruitful relationship?..now it pretty much depends on whether that friend will let the matter rest.. -
wah, u win liao... my advise is just be truthful if u really treasure her...
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die liao lor dun ever think the ur gf would ever forgive u if she finds out pls dun let her find out oso... just stop the relationship wif ur gf's frd & be a good bf to ur gf .....
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That's rite, harryryan, Constructive comments!
If i was you,
i would
1) Call the best friend up, talk with her about what we done is wrong and shouldnt do it again
2)I would say: We would remain as friends and no more sexual contacts, i believe you still dont want to lose a best friend, rite.
3) I say: I would never be with you, no matter what happens. (if she begs for secret affair.
4) I say: I would never be with you even if you tell my gf that i went to bed with you, cos i would beg my gf to forgive me. If she dont forgive me, which i sure she would with my sincerety, i would still ignore you.
5) Friends forever!
6) Dont tell your gf, block that memory, telling and admitting is useless. Honesty sometimes doesnt pay.Be sure not to make the same mistakes again.
7) Care more for ur gf, buy her flowers, gifts and hug her like u never did.Whenever, u two want to start a arguement, think about the wrongs that u have done, and KEEP ur MOUTH shut. This will lessen ur guilt, even if she's in the wrong. But just softly reason with her and not shouting. I noe guys have the tendency to shout cos i also guy. -
well u're not wrong, but no point getting upset over ONE man... when the rest of us here are just the opposite!Originally posted by snowf|akes*:/me kickz joho...
how to cool down when u hear tis kind of thing...so unfair to the poor gf
okokok seriously, like i posted on the first page, this fella post this type of thread is just to dee siow only lar...
i mean ok fine, there probably are guys (and gals?) that have done sh[/i]it like that and feel TOTALLY guilt-ridden. at least if they are there's some "room" for discussion. but this fella just posted one line. i dun think he's really worth ur anguish.
don't worree the guy u choose won't be like that. choose well and make him feel soooo scared of losing u that he wouldn't even DREAM of doing such a thing.